What's the best reason to date a less attractive person? ( Archived) (79)

Mar 26, 2007 7:03 AM CST What's the best reason to date a less attractive person?
bamabeecee
bamabeeceebamabeeceeBanks of the Warrior River, USA50 Threads 1,641 Posts
You have to be the most shallow woman, person even, I have ever read. Jeez, grow up already. Nah, 33 already, too late, ain't gonna happen. dunno
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Mar 26, 2007 7:43 AM CST What's the best reason to date a less attractive person?
RillyNiceGuy
RillyNiceGuyRillyNiceGuySoutheast, Arkansas USA839 Threads 13,003 Posts
Ok! You have got the best looking person in all history to be yours. Then there is an accident and that person is changed into a pile of hamburger in the looks department. Where are you now? What are you going to do?professor
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Mar 26, 2007 8:00 AM CST What's the best reason to date a less attractive person?
RainbowSlider
RainbowSliderRainbowSliderYellville, USA171 Threads 7,174 Posts
That makes sense, Len and one can feel less intimidation by a less attractive person so that attraction can be replaced by a feeling of mutual acceptance.
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Mar 26, 2007 9:03 AM CST What's the best reason to date a less attractive person?
RainbowSlider
RainbowSliderRainbowSliderYellville, USA171 Threads 7,174 Posts
I think a good communicator is attractive. I mean skin can be attractive but if you got to skin them to find if they are attractive inside then I think they would lose their attractiveness.
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Mar 26, 2007 9:14 AM CST What's the best reason to date a less attractive person?
alada
aladaaladaPanama city, Panama Panama12 Threads 475 Posts
A less attractive person? Less attractive than what or who? What's the standard? What's the norm?

For one thing, I wouldn't date another woman and females are the only ones that share the same common features, features I can compare myself to...

If you are asking if I would date someone less attractive than Brad Pitt, I'll say yes, as Anjelina beat me to him and he's off the market.

I wouldn't date someone I don't find attractive, and call me shallow, but I do like good looking men. Of course, once they are close enough to show their real heart and brains, the real elimination process begin.



angel
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Mar 26, 2007 9:27 AM CST What's the best reason to date a less attractive person?
Dusty45
Dusty45Dusty45Louisville, Kentucky USA54 Threads 2,642 Posts
I'll take the less attractive with the GREAT personality
ANY day. Trouble is, they're less available 'cause
they're taken quickly.

I'm focusing, focusing confused will materialize....
will write it all out and picture in my mind.


dancing

hahaha
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Mar 26, 2007 9:27 AM CST What's the best reason to date a less attractive person?
sunny74
sunny74sunny74Istanbul, Marmara Turkey17 Threads 114 Posts
If I really loved him ( most probably I wouldn't because charisma, self confidence, intelligence and respect are much more important for me than appearance ) my feelings for him would never change and I would never leave him ( unless he cheated me, he killed somebody, etc :-)) I mean I wouldn't leave him because of his appearance.

I think I have to admit that the author of this question is not me myself ( it was in a personality test in another site ) and I just wondered what other people might be thinking ( especially when I thought why Whoopi Goldberg is not in the list of " top 10 most attractive women " confused ( If I was a man, I would run after her, she's sooo funny and happy with herself that I wouldn't get old with her - and it's better than dealing with the caprices of paper dolls )
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Mar 26, 2007 9:36 AM CST What's the best reason to date a less attractive person?
sunny74
sunny74sunny74Istanbul, Marmara Turkey17 Threads 114 Posts
What if there are two men who are interested in you ( or let's say love you ), and they are both mature and they both have great personality. One of them is more handsome and physically attractive according to YOUR taste. The other is not exactly your type but he is so good too. Which one would you choose??? Why?? ( you ask everybody that you trust for their advice on this subject and they can't decide either. You don't want to hurt or miss grin any of them but you have to choose ( or you have cheat grin )
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Mar 26, 2007 9:40 AM CST What's the best reason to date a less attractive person?
Jess642
Jess642Jess642Agnes Water, Australia25 Threads 4,545 Posts
Thankyou.



Is all I can say...for showing who you are....and why you are single.grin
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Mar 26, 2007 9:52 AM CST What's the best reason to date a less attractive person?
sunny74
sunny74sunny74Istanbul, Marmara Turkey17 Threads 114 Posts
If the question in this thread hurt you so much, I'm sorry for that. I think I'm not as DEEP as the proffessor who is the author of that test. And about being single.. I won't say anything because I don't want to hurt you ( at least not before knowing you better because I think there's a misunderstanding - maybe because my English is not perfect and I can't find the correct words to express my thoughts ).

Anyway, I wish goodluck to you all and I hope you'll all find your dream lovers.
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Mar 26, 2007 9:59 AM CST What's the best reason to date a less attractive person?
Jess642
Jess642Jess642Agnes Water, Australia25 Threads 4,545 Posts
So this was a study you read?

And were asking for others opinions as to the study?

I cannot recall seeing this as a study posted by a professor and that you were asking for opinions to that.

I can only see from your original post....and your responses to some of the people's posts...

It perhaps needed to be clearer...conversing
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Mar 26, 2007 10:05 AM CST What's the best reason to date a less attractive person?
beachfarmer
beachfarmerbeachfarmerLa Jolla, USA18 Threads 3,784 Posts
For there is no such great beauty which hath not some strangeness in proportion. (still can't remember if that's Shakespeare or Byron)

"Eye of the beholder - yada, yada, yada"

A stretched neck, a bone in the nose, bound feet, crossed eyes, sloped head.......What is beauty?.......What is art?



Subjective....Unanswerable.
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Mar 26, 2007 10:07 AM CST What's the best reason to date a less attractive person?
sunny74
sunny74sunny74Istanbul, Marmara Turkey17 Threads 114 Posts
Noooo, it's not a study . The test was to measure the compatibility between two people according to what they think/how they react/etc about various things and situations ( I took it just for fun, I didn't take it seriously ). And I'm not a beauty queen either ( I'm very short, almost fat, etc... But I'm happy with myself and I like the same thing in a man. And I strongly support the idea that " beauty is in the eye of the beholder " It happened to me smitten


BTW... Are we friends?? crying hug
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Mar 26, 2007 10:10 AM CST What's the best reason to date a less attractive person?
peachylisa
peachylisapeachylisaanton, USA81 Threads 1,789 Posts
why would any one be attracted to someone who has to post a thread like this, i see that you are not really showing yourself in this picture,pretty or not true colors come thru bright and clear and i believe you are looking quite grey
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Mar 26, 2007 10:10 AM CST What's the best reason to date a less attractive person?
sunny74
sunny74sunny74Istanbul, Marmara Turkey17 Threads 114 Posts
That's what makes the world worth living : difference of tastes, difference of thoughts,etc... If everybody thought and felt the same, we would be like robots
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Mar 26, 2007 10:25 AM CST What's the best reason to date a less attractive person?
peachylisa
peachylisapeachylisaanton, USA81 Threads 1,789 Posts
banana banana banana i know and i want to know its great to knowbanana banana whoop there it is again banana banana
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Mar 26, 2007 10:32 AM CST What's the best reason to date a less attractive person?
sunny74
sunny74sunny74Istanbul, Marmara Turkey17 Threads 114 Posts
hug kiss applause
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Mar 26, 2007 10:34 AM CST What's the best reason to date a less attractive person?
AdventureBegins
AdventureBeginsAdventureBeginsZanesville, USA66 Threads 1,718 Posts
I only date people that are attractive (to me).

Others might not find them so.

But attractive as is beauty, it comes from the eye of the observer.

AB
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Mar 26, 2007 10:37 AM CST What's the best reason to date a less attractive person?
sunny74
sunny74sunny74Istanbul, Marmara Turkey17 Threads 114 Posts
Absolutely! thumbs up cheers
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