Marriage Anyone?? ( Archived) (92)

Nov 26, 2007 6:31 AM CST Marriage Anyone??
wikked
wikkedwikkedAjax, Ontario Canada655 Threads 4 Polls 6,091 Posts
With the current divorce rate...it seems to me that marriage is no longer considered a "binding contract" ...

My question is do you really want to get married (again for some) or is living with your partner and sharing your life without the "vows" sufficient for you?
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Nov 26, 2007 6:33 AM CST Marriage Anyone??
Marriage is off the books for me. I tried it once, and it didn't agree with me.

A piece of paper is not what is needed to hold a relationship together.
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Nov 26, 2007 6:33 AM CST Marriage Anyone??
kissmedeeply
kissmedeeplykissmedeeplyPetitcodiac, New Brunswick Canada70 Threads 15,139 Posts
I have never been Married..I would love to be one day..but i think living with that person first and then go from there...Morning everyonehug
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Nov 26, 2007 6:34 AM CST Marriage Anyone??
DinaD
DinaDDinaDKingsport, Tennessee USA11 Threads 735 Posts
I would be ok with living together for a while, but if it was longer than a year, I would want to get married for legal reasons if nothing else.
I lived with someone for many years, and never married them. When I left, I really had no *legal* claim to most of what was mine. I did not keep every receipt for every single thing I had bought, and it was his house.
So I won't screw myself over like that again.
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Nov 26, 2007 6:35 AM CST Marriage Anyone??
Roguecop
RoguecopRoguecopElko, Nevada USA218 Threads 3,885 Posts
If the right one came along
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Nov 26, 2007 6:35 AM CST Marriage Anyone??
lusciousmile
lusciousmilelusciousmileThere, Aland Islands Finland25 Threads 2 Polls 11,989 Posts
I've never been married but hope i do someday and have lots of fat little babies crawling everywhere. laugh
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Nov 26, 2007 6:35 AM CST Marriage Anyone??
Zeloniy
ZeloniyZeloniyRichmond, Virginia USA51 Threads 1 Polls 1,863 Posts
quote. sign. print.
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Nov 26, 2007 6:35 AM CST Marriage Anyone??
Eupho
EuphoEuphoWild Wild South West, England UK49 Threads 12 Polls 6,581 Posts
I (think) I agree Karen.. (though my mind swings about on the subject sometimes)..

I think I MAY feel as if I were signing my life away (again)

I know not all marriages that are bad.. plenty are great (I assume)

But once bitten twice shy for me I think.
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Nov 26, 2007 6:35 AM CST Marriage Anyone??
Eupho
EuphoEuphoWild Wild South West, England UK49 Threads 12 Polls 6,581 Posts
rolling on the floor laughing laugh
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Nov 26, 2007 6:36 AM CST Marriage Anyone??
What she said!!!
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Nov 26, 2007 6:36 AM CST Marriage Anyone??
Eupho
EuphoEuphoWild Wild South West, England UK49 Threads 12 Polls 6,581 Posts
rolling on the floor laughing wave
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Nov 26, 2007 6:38 AM CST Marriage Anyone??
wikked
wikkedwikkedAjax, Ontario Canada655 Threads 4 Polls 6,091 Posts
Would you be willing to relocate to the Cold North???laugh grin
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Nov 26, 2007 6:38 AM CST Marriage Anyone??
riyablossom
riyablossomriyablossomsomewhere, Pennsylvania USA184 Threads 18 Polls 11,244 Posts
I would love to be married one day !
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Nov 26, 2007 6:39 AM CST Marriage Anyone??
Eupho
EuphoEuphoWild Wild South West, England UK49 Threads 12 Polls 6,581 Posts
rolling on the floor laughing haha
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Nov 26, 2007 6:39 AM CST Marriage Anyone??
Eupho
EuphoEuphoWild Wild South West, England UK49 Threads 12 Polls 6,581 Posts
applause hug
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Nov 26, 2007 6:41 AM CST Marriage Anyone??
riyablossom
riyablossomriyablossomsomewhere, Pennsylvania USA184 Threads 18 Polls 11,244 Posts
grin hug
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Nov 26, 2007 6:42 AM CST Marriage Anyone??
I think the problem is that most people, women particularly, can't see past the Wedding. It is only one day of the rest of your lives. Marriage follows! That is when it started to suck for me! lol!

Save a lot of effort! Just buy yourselves a nice dress, and have a big party! Use the money that you would have used for the divorce!

rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
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Nov 26, 2007 6:47 AM CST Marriage Anyone??
DinaD
DinaDDinaDKingsport, Tennessee USA11 Threads 735 Posts
And have a pre shack up agreement signed by him lol
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Nov 26, 2007 6:47 AM CST Marriage Anyone??
riyablossom
riyablossomriyablossomsomewhere, Pennsylvania USA184 Threads 18 Polls 11,244 Posts
Maybe its true Karen ... i feel that many times too.. most women seem to be too focussed on getting married as a big event in their life that all else seems to take a backseat.dunno
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Nov 26, 2007 6:49 AM CST Marriage Anyone??
DinaD
DinaDDinaDKingsport, Tennessee USA11 Threads 735 Posts
If there's a possibility of having kids..I think you should definitely get married.
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