The one who is "interested but shy" is actually contemplating how quickly she can dial 911 the moment you screw up. Only go for the ones who can be direct enough to express their interest in an unquestionable way. The rest, don't take seriously...
RobbieMHertford, Hertfordshire, England UK4,553 posts
Ply them with alcohol..when they loose motor function you know their more friendly, as they tell everyone they love them by then...either that or their sick in your lap
It's never a clear cut thing. Diplomacy used to gently push off an unwanted suitor tends to mimic shy behavior. A "hello" note may get you a response, no matter what... but a "would you consider a get to know you coffee" note may get you a more accurate response. The only way to definitely know, is to clear the air with point blank questions.
Every woman is reacts differently... so best of luck in reading the signs. :)
Well if they are shy just take it slow once she is comfort with you you will know or be direct with her and ask her if she is interested in seeing you to go out on a date good luck
i am a shy person and if i am interested in a guy, i will talk with them and try to get to know more about them to see if i want to risk the possibility of being hurt once again.
if i am not interested, i will tell them so right out.
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