Love vs Attraction (16)

Apr 7, 2007 6:08 AM CST Love vs Attraction
sassysexy
sassysexysassysexyWarsaw, Mazovia Poland6 Threads 1 Polls 62 Posts
is the power of love stronger than the power of physical attraction?Is it possible to love someone you are not physically attracted to?
Apr 7, 2007 7:05 AM CST Love vs Attraction
pearl777
pearl777pearl777Plovdiv, Bulgaria242 Threads 33 Polls 4,812 Posts
love is bound up with phisical attraction kiss
Apr 7, 2007 10:23 AM CST Love vs Attraction
highfidelity
highfidelityhighfidelityEurope, Lower Saxony Germany37 Threads 2,287 Posts
Of course it is .. you can fall in love with someone you are not attracted to physically .. does not mean that it would matter - love is a powerful thing - because you will love that person as whole and not only for its perfect body or wonderful face - attraction on the other hand is not necessarely combined to love laugh
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Apr 7, 2007 11:03 AM CST Love vs Attraction
YamiYami
YamiYamiYamiYamiNorthWest, England UK30 Threads 1,252 Posts
People's physic change and if you don't love them , well that is the end .. Do you prefer love or would you like to be wanted for your looks ?
Apr 7, 2007 11:23 AM CST Love vs Attraction
Killingtime
KillingtimeKillingtimeHole in a wall, Majjistral Malta11 Threads 878 Posts
Having said all this, some characters don't age so well either.
May 9, 2007 11:46 AM CST Love vs Attraction
lust4u
lust4ulust4uduesseldorf, Nordrhein-Westfalen Germany2 Posts
Definetely not...
May 9, 2007 1:40 PM CST Love vs Attraction
FlowerOfTheSnow
FlowerOfTheSnowFlowerOfTheSnowMalaga, Andalusia Spain23 Threads 2,212 Posts
Well I personally believe first of all that physical attraction has nothing to do with how perfectly beautiful the other person is but rather how both people's energies blend. So to me physical attraction/chemistry is important as part of the package with love.
May 10, 2007 5:55 AM CST Love vs Attraction
lisajane
lisajanelisajanesliema, Majjistral Malta44 Threads 1 Polls 717 Posts
i believe that there must be some physical attraction there to start with it doesnt have to be that WOW! your beautiful kind of attraction. as long as your personalities match and you have trust and respect for each other and strive for the same things out of life.
May 10, 2007 12:53 PM CST Love vs Attraction
homer1
homer1homer1Luxembourg, Luxembourg15 Threads 572 Posts
It's the total turn on! Cant separate a turn on into parts. BANG! Your world goes crazy.dancing
May 10, 2007 1:03 PM CST Love vs Attraction
Ulimaroa
UlimaroaUlimaroaCologne, Nordrhein-Westfalen Germany121 Threads 38 Polls 5,629 Posts
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May 10, 2007 9:38 PM CST Love vs Attraction
constanza
constanzaconstanzaLA, California USA28 Threads 1 Polls 5,159 Posts
Love is lasting, attraction is temporary.
You can be attracted to many, but whom do you love?
Love is sacrificing, attraction is playful.
Attraction can easily turn into disappointment when you find out the person is ugly in reality. Love is tender, attraction is raw.
Love is spiritual, attraction physical.
Ultimately, what you value more says a lot about your spiritual development as an individual. Are you operating on a physical level of existence, or are you more sublime?
May 10, 2007 10:11 PM CST Love vs Attraction
waterdragon
waterdragonwaterdragonSevillia, Spain38 Threads 615 Posts
Yes -yes ,yes!
May 10, 2007 10:51 PM CST Love vs Attraction
cristalwater
cristalwatercristalwaterdüsseldorf, Nordrhein-Westfalen Germany35 Posts
handshake

I agree. The first thing that (usualy) happens between people is checking the appearance.
I don't feel attracted to men who are very good looking, i like it if they got a unique style.


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May 10, 2007 11:09 PM CST Love vs Attraction
solitare
solitaresolitareBariloche, Rio Negro Argentina40 Threads 4,041 Posts
Appearances are but masques; attraction(s) have an expiry date sometime in the not too distant from now; Love...it simply fades away and dies.
One can be prolonged by various means but it is agony. The other starves...
May 11, 2007 4:25 AM CST Love vs Attraction
Ulysses1973
Ulysses1973Ulysses1973Bilbao, Basque Country Spain2 Threads 12 Posts
Physical attraction is the easy thing....love requires a set of values (sacrifice, compromise and so on) not very fashionable these days....find the person with those values (an not looks) and love them (feeling is living) you will feel the most rewarded person on earth

Hugs..cheering
May 11, 2007 12:24 PM CST Love vs Attraction
antcus
antcusantcusSt Paul's Bay, Majjistral Malta17 Threads 948 Posts
Yes but my question is: can you fall in love before being physically attracted.
Do you fall in love with the contents of a box without opening it.
Do you fall in love because you hope to find gold? Do you take a blind leap?

How do you go from no love and no physical attraction to "true" love?
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