I don't think there truly is one technique that's better than other. It really depends on the mood and physical parameters of the individuals doing it. Just my .0001.
Love I believe is also the giving of one's self to the other.. I know when I am in love with someone I give all of myself to her, I am never to busy to be there for her no matter what.. I always have time for the one that I love, and would do anything in the world for her that is within my power to do..and I would defend her with my life if necessary..
I'm not sure that I do. I certainly didn't in the past. But I have what I believe are some pretty good ideas about how to do it right the next time around (after putting about 10 years of thought and practice into it during those last years in my first marriage). Time will tell.
In the meantime, I stand in awe of those who have achieved complete certainty on the question.
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