what do you think the biggest problems are that make a relationship not work? ( Archived) (55)

Jan 13, 2008 5:34 AM CST what do you think the biggest problems are that make a relationship not work?
morganlee
morganleemorganleeQawra, Majjistral Malta27 Threads 1 Polls 4,368 Posts
Hi Eupho ok your feeling a little better today hug
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Jan 13, 2008 5:40 AM CST what do you think the biggest problems are that make a relationship not work?
Detente
DetenteDetenteNorth West, England UK48 Threads 1 Polls 2,742 Posts
Taking one another for granted...not recognizing that your relationship needs nurturing and regular attention.

Appreciation on the most basic level...lots of 'please' and 'thank you dear'.

Oh, and as has been mentioned prior: good, honest communication is fundamental.

It sounds boring, but I've seen it in action...it really does work!
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Jan 13, 2008 5:42 AM CST what do you think the biggest problems are that make a relationship not work?
Eupho
EuphoEuphoWild Wild South West, England UK49 Threads 12 Polls 6,581 Posts
blues Not much actually.. but thankyooo.. This stops me thinking too much. I'm TRYING to laugh. I have to call her soon.. and I just don't know what to say. uh oh
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Jan 13, 2008 5:46 AM CST what do you think the biggest problems are that make a relationship not work?
Eupho
EuphoEuphoWild Wild South West, England UK49 Threads 12 Polls 6,581 Posts
I agree.. like I read somewhere before..

A relationship IS like a garden.. if you look after it .. tend it and care for it.. everything thrives.
If you start to neglect parts of it.. they die off.

if it hasn't gone TOO far.. you can care for those things again and get them back.

but if you neglect it enough.. it ALL becomes a barron wasteland.. where there is almost no way back.
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Jan 13, 2008 5:47 AM CST what do you think the biggest problems are that make a relationship not work?
gillyloves69
gillyloves69gillyloves69london, Greater London, England UK1,533 Threads 7 Polls 7,359 Posts
wave

hey morganlee has anybody ever told you that you look like tony sopranos wife in ' the sopranos '


conversing thumbs up
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Jan 13, 2008 5:50 AM CST what do you think the biggest problems are that make a relationship not work?
morganlee
morganleemorganleeQawra, Majjistral Malta27 Threads 1 Polls 4,368 Posts
Am thinking about you, this has made my think about when my step son died, people a knew crossed the street rather than talk to me, because they didn't know what to say and it hurt. You are there for her and just her knowing that will help her so much, you will find the words.
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Jan 13, 2008 5:51 AM CST what do you think the biggest problems are that make a relationship not work?
Eupho
EuphoEuphoWild Wild South West, England UK49 Threads 12 Polls 6,581 Posts
Thankyooo ..really. hug
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Jan 13, 2008 5:53 AM CST what do you think the biggest problems are that make a relationship not work?
riyablossom
riyablossomriyablossomsomewhere, Pennsylvania USA184 Threads 18 Polls 11,244 Posts
thumbs up
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Jan 13, 2008 7:09 AM CST what do you think the biggest problems are that make a relationship not work?
constanza
constanzaconstanzaLA, California USA28 Threads 1 Polls 5,159 Posts
Loss of interest and love; the other phenomena are just symptoms of this.
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Jan 13, 2008 8:23 AM CST what do you think the biggest problems are that make a relationship not work?
Solitarius
SolitariusSolitariusSalem, Indiana USA5 Threads 589 Posts
I have never been that type. I may not know what to say, but I will at least say something and offer my shoulder to cry on and my ear to listen at any time.

So Claire, you have my ear and my shoulder when ever you want.hug comfort
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Jan 13, 2008 8:24 AM CST what do you think the biggest problems are that make a relationship not work?
Solitarius
SolitariusSolitariusSalem, Indiana USA5 Threads 589 Posts
A relationship IS like a garden.. if you look after it .. tend it and care for it.. everything thrives.
If you start to neglect parts of it.. they die off.

This is so true.
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Jan 13, 2008 8:25 AM CST what do you think the biggest problems are that make a relationship not work?
OverTheWindow
OverTheWindowOverTheWindowChicago, Paris, Marseille, Illinois USA6 Threads 1 Polls 635 Posts
thumbs up wine
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Jan 13, 2008 8:39 AM CST what do you think the biggest problems are that make a relationship not work?
agman
agmanagmanEagle, Idaho USA3,145 Posts
selfishness and wrongfull expectations
JMO
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Jan 13, 2008 8:41 AM CST what do you think the biggest problems are that make a relationship not work?
foreveryoung1
foreveryoung1foreveryoung1cartagena, Murcia Spain2 Threads 1 Polls 2,984 Posts
deliberate lies, and deception
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Jan 13, 2008 10:09 AM CST what do you think the biggest problems are that make a relationship not work?
olive111
olive111olive111pdown, Down Ireland5 Threads 1 Polls 128 Posts
i like that analogy. so true thumbs up cheers
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