Some Advice Here Please... ( Archived) (35)

Jan 7, 2008 8:32 AM CST Some Advice Here Please...
mbcasey
mbcaseymbcaseyNorth Myrtle Beach, South Carolina USA68 Threads 7 Polls 16,449 Posts
Bails on a second date?...seems his priorities are not your sister Urs, but his teenage ways.
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Jan 7, 2008 11:41 AM CST Some Advice Here Please...
dougmoerhoffman
dougmoerhoffmandougmoerhoffmanSt. Michaels, Maryland USA32 Posts
It's unanimous! Not a single reply says "give him a second chance."

So the answer to your sister's "BF" is: thumbs down thumbs down thumbs down thumbs down thumbs down thumbs down thumbs down doh scold barf devil
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Jan 7, 2008 12:34 PM CST Some Advice Here Please...
Rickster
RicksterRicksterNew York, USA24 Threads 3,362 Posts
If you see your sis falling into a similar pattern, then rest assure she is heading for another disaster.
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Jan 7, 2008 1:02 PM CST Some Advice Here Please...
fireliter
fireliterfireliterAllen Park, Michigan USA502 Threads 14 Polls 5,902 Posts
It wasn't an anniversary or family gathering ora one time event (concert)this date was it?
Accept the apology and always remember this is 2008 whats good for the goose and all that. I cannot recall the times a woman said she'd be only ten minutes and 2 hours later she returns

She should be grateful he has friends it is a positive sign of ones likable character.
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Jan 8, 2008 7:17 PM CST Some Advice Here Please...
wikked
wikkedwikkedAjax, Ontario Canada655 Threads 4 Polls 6,091 Posts
..."Why is people are on time, even early for doctor appointments, but when it comes to treating others time with respect they they ignore it?"...

I really liked this!!....until i read Fireliter's reply...sigh
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Jan 8, 2008 9:27 PM CST Some Advice Here Please...
fireliter
fireliterfireliterAllen Park, Michigan USA502 Threads 14 Polls 5,902 Posts
been awhile since I 've had the pleasure of being put on hold because my love interests is well liked or heaven forbid theirs a sales on shoes or beddings or some other only gods know why women get excited over sale.

let the woman who did forgive pencil this relationship gowth moment in her diary, because sure as i'm sitting here typing with 2 fingers and a thumb. there will be reversed situation, and you can bet your sweet beauty parlour appointment he will react, but his reaction will show restraint and compassion ..Ok saying compassion is overboard.rolling on the floor laughing

Duh if the relationship has lasting power this will occur again and again being with family will often override being with the "better half".. that applies to both him and her.
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Jan 8, 2008 9:30 PM CST Some Advice Here Please...
rwantin
rwantinrwantinRoyal Oak, Michigan USA17 Threads 8,924 Posts
thumbs up

Hey, I love football too, but a man has to have priorities. Or at least, try to have them straight.
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Jan 8, 2008 10:11 PM CST Some Advice Here Please...
dazzling_dave
dazzling_davedazzling_daveWaynesboro, Virginia USA4 Threads 1,993 Posts
Guess it just goes to show that when you're younger, it's not that big a deal. When you get old like me, I'll bend over backwards to try and hang on to them for fear of it being a long time til the next one shows up. Come to think of it, it has been a very long time since I had to even think of such things. rolling on the floor laughing
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Jan 8, 2008 10:25 PM CST Some Advice Here Please...
fireliter
fireliterfireliterAllen Park, Michigan USA502 Threads 14 Polls 5,902 Posts
If I get that starved and lonely for a relationship with a woman that I willingly and intentionally give up and sacrifice friend and family for this relationship she gonna have to be the embalmer spent most my life developing relationships and the first thing she wants to do is restrict deny even abolish them???

Run Dude Run.... if this is what Wikkeds kid sister is out to do. nothing personal Wikked just from current responses I've read if she is looking to dominate a man maybe she should find an easier prey...from what I've read theres an abundance of sheep here.
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Jan 8, 2008 10:27 PM CST Some Advice Here Please...
rwantin
rwantinrwantinRoyal Oak, Michigan USA17 Threads 8,924 Posts
Baaaahhhhh - Baaaaaaahhhhh. grin

Hey, how are ya Fire?
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Jan 8, 2008 10:31 PM CST Some Advice Here Please...
fireliter
fireliterfireliterAllen Park, Michigan USA502 Threads 14 Polls 5,902 Posts
woke this morning breathing and you know what they say . any day you wake up breathing is a good daylaugh

hows California treating you?
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Jan 8, 2008 11:00 PM CST Some Advice Here Please...
rwantin
rwantinrwantinRoyal Oak, Michigan USA17 Threads 8,924 Posts
Always a good thing. California is treating me, uh, well, the weather is nice. Actually, the last few days were pretty crappy, by the normal standard.

But I digress. My media credentials for the auto show were approved today - I leave Sunday for Detroit - and am ecstatic.

I suspect I am the only person in So Cal that WANTS to go to Detroit in JANUARY. It's all good. dancing
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Jan 8, 2008 11:12 PM CST Some Advice Here Please...
Imo.......being it was only 2nd date,his feelings arn't as serious as if the'yd been together a year in love.Those things happen at times and although the right thing to do would be call her and cancel it ,probably forgot all together.Since he did sincerley apologize,if she will date a man who lkes to drink now and then or more.She should give him a chance.They just started out.Now he may be extra careful knowing he hurt her,if he cares about her.Only he and your sister know exactly what was said and how they feel,so our opinions are just that.We were not there.
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Jan 10, 2008 6:23 AM CST Some Advice Here Please...
wikked
wikkedwikkedAjax, Ontario Canada655 Threads 4 Polls 6,091 Posts
I was with her last night (Paula is her name by the way)...I think she is beating herself up over this moreso now...

She has always been a forgiving person, a gentler person (well gentler than i will ever be...lol) but she's trying so hard not to fall into the same pit falls as she did with her ex...but she had been so used to foriving Billy all his hockey games...she's finding it hard to hold her ground with Rob and his football games...

I told her if it will make her feel better...tell him that she forgives him...but does she want to date him...nope
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Jan 10, 2008 6:26 AM CST Some Advice Here Please...
wikked
wikkedwikkedAjax, Ontario Canada655 Threads 4 Polls 6,091 Posts
I am a "timely" person Fire...

But you're right if there is a sale on shoe going on...I'm all over that!

However...I do call and let them know I will NOT be showing up...not late...i'm just not showing up because i can't begin to tell you when i might be through looking at all the shoes!laugh

By the way...I spend EVERY single day on my lunch...yep...looking at shoes!love
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