Wow is this place a clique? ( Archived) (447)

May 4, 2008 6:30 AM CST Wow is this place a clique?
lusciousmile
lusciousmilelusciousmileThere, Aland Islands Finland25 Threads 2 Polls 11,989 Posts
PILIPALA: Totaly mind boggling telling some what colour to have their hair. Lots of other women have chatted on here about changing their hair colour and nothing was said.Lush you have beautiful hair wear any way you want to with pride



They probably think ganging up on me, will scare me off because we don't have many black people on the site. It's just a strategy, see how they dwell on me even with other comments to respond to on the thread. grin

Boy are they wrong!

<<< strongest black woman i know. cool


Thanks Pilapala. hug
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May 4, 2008 6:39 AM CST Wow is this place a clique?
kurzita
kurzitakurzitaXaghra, Gozo Malta9 Threads 1,019 Posts
morganlee: hi hope your well


Hey morgan.....

yeps thank u.

kiss

Having a quick break before I move outside....it's really nice out here today, sunny, hot, and summer is here!!!!! Gotta to clean the pool...

yay
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May 4, 2008 7:04 AM CST Wow is this place a clique?
riyablossom
riyablossomriyablossomsomewhere, Pennsylvania USA184 Threads 18 Polls 11,244 Posts
PILIPALA: Totaly mind boggling telling some what colour to have their hair. Lots of other women have chatted on here about changing their hair colour and nothing was said.Lush you have beautiful hair wear any way you want to with pride


Havent read all the posts but the first few on the " hair "

thumbs up
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May 4, 2008 8:46 AM CST Wow is this place a clique?
alabamabebe
alabamabebealabamabebeBanks of the Warrior River, Alabama USA66 Threads 3 Polls 4,404 Posts
Lionhearted1967:
alabamabebe: Wow, nice way to win friends and influence people. If you don't want responses to a thread, why start it? I just thought maybe you'd like to hear another viewpoint, sorry, my bad. I'm officially getting lost now.



I'm not here to win friends dear!


Umm, I wasn't responding to you, but if not winning friends is your goal, you're doing a great job.
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May 4, 2008 8:55 AM CST Wow is this place a clique?
alabamabebe
alabamabebealabamabebeBanks of the Warrior River, Alabama USA66 Threads 3 Polls 4,404 Posts
What is you people's hang up with Lush's hair? These comments are just the meanest thing I've seen on here in a long time, maybe ever. Give it a break, she can wear her hair any way she wants. She can shave it if she wants, why do you care? dunno What's hair got to do with heritage anyway? How do you even know her heritage, or presume to say how she should express it? Personal attacks are not very attractive, you are just showing your pettiness.
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May 4, 2008 8:58 AM CST Wow is this place a clique?
morganlee
morganleemorganleeQawra, Majjistral Malta27 Threads 1 Polls 4,368 Posts
alabamabebe: What is you people's hang up with Lush's hair? These comments are just the meanest thing I've seen on here in a long time, maybe ever. Give it a break, she can wear her hair any way she wants. She can shave it if she wants, why do you care? What's hair got to do with heritage anyway? How do you even know her heritage, or presume to say how she should express it? Personal attacks are not very attractive, you are just showing your pettiness.
Hi wave this is where it

get's stupid because if you say you disagree with something , you will be told you are in a clique , i

agree with you it's pathetic bouquet
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May 4, 2008 8:59 AM CST Wow is this place a clique?
kitty01
kitty01kitty01St. Albert, Alberta Canada244 Threads 1 Polls 5,310 Posts
I have not read everything but I do not know how you wear your hair has to do with anything. People these days are always trying new styles or hair colors, so what does this have to do with what nationality you are. Who does not like to experiment with different hair styles and who does color their hair their natural color.
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May 4, 2008 9:01 AM CST Wow is this place a clique?
morganlee
morganleemorganleeQawra, Majjistral Malta27 Threads 1 Polls 4,368 Posts
kitty01: I have not read everything but I do not know how you wear your hair has to do with anything. People these days are always trying new styles or hair colors, so what does this have to do with what nationality you are. Who does not like to experiment with different hair styles and who does color their hair their natural color.
My natural colour is red, haven't seen it for 20 yrs! so what dunno
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May 4, 2008 9:03 AM CST Wow is this place a clique?
opalbeauty
opalbeautyopalbeautyWorcester County, USA8 Threads 851 Posts
Can't we all just take a puff and get a long..... smoking peace
Did you say you have too much self-control? Well carry on....keep fighting. laugh smoking
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May 4, 2008 9:03 AM CST Wow is this place a clique?
lusciousmile
lusciousmilelusciousmileThere, Aland Islands Finland25 Threads 2 Polls 11,989 Posts
alabamabebe: What is you people's hang up with Lush's hair? These comments are just the meanest thing I've seen on here in a long time, maybe ever. Give it a break, she can wear her hair any way she wants. She can shave it if she wants, why do you care? What's hair got to do with heritage anyway? How do you even know her heritage, or presume to say how she should express it? Personal attacks are not very attractive, you are just showing your pettiness.



I have also heard that black people should be a certain way, i'm wondering if that still means heritage ( black heritage- wtf ???), but maybe it's something else?!

Still waiting to hear what it is.

confused

Funny i should be told by a person who is not black, how all black people should be, and how to wear their hair.

We have a colonialist, in the making. applause
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May 4, 2008 9:07 AM CST Wow is this place a clique?
alabamabebe
alabamabebealabamabebeBanks of the Warrior River, Alabama USA66 Threads 3 Polls 4,404 Posts
morganlee: Hi this is where it

get's stupid because if you say you disagree with something , you will be told you are in a clique , i

agree with you it's pathetic
I think it's funny, they start a thread about being ignored and left out of the "clique", then when you reply to them they tell you to get lost. dunno
Someone doesn't agree, and they criticize their hair of all things, for crissake! doh
And they really wonder why they get left out and ignored! Clean up your own side of the street before you start attacking others.
And give the hair a break already! laugh
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May 4, 2008 9:08 AM CST Wow is this place a clique?
morganlee
morganleemorganleeQawra, Majjistral Malta27 Threads 1 Polls 4,368 Posts
lusciousmile: I have also heard that black people should be a certain way, i'm wondering if that still means heritage ( black heritage- wtf ???), but maybe it's something else?!

Still waiting to hear what it is.



Funny i should be told by a person who is not black, how all black people should be , and how to wear their hair.

We have a colonialist, in the making.


This clique thing is buggin me, i'm not in any clique but if i see something that i think is unfair i will say regardless of who it is. You then get told you are in a clique ??? i really don't understand this. On last page again a post was made with that ineundo, why is that necessary ??? dunno
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May 4, 2008 9:09 AM CST Wow is this place a clique?
Crystal29
Crystal29Crystal29Glasgow, Strathclyde, Scotland UK35 Threads 8,448 Posts
lusciousmile: It is not straight and my hair is only braided at the roots. Want that in measurements? Do you live in a village or haven't you been up close with many africans? I sympathise!

What am i thinking trying to explain myself to you!



Tell me how to wear my hair, after you walk around as you were born, naked! Pot calling the kettle black?


Lucious you dont have to justify yourself to anyone on here...your hair is lovely and none of their affair...just ignore them comfort
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May 4, 2008 9:10 AM CST Wow is this place a clique?
alabamabebe
alabamabebealabamabebeBanks of the Warrior River, Alabama USA66 Threads 3 Polls 4,404 Posts
morganlee: My natural colour is red, haven't seen it for 20 yrs! so what
I don't even know what my natural hair color is anymore, it used to be brown. laugh
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May 4, 2008 9:11 AM CST Wow is this place a clique?
morganlee
morganleemorganleeQawra, Majjistral Malta27 Threads 1 Polls 4,368 Posts
alabamabebe: I don't even know what my natural hair color is anymore, it used to be brown.
sometimes i'm tempted to leave it and see, but scared it is probably grey !! laugh
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May 4, 2008 9:13 AM CST Wow is this place a clique?
lusciousmile
lusciousmilelusciousmileThere, Aland Islands Finland25 Threads 2 Polls 11,989 Posts
Crystal29: Lucious you dont have to justify yourself to anyone on here...your hair is lovely and none of their affair...just ignore them



Braiding is an art to be appreciated, like painting or drawing up designs for clothes we all love to wear. I don't see why it gets that reaction.

Thanks Crys. hug
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May 4, 2008 9:16 AM CST Wow is this place a clique?
lusciousmile
lusciousmilelusciousmileThere, Aland Islands Finland25 Threads 2 Polls 11,989 Posts
morganlee: This clique thing is buggin me, i'm not in any clique but if i see something that i think is unfair i will say regardless of who it is. You then get told you are in a clique ??? i really don't understand this. On last page again a post was made with that ineundo, why is that necessary ???



I getthe 'cluque clique clique', still don't know who my mates in that, are.

They say they aren't looking for friends, and also say they don't like how people get ignored. So, the point of their whinning is???

They started with the wig, moved to how braiding is wrong, then how black people should behave......i wouldn't want to be their neighbour!


jaw drop
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May 4, 2008 9:20 AM CST Wow is this place a clique?
opalbeauty
opalbeautyopalbeautyWorcester County, USA8 Threads 851 Posts
lusciousmile: I have also heard that black people should be a certain way, i'm wondering if that still means heritage ( black heritage- wtf ???), but maybe it's something else?!

Still waiting to hear what it is.



Funny i should be told by a person who is not black, how all black people should be , and how to wear their hair.

We have a colonialist, in the making.


Come on Lusc, you know they are hating on you because you are beautiful. Why the hell is anyone concerned with the way you do your hair? Maybe they need to buy some green hair dye to hide their envy cos it's ugly.
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May 4, 2008 9:22 AM CST Wow is this place a clique?
lusciousmile
lusciousmilelusciousmileThere, Aland Islands Finland25 Threads 2 Polls 11,989 Posts
opalbeauty: Come on Lusc, you know they are hating on you because you are beautiful. Why the hell is anyone concerned with the way you do your hair? Maybe they need to buy some green hair dye to hide their envy cos it's ugly.



I know it's jealousy, i just like to play along. grin



rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing

Fireworks should start now....i'm not allowed to use the 'j' word.....it is offensive to some, even without mentioning names.

scold
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May 4, 2008 9:24 AM CST Wow is this place a clique?
Claayer
ClaayerClaayerWild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK107 Threads 9 Polls 15,888 Posts
opalbeauty: Can't we all just take a puff and get a long.....
Did you say you have too much self-control? Well carry on....keep fighting.



hahah laugh thumbs up
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