cristinaOPLisbon, North Holland Netherlands17,243 posts
Is it because we are different in each of them or because our partner is different? Can you avoid old mistakes? Or your partners is the one who has to be strong and turn them over?
hello my name is Starlin, you're a lovely woman, could I talk with you awhile? I noticed you were sitting alone and since I am sitting over ther by myself, would you care to join me?? S-L-A-P. Ouch, sorry to bother you, end of relationship!!
cristinaOPLisbon, North Holland Netherlands17,243 posts
are your mistakes "suitable" for that one, end of story? Are mistakes subjective?Please, everything is subjective, i know, i want you to concentrate on your own experiences and not just giving me the "all is subjective" crap
Every relationship would certainly be different, unless you are continuously dating or marrying the same person over and over. If you're not living the "Groundhog Day" experience, then each new partner is going to bring something new to the table. However, if we find that we're always drawn to the same type of person...a "bad boy", a high-maintenance woman (if you're a man), or if some other common trait keeps drawing us in, then maybe we aren't evolving enough and it's possible that what made the last relationship fall apart will do the same with the next. As they say, the only common denominator in all of your relationships is YOU (not you, personally, Cristina, as this is true with all of us), so it's up to us to look at our patterns and see if maybe we need to open up new possibilites for ourselves.
It's like a present; you have to open the box and see what's in it. Sometimes it's a delightful surprize and sometimes you might be thinking to yourself I need to return or exchange this
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