Marriage Anyone?? ( Archived) (92)

Nov 26, 2007 5:30 PM CST Marriage Anyone??
Eupho
EuphoEuphoWild Wild South West, England UK49 Threads 12 Polls 6,581 Posts
OYY! very mad


laugh
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Nov 26, 2007 6:44 PM CST Marriage Anyone??
HJFinAZ
HJFinAZHJFinAZSun CIty, Arizona USA870 Threads 1 Polls 17,068 Posts
hug kiss Just kidding..grin
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Nov 26, 2007 7:01 PM CST Marriage Anyone??
solidtartan
solidtartansolidtartanSavannah, USA3 Threads 50 Posts
I am appalled not just by the divorce rate but the general lack of obligation anyone feels to keep their word anymore. Every single business arrangement I make requires lawyers and dead trees.....ughsigh
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Nov 26, 2007 7:04 PM CST Marriage Anyone??
bluebabsie
bluebabsiebluebabsiecambridge, Cambridgeshire, England UK14 Threads 4,836 Posts
Ive been married



no way......again !!!sigh wave
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Nov 26, 2007 7:07 PM CST Marriage Anyone??
Dknew
DknewDknewBarrington, New Hampshire USA262 Threads 10 Polls 7,077 Posts
moping moping smile
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Nov 26, 2007 7:18 PM CST Marriage Anyone??
spooner
spoonerspoonerBethel, Ohio USA3 Threads 82 Posts
tried it both ways... the pain was the same in the end. becoming a monk starts to have some appeal i think?
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Nov 26, 2007 7:31 PM CST Marriage Anyone??
wikked
wikkedwikkedAjax, Ontario Canada655 Threads 4 Polls 6,091 Posts
Hey handsome...you know the saying...."No rest for the wicked..."...lol...

I've been "busy"...but i missed you all...and all the chats...so here i am carving out time to do what was important to me...visit with my friends....hug
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Nov 26, 2007 7:50 PM CST Marriage Anyone??
bluebabsie
bluebabsiebluebabsiecambridge, Cambridgeshire, England UK14 Threads 4,836 Posts
hi hunnie wave hug
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Nov 26, 2007 8:05 PM CST Marriage Anyone??
HzChld
HzChldHzChldSomewhere in the middle, Oklahoma USA55 Threads 2,779 Posts
I was married for 26 yrs. The divorce was the most painful, gut wrenching thing I have ever experienced. crying sigh It would have to be one hell of a man to ever get me to marry again. Same goes for co-habitating with one also. My life is happily together and pretty drama free...I just cannot see rippling the waters at this time. laugh cheers
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Nov 26, 2007 8:05 PM CST Marriage Anyone??
HzChld
HzChldHzChldSomewhere in the middle, Oklahoma USA55 Threads 2,779 Posts
wave Hello sweet friend!!! How are you? Have missed you. hug kiss
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Nov 26, 2007 8:07 PM CST Marriage Anyone??
Solitarius
SolitariusSolitariusSalem, Indiana USA5 Threads 589 Posts
That is a tough question. Would I like to get married again, Yes I would. Is it a requirement, No it is not. I am a bit old fashioned in that to me when you get married that should be the end of it. But I am not just going to settle like I did before, when I knew the relationship was dying and I was trying to save it. That just prolonged the inevitable.confused frustrated sigh
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Nov 26, 2007 8:10 PM CST Marriage Anyone??
76c3heater
76c3heater76c3heaterwest palm beach, USA28 Threads 1,512 Posts
Hey Sweetz, you miss me?grin
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Nov 26, 2007 8:13 PM CST Marriage Anyone??
123ru4meletssee
123ru4meletssee123ru4meletsseerock hill, South Carolina USA1 Posts
I have been married twice but, I still would do it again for the right girl. Hey, they say the third time is a charm!
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Nov 26, 2007 8:13 PM CST Marriage Anyone??
Solitarius
SolitariusSolitariusSalem, Indiana USA5 Threads 589 Posts
My grandparents were the same way. My parents are still married, as well as aunts, uncles, the only exceptions are two cousins and myself. The rest of them have been married for 10 years up to 62 when my last Grandfather passed away.blues
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Nov 26, 2007 8:20 PM CST Marriage Anyone??
bluebabsie
bluebabsiebluebabsiecambridge, Cambridgeshire, England UK14 Threads 4,836 Posts
wave hug


hi sweet hz and james.....im off to bed now


have fun ....love babsie xxhug kiss
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Nov 26, 2007 8:22 PM CST Marriage Anyone??
HJFinAZ
HJFinAZHJFinAZSun CIty, Arizona USA870 Threads 1 Polls 17,068 Posts
"They" lie!!!!!!!!!!!!rolling on the floor laughing
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Nov 26, 2007 8:28 PM CST Marriage Anyone??
marryingtype
marryingtypemarryingtypeLondon, Greater London, England UK16 Posts
I know that common law marriages are no longer allowed to occur in certain states like New York. But previously in New York, for a common law marriage, the couple had to only promise each other to live as husband and wife, and then live as such.

Thus, there in New York, a couple "knew" what they were getting into because they could not "accidently" enter into a common law marriage.

And I would not be too happy if a state imposed a common law marriage on me for no reason other than my cohabitation with a woman and the duration of that cohabitation. Because an intention to cohabit with a person, is not necessarily the same as an intention to marry that person.

Marriage is not a "play thing". And people should not enter into marriage without long and serious consideration. And, although I know why states do it, no state should override such an important personal right like the decision to not marry someone.
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Nov 27, 2007 3:06 AM CST Marriage Anyone??
PeachesandRay
PeachesandRayPeachesandRayConcord, North Carolina USA72 Threads 1 Polls 1,358 Posts
Okay?? Is this good or bad??dunno sigh confused



Seems the family gave me a "no return policy" with youscold so what am I supposed to do with cha?rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing

Never thought I would do it again either, but your big brown eyes were more than I could resistsmitten

kiss kiss kiss
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Jan 20, 2008 9:30 AM CST Marriage Anyone??
As in any relationship it takes two minds, hearts, souls, friendship,and communications to share thoughts, dreams, and desires. If these two desire marriage, then it will be. But I would never look at marriage as a binding contract. Rather a commitment of love and loyalty to each other.
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Jan 20, 2008 9:53 AM CST Marriage Anyone??
pearl777
pearl777pearl777Plovdiv, Bulgaria242 Threads 33 Polls 4,812 Posts
123ru4meletssee: I have been married twice but, I still would do it again for the right girl. Hey, they say the third time is a charm!





multiple marriages downplay the importance of marriage.if you are about to walk down the aisle for your third or fourth marriage, the idea of marrying for love is not that believable. Multiple marriages seem to portray boredom and confusion rather than true love.

JMO
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