Guys, How many girls here have you enquired to? Did you ever get the impression that this is nothing more than a favorate pastime for women? Kind of like the time when my brother (a local celebrity hosting a local event) asked me if a friend of mine's wife was single. I said no, she is married to Danny. She and her girlfriends were out on a girls-night-out. He said really? She had no ring on. Me, I enjoy being the "politically incorrect" dude. Just stating facts............
I am serious about meeting...I was looking for a place like CS to find english speaking people in Spain. Many people are in fact not in Spain...which makes it a bit difficult. That does not mean impossible
CrazyIceTo the south somewhere, South Africa678 posts
If it is a favourite pastime for women, I'm enjoying it. Seriously though, I have had a few enquiries, some of which I felt we could connect, some not. But I always, ALWAYS answer back and if I'm not interested, I will tell them so very discreetly. I guess this will go on until I meet the right one....
bbwandcuteTauranga, Bay of Plenty New Zealand668 posts
You can get on with someone on the internet and when you meet them have no chemistry. I prefer local where i can meet them for a coffee first, or go out on an informal date. If we get on then go from there. Physical is a major factor in any relationship so without meeting the person it really is hard. So i guess there would probably be a lot of women who would flirt with guys on an international site because they know that logistically it probably really isnt going to happen and hell we all like a little flattery and attention, guys and gals. But they might be a bit more genuine to someone that is closer or lives more local. I dont think it is fair for anyone to play or string other people along, but it is just a fact of life on internet sites you have to take the good with bad is suppose.
Iam as serious as a HeartAttack about hookingup with somone on this Dating Site. I been single too long.Igot one bite,from this guy,but it seems he is getting cold feet.Do you know of any good eligable southern dudes?
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