You are right!!! I had my longest relationship ( 4,5 years ) with my least handsome boyfriend ( in fact he was not a babyface but all my friends were attracted to him ) As soon as he started to talk, he would attract anybody like a magnet ( even boys would listen to him carefully when he talked ) I think it's called charisma
"Attractive" means different things to different people,
Physically, for example.... In some parts of the world, it's attractive to stretch earlobes, in some parts of the world necks are stretched by way of metal coils and in some parts of the world long distended breasts are all the rage, others want a more beachball (Californian)look (no, I'm not kidding about any of them). Some like thin models and others prefer a more Rubenesque shape, it's all relative.
Myself? I find different people attractive in different ways.
Yah know TM with that pic you have posted at the moment and my box of crayons here, I must say I am finding you, (making you?) rather attractive....perhaps I am shallow....
and although you have attempted to explain yourself and the reason's behind your thoughts - they still strike me as shallow and immature and irrevelant to the fact that human beings are more than their physical appearance.
As for people taking what they can get - I wish you luck.
less atractive.....wow like to think i've grown to a point where I veiw all women like books. Sometimes the cover does indeed match the content but as most folks that read will attest too that is not the case.
a woman that feels less attractive then the population is more apt tobe more productive/stay busy, also is more apt to be more appreciative, but is also more apt to be inquistive because of attention given her. and that last part could be a bad thing
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I don't really thing there are "ugly" people, there definitely are ugly personalities.
A person can be dirty, very out of shape and yukky, but physical attractiveness is different for everyone.