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For most responsible people with children the economic cost of divorce is very high in financial terms over many years; a relationship that should have been symbiotic has become destructive to all concerned.
Many women with children will get the family home as part of the divorce settlement and the man will move from a 'normal' house to some crappy bedsit or worse. He's not exactly going to be a particularly attractive 'package' to a beautiful young woman who'd wish to meet an unsullied knight in shining armour!
I guess I'm lucky now that both my sons (from my first two marriages) have now grown up and I don't have to financially support three or even four households.