How to end a correspondence without hurting the other person? (48)
TulefellGothenburg, Vastra Gotaland Sweden104 Threads 5 Polls 3,306 PostsToonage09: Be blunt Be bold ....Rejection hurts and for some it cuts like a knife but eventually the bleeding stops and the pain goes away
Yes, there's no need to cut a tail bit by bit. And it is what people, who want to be nice do. The other once are called rude. Place your bets :DTulefell: ... It is about the expected reaction. ...but for me a person's attitude to the current regimen in Russia is important.."
I do understand your attitude. What amazes me is cutting relationship for something imposed on you by mass media. Why does one need to take sides? Just because media is framing you? One side OR the other.
Sorry, none, neither!! Or both. I feel sorry for ANY unnecessary victim on ANY side.
common_me: I do understand your attitude. What amazes me is cutting relationship for something imposed on you by mass media.
Why does one need to take sides? Just because media is framing you? One side OR the other.
Sorry, none, neither!! Or both. I feel sorry for ANY unnecessary victim on ANY side.
Well... Not cutting, but not letting to evolve in this very stead. Why does one need to take sides? Just because media is framing you? One side OR the other.
Sorry, none, neither!! Or both. I feel sorry for ANY unnecessary victim on ANY side.
But if you want to continue the conversation on the subject: bombing or shelling a town is not imposed by masse media. It is what happened. Open source intelligent is not masse media: they show photos and locations.
And yes, it totally matters for me: I do not want to be together with a huilo supporter or an anti-vaxxer of a Q-anonist.
One of my former friends got married to an anti-abortionist and then kept complaining that they fight almost every day on the subject and it's impossible to live together. They got 2 children and then divorced. I can ask why she married him in the first place, but at that time I was beyond caring. Good enough for me to mind my own wee business.
But yes, lots of things that other people do, are amazing :)
As to the sides: there's a perpetrator and there's a victim. I do feel sorry for a victim no matter the side, but let not forget who is the perpetrator.
And no, I did not manage to end that correspondence :(
He asked why I's quiet for a month and I answered with a nice letter as nothing happened. I just hadn't guts enough.
Perhaps, there's a separate cauldron in hell for women like me... or perhaps there's nothing beyond the grave. Remains to see :)
He asked why I's quiet for a month and I answered with a nice letter as nothing happened. I just hadn't guts enough.
Perhaps, there's a separate cauldron in hell for women like me... or perhaps there's nothing beyond the grave. Remains to see :)
Tulefell:
Have you ever been in that situation? How to end the communication without
hurting them? Disappear from the radars without a word? Or tell them you are not worth them? Or what?
Advice needed.
It's best to just be honest and say that you don't think he's suitable for you and aren't interested in going further.Have you ever been in that situation? How to end the communication without
hurting them? Disappear from the radars without a word? Or tell them you are not worth them? Or what?
Advice needed.
"In my opinion
whitelily1: It's best to just be honest and say that you don't think he's suitable for you and aren't interested in going further.
"In my opinion
Well... are you a diplomat? 'coz that was very well formulated :)"In my opinion
To tell the truth, though, it's me who is not suitable for anyone. But as soon as you say it, there always will be someone claiming the opposite, bless their hears :)
Tulefell: Well... are you a diplomat? 'coz that was very well formulated :)
To tell the truth, though, it's me who is not suitable for anyone. But as soon as you say it, there always will be someone claiming the opposite, bless their hears :)
Ask yourself how you would like to be told OPTo tell the truth, though, it's me who is not suitable for anyone. But as soon as you say it, there always will be someone claiming the opposite, bless their hears :)
Tulefell: Have you ever been in situation when after a while of corresponding you’ve concluded that your counterpart is not whom you’d consider as someone you’d like to go to a date with?
It’s not their fault: they were polite and sincere on every matter, it is not a question of you suspecting a foul play or anything like that. Just one or another tiny sign hinting that it’s not going to work. Just the person as is, is not your pot of tea.
Have you ever been in that situation? How to end the communication without hurting them? Disappear from the radars without a word? Or tell them you are not worth them? Or what?
Advice needed.
Is this about me? I only asked you to pay half of the bill because you ordered lobster, I didn't even get a good night kissIt’s not their fault: they were polite and sincere on every matter, it is not a question of you suspecting a foul play or anything like that. Just one or another tiny sign hinting that it’s not going to work. Just the person as is, is not your pot of tea.
Have you ever been in that situation? How to end the communication without hurting them? Disappear from the radars without a word? Or tell them you are not worth them? Or what?
Advice needed.
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