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Sep 30, 2007 6:01 AM CST Why do
stefonline
stefonlinestefonlineDublin, Ireland136 Threads 9,702 Posts
Men mess around on their partners and wive's.......what is it that makes them seek another......only the guys know the answer on here....so guys please be truthful.

Why do they risk everything......there loved one....their children...the life they once knew.......and most of the time.....the new relationship dos'nt work out and then he is sorry......

I'm trying desperately to understand this......wave
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Sep 30, 2007 6:04 AM CST Why do
Dknew
DknewDknewBarrington, New Hampshire USA262 Threads 10 Polls 7,077 Posts
don't know, I'd be happy with 1
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Sep 30, 2007 6:22 AM CST Why do
Because some of them are absolute Monkeypukes and have an extremely Low Selfesteem (about an Inch high) and therefore have to constantly prove something to themselves,and of course ,others. wave peace
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Sep 30, 2007 6:49 AM CST Why do
stefonline
stefonlinestefonlineDublin, Ireland136 Threads 9,702 Posts
Well now you have 1.........comfort
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Sep 30, 2007 6:57 AM CST Why do
beejay
beejaybeejaySt. Truiden, Limburg Belgium50 Threads 1,413 Posts
why do women do the same

dunno
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Sep 30, 2007 6:58 AM CST Why do
stefonline
stefonlinestefonlineDublin, Ireland136 Threads 9,702 Posts
I'm not talking about women here beejay that is for a seperate thread....thanks......hug
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Sep 30, 2007 7:02 AM CST Why do
Daniel4021
Daniel4021Daniel4021Somewhere, Tennessee USA157 Threads 8,986 Posts
Well speaking for myself, if I am in a true loving relationship with someone I devote myself to the one I am with, and only her...
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Sep 30, 2007 7:07 AM CST Why do
Hugz_n_Kissez
Hugz_n_KissezHugz_n_KissezSomeplace, Ontario Canada59 Threads 2 Polls 25,438 Posts
Cause they think they won't get caught!!!!!!!!!!!!


roll eyes help grin
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Sep 30, 2007 7:27 AM CST Why do
Daniel4021
Daniel4021Daniel4021Somewhere, Tennessee USA157 Threads 8,986 Posts
I think that may be one reason. I used to work with this one guy who always cheated on his wife, and he was very open about it at work. I asked him why he did it because I couldn't understand how he could do that if he truly loved his wife.

All he would say is it was fun, but I think what it really is...is that some men never want to give up playing the field. And for others there is either something wrong in their marrage or relationship. And then you have those who just want something new.

Personaly though, if I am in a commited relationship the only one that would matter is the one I am with because I wouldn't want to be with anyone else...
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Sep 30, 2007 7:31 AM CST Why do
Zellarrone1
Zellarrone1Zellarrone1Hull, East Riding of Yorkshire, England UK33 Threads 4 Polls 7,644 Posts
You are one in a million Daniel and the woman who gets you for an husband will be very lucky wine
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Sep 30, 2007 7:34 AM CST Why do
Daniel4021
Daniel4021Daniel4021Somewhere, Tennessee USA157 Threads 8,986 Posts
awww Thank you Zell, you are very sweet...blushing hug
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Sep 30, 2007 7:38 AM CST Why do
Zellarrone1
Zellarrone1Zellarrone1Hull, East Riding of Yorkshire, England UK33 Threads 4 Polls 7,644 Posts
No, it's you who is very sweet, so gallant, considerate, sensitive and thoughtful. You're a very precious person in everyway hug

But, thanks for saying I was sweet also angel
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Sep 30, 2007 7:42 AM CST Why do
Daniel4021
Daniel4021Daniel4021Somewhere, Tennessee USA157 Threads 8,986 Posts
You like seeing me blush don't you?blushing But I believe you are a very kind person yourself because only a kind and caring person would say those thingshug
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Sep 30, 2007 7:44 AM CST Why do
trish123
trish123trish123Macclesfield, Cheshire, England UK177 Threads 4 Polls 13,724 Posts
Zell, you are amazing hug yay

I want a relationship that has none of this nonsence smitten if I cant have truth I dont want anything cheers
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Sep 30, 2007 7:47 AM CST Why do
Zellarrone1
Zellarrone1Zellarrone1Hull, East Riding of Yorkshire, England UK33 Threads 4 Polls 7,644 Posts
Thanks Daniel hug
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Sep 30, 2007 7:50 AM CST Why do
Zellarrone1
Zellarrone1Zellarrone1Hull, East Riding of Yorkshire, England UK33 Threads 4 Polls 7,644 Posts
Thanks Trish hug Yes, I'm the same as you. I'd rather be single forever rather than living with a cheater. God know's what diseases they could be bringing home to their wives and partners as well, even killer diseases uh oh
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Sep 30, 2007 7:51 AM CST Why do
Daniel4021
Daniel4021Daniel4021Somewhere, Tennessee USA157 Threads 8,986 Posts
You are very welcomehug
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Sep 30, 2007 7:53 AM CST Why do
trish123
trish123trish123Macclesfield, Cheshire, England UK177 Threads 4 Polls 13,724 Posts
so, so true Zell - am off to the pub just now catch you later - off for lunch with Dizzy Di - she cant cheat on me cos there isnt the man woman thingy there rolling on the floor laughing

I love men but hate cheaters and players laugh
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Sep 30, 2007 7:55 AM CST Why do
Katine76
Katine76Katine76Moncton, Canada145 Threads 4,516 Posts
Yep I agree!

It is a two way street. Both genders are just as guilty.

Why they chose to do such a thing? Well it can be a variety of things. Could be because they are lacking in the relationship, could be a intimacy issue, could be because they are perverts or pigs and are insensitive and selfish.

Either way its not a good excuse. I figure if someone is that tempted to cheat then why not make things much more easier and just end the relationship and then go have your own fun instead of leading on and hurting innocent people and especialy the children who have to unfortunatly be involved in all of it.
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Sep 30, 2007 7:58 AM CST Why do
Katine76
Katine76Katine76Moncton, Canada145 Threads 4,516 Posts
And yep that too!

Some of them just love the rush of sneaking around and not (well thinking) they will not be caught.
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