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dcj22Somewhere, Tennessee USA102 Threads 3 Polls 11,581 PostsHow do you handle it and what do you do when someone has hurt your feelings?
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I don't let people in close enuf to hurt my feelings.... but when they do... i pull even further away... lick my wounds... and continue on autopilot... (pardon the spelling... been banging my head against the wall tonight... think something worked it's way loose)
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Nothing is ever loose in there Brat. 
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I try to forget and shake it off. Took me a while to master it, but now I am renown for my short term memory! Got to have it in this world. You got to roll with it baby!
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Hey sweety,
It depends on the situation. Most of the time if someone hurts my feelings, I let them know that what they said/did hurt my feelings and why. And sometimes it was a complete misunderstanding. Like I said tho..........it really does depend on the situation. If you need someone to talk to you can mail me
It depends on the situation. Most of the time if someone hurts my feelings, I let them know that what they said/did hurt my feelings and why. And sometimes it was a complete misunderstanding. Like I said tho..........it really does depend on the situation. If you need someone to talk to you can mail me
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being with friends helps, they make ploting your next move interesting...
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thank you.... but days like today... i wonder... ya know... ------ This thread is Archived ------
Thanks, sweet friends.
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I've come to believe no one can make me feel anyway I dont' want to feel, so I have to ask myself what is the pay off , I really dont have the time to sit around worrying about , why did they do that to me ? the fact is they did, they are human and subject to error now where do I want to take it .Will I give them another chance or do I believe this was purposeful and therefore worth staying away from.
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It also depends on how much this person means to you, how important this person is to you. There is alot of things to way out. But if it really bothers you, face it with this person. They will either respect you and give you the same courtesy back, or just blow it off.
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Actually, I was blown off.
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Thank you. That was very well put.
I think I've played so closed to the chest for so long and not let myself get close to anyone. I stuck with my friends that I'd had for years, and didn't allow myself to get close to anyone else. I've been trying to get away from that. It's just hard to know how to deal anymore when it isn't someone I've trusted for years or decades.
I think I've played so closed to the chest for so long and not let myself get close to anyone. I stuck with my friends that I'd had for years, and didn't allow myself to get close to anyone else. I've been trying to get away from that. It's just hard to know how to deal anymore when it isn't someone I've trusted for years or decades.
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I take off 
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when my defences are down --- crying helps- hugs and then looking at the hurt and understanding it --- dealing with it 
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Hit them really hard in the face repeatedly.....
No just kidding.
No just kidding.
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You were blown off............wow that does hurt for anybody. But then you have to sit back and tell yourself you have no control over somebody else in how they react or feel. Then I would start telling myself , well that is this persons choice, nothing I can do. And move on. Even tho it might be hard, the decision has already been made.
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Thank you. How bout that hug?
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Fun to thin of though if someone has just pissed you off. Being pissed, I can handle.
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Yes, thank you.
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