You can be nice, polite and actualy willing to start a friendship and to help people also,,,,but,,,,asking for money just like that,,,,200 USD,,,for X or Y reason,,,i mean,,,come on,,,,,what is all that about ? ,,,and calling you baby,,,,you are soooo good to me,,i want to meet you as soon as possible,,,you look so beautiful and bla bla bla,,,etc etc etc,,,just to ask you for money?????,,,,ahhhh ?? is this the way to do business ? he he he,,,i guess ,,,live a lot and you get to see a lot,,,,believe me people i just want to meet normal good people,,,,specialy girls and/or women,,,he he he
You are really lucky because it took you only 3 chat sessions and you knew what its all about. There are worse here, people with fake profile,fake pictures( I think I know where they are from) they tell you in many sessions a lot of fairytales and at the end something terrible is happening to them and they ask you for money. I met the same people in "my space" it was a reason why I left there, but they are here too but just now I recognice them at once. One has to be very careful,but we all know that.
Do you always think worst of others? Judging on yourself?
Why not be honest and say 'I cannot afford it' or 'you're not convincing enough'? You liked the chatty-juicy staff, I suspect been juicing back. So you led her to believe you really meant it. Otherwise you have been just taking advantage of her hopes.
For if you can, do a good thing and live happily ever after knowing that you have helped someone. You win in both cases whether she disappears or delivers the promise.
Shall I explain why I never use chat programs with cameras where on a second chat they nag to put it on so they do not feel so lonely and do not get a w***er's cramp staring at still pictures?
Or live your paranoid life that everyone is here to cheat on you?
The rules here quite clearly state not to send money or be asked for money by anyone.................not just here but anywhere on the net...........wise up
lets see what I know about you. It was not me asking you for dosh. You exchanged some words with a woman.
And what I have assumed. For three chat sessions (or letters) it was not like 'thank you for your interest but do not contact me again' which ended up with 'if you want me to stop give me money', was it?
And what I have learned about you. You seem to overreact to things a little.
I swear I never meant any disrespect for you, simply pointed out the possibility of looking at things at a different angle.
In response to: lets see what I know about you. It was not me asking you for dosh. You exchanged some words with a woman.
And what I have assumed. For three chat sessions (or letters) it was not like 'thank you for your interest but do not contact me again' which ended up with 'if you want me to stop give me money', was it?
And what I have learned about you. You seem to overreact to things a little.
I swear I never meant any disrespect for you, simply pointed out the possibility of looking at things at a different angle.
I actually think you're the one doing the overreacting here...
ok,,,thank you all,,,,,maybe i do overreacted,,,a little,,,but,,,,because the missundertanding of the main issue,,,,ok,,,,you know it is very difficult to me ,,,,,to deliver the right message and context,,,using just written words,,,,i need the body language you know,,,face expressions,,,the voice,,sometimes the lack of these communication's tools,,,,can create problems,,and also can lose chances,,,soo,,,,peace,,,,and thank you,,,
well,,,never again,,,always learning,,,i love life
ok,,,thank you all,,,,,maybe i do overreacted,,,a little,,,but,,,,because the missundertanding of the main issue,,,,ok,,,,you know it is very difficult to me ,,,,,to deliver the right message and context,,,using just written words,,,,i need the body language you know,,,face expressions,,,the voice,,sometimes the lack of these communication's tools,,,,can create problems,,and also can lose chances,,,soo,,,,peace,,,,and thank you,,,
you had every right to post as you did, many of us on here have been scammed
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