Ok! You have got the best looking person in all history to be yours. Then there is an accident and that person is changed into a pile of hamburger in the looks department. Where are you now? What are you going to do?
That makes sense, Len and one can feel less intimidation by a less attractive person so that attraction can be replaced by a feeling of mutual acceptance.
I think a good communicator is attractive. I mean skin can be attractive but if you got to skin them to find if they are attractive inside then I think they would lose their attractiveness.
A less attractive person? Less attractive than what or who? What's the standard? What's the norm?
For one thing, I wouldn't date another woman and females are the only ones that share the same common features, features I can compare myself to...
If you are asking if I would date someone less attractive than Brad Pitt, I'll say yes, as Anjelina beat me to him and he's off the market.
I wouldn't date someone I don't find attractive, and call me shallow, but I do like good looking men. Of course, once they are close enough to show their real heart and brains, the real elimination process begin.
If I really loved him ( most probably I wouldn't because charisma, self confidence, intelligence and respect are much more important for me than appearance ) my feelings for him would never change and I would never leave him ( unless he cheated me, he killed somebody, etc :-)) I mean I wouldn't leave him because of his appearance.
I think I have to admit that the author of this question is not me myself ( it was in a personality test in another site ) and I just wondered what other people might be thinking ( especially when I thought why Whoopi Goldberg is not in the list of " top 10 most attractive women " ( If I was a man, I would run after her, she's sooo funny and happy with herself that I wouldn't get old with her - and it's better than dealing with the caprices of paper dolls )
What if there are two men who are interested in you ( or let's say love you ), and they are both mature and they both have great personality. One of them is more handsome and physically attractive according to YOUR taste. The other is not exactly your type but he is so good too. Which one would you choose??? Why?? ( you ask everybody that you trust for their advice on this subject and they can't decide either. You don't want to hurt or miss any of them but you have to choose ( or you have cheat )
If the question in this thread hurt you so much, I'm sorry for that. I think I'm not as DEEP as the proffessor who is the author of that test. And about being single.. I won't say anything because I don't want to hurt you ( at least not before knowing you better because I think there's a misunderstanding - maybe because my English is not perfect and I can't find the correct words to express my thoughts ).
Anyway, I wish goodluck to you all and I hope you'll all find your dream lovers.
Noooo, it's not a study . The test was to measure the compatibility between two people according to what they think/how they react/etc about various things and situations ( I took it just for fun, I didn't take it seriously ). And I'm not a beauty queen either ( I'm very short, almost fat, etc... But I'm happy with myself and I like the same thing in a man. And I strongly support the idea that " beauty is in the eye of the beholder " It happened to me
why would any one be attracted to someone who has to post a thread like this, i see that you are not really showing yourself in this picture,pretty or not true colors come thru bright and clear and i believe you are looking quite grey
That's what makes the world worth living : difference of tastes, difference of thoughts,etc... If everybody thought and felt the same, we would be like robots
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