101 Ways to Win a Woman's Heart! ( Archived) (56)

Ok, sweet one. I am giving a massage. I think at the neck and to rub your sore shoulders would be relaxing.

ohhhh ohhh yeah baby thats it! see guys I told ya...putty in his hands!

Let me give an idea. In order for a man to win my heart and affection.I need communication and attention to details, really listen to what I like and don't, my kids are very important to me so someone who interest on my kids,(genuine interest, believe me I know the difference) for example; ask me how are they? If one of them or both have a problem or is sick and I have commented, ask with real interest on their conditions. There is more to add but this just an example. It is not just thing but a combination of several things.

Not to even try!
goes against logic, but so does truth sometimes.

I met a guy yesterday. We went somewhere and had drinks and talked for almost 3hrs. It was wonderful and refreshing. No lewd comments and he offered to take me AND my daughter out to dinner. He got big points for that. He was complimenitive without over doing it and sounding insincere. His best friend called and he told him he was on a date and couldn't talk. How sweet is that. When we parted he didn't try to kiss me.( too soon for that) He gave me a big bear hug and made me promise to call. ( he gave me his number and was fine that i didn't want to give mine quite yet) It's all these little things that us women pick up on that means so much to us.

I just be myself.

That already works too well.

I think I need to tone it down a little.

Oh wait,... Is that confidence or just an ego that's trying to reproduce the Big Bang? I can't think clearly anymore.

THANK YOU! Drkeyedbeauty that is what I'm looking for on this thread, men and women talk different languages and the intention is to let them know, what is that really catch our attention.

If you have to think, then you have to fail.

I don't do anything to win a woman's heart on the first date.

In fact, I never do anything to win a woman's heart.

I'm pretty serious about just being myself actually. I don't do anything with the idea in my mind that I'm doing it to impress or win a women's heart. I take an interest in the things that are important to her because that's where my sincere interest lies too. If that impresses her or wins her hearts fine. But I certainly didn't do those things with that purpose in mind.

I'm also a natural romantic. I like being romantic. It's a very big part of who I am. I see romance in the world even when I'm alone. I like to pick a wild flower in a field and offer it to my women as a symbol of my affection for her. I don't do it to impress her, I do it because it's genuinely what I want to do. I like to show her that I cherish her company. I like to show her that I have romantic feelings for her.

If I were interested in a woman and she had kids I would automatically be interested in her kids. I fully understand that her kids are as much a part of her as her very own heart. I would instinctively protect and care about her kids as much as I would instinctively protect and care about her. I'm very much a family-oriented person. More so than I even care to reveal publicly.

So in short, I never do anything to win a woman's heart or affection. If my normal natural behavior doesn't do it, then there's no sense in playing games is there?

So I think my attitude really does boil down to the confidence of who I am, and it's not due to an infinitely expanding ego.

I believe that's what Illuminate is saying also,... if you can't win a woman's heart and affection by just being yourself then forget it. Trying to figure out superficial ways to do that are bound to fail especially over time when your true nature finally reveals itself.

I agree, not in so many words, but YES, so very true.