It wasn't an anniversary or family gathering ora one time event (concert)this date was it? Accept the apology and always remember this is 2008 whats good for the goose and all that. I cannot recall the times a woman said she'd be only ten minutes and 2 hours later she returns
She should be grateful he has friends it is a positive sign of ones likable character.
been awhile since I 've had the pleasure of being put on hold because my love interests is well liked or heaven forbid theirs a sales on shoes or beddings or some other only gods know why women get excited over sale.
let the woman who did forgive pencil this relationship gowth moment in her diary, because sure as i'm sitting here typing with 2 fingers and a thumb. there will be reversed situation, and you can bet your sweet beauty parlour appointment he will react, but his reaction will show restraint and compassion ..Ok saying compassion is overboard.
Duh if the relationship has lasting power this will occur again and again being with family will often override being with the "better half".. that applies to both him and her.
Guess it just goes to show that when you're younger, it's not that big a deal. When you get old like me, I'll bend over backwards to try and hang on to them for fear of it being a long time til the next one shows up. Come to think of it, it has been a very long time since I had to even think of such things.
If I get that starved and lonely for a relationship with a woman that I willingly and intentionally give up and sacrifice friend and family for this relationship she gonna have to be the embalmer spent most my life developing relationships and the first thing she wants to do is restrict deny even abolish them???
Run Dude Run.... if this is what Wikkeds kid sister is out to do. nothing personal Wikked just from current responses I've read if she is looking to dominate a man maybe she should find an easier prey...from what I've read theres an abundance of sheep here.
Imo.......being it was only 2nd date,his feelings arn't as serious as if the'yd been together a year in love.Those things happen at times and although the right thing to do would be call her and cancel it ,probably forgot all together.Since he did sincerley apologize,if she will date a man who lkes to drink now and then or more.She should give him a chance.They just started out.Now he may be extra careful knowing he hurt her,if he cares about her.Only he and your sister know exactly what was said and how they feel,so our opinions are just that.We were not there.
I was with her last night (Paula is her name by the way)...I think she is beating herself up over this moreso now...
She has always been a forgiving person, a gentler person (well gentler than i will ever be...lol) but she's trying so hard not to fall into the same pit falls as she did with her ex...but she had been so used to foriving Billy all his hockey games...she's finding it hard to hold her ground with Rob and his football games...
I told her if it will make her feel better...tell him that she forgives him...but does she want to date him...nope
But you're right if there is a sale on shoe going on...I'm all over that!
However...I do call and let them know I will NOT be showing up...not late...i'm just not showing up because i can't begin to tell you when i might be through looking at all the shoes!
By the way...I spend EVERY single day on my lunch...yep...looking at shoes!
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