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Jan 15, 2008 1:06 PM CST Just need to say it
morganlee
morganleemorganleeQawra, Majjistral Malta27 Threads 1 Polls 4,368 Posts
I found out by email tonight that my Mother is ill in hospital and it's not looking good. I called my Father(we haven't spoken for 5 yrs) he told me he didn't need me and i was no longer in his life. It's hurting like hell
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Jan 15, 2008 1:09 PM CST Just need to say it
PILIPALA
PILIPALAPILIPALACardiff, South Glamorgan, Wales UK200 Threads 4,804 Posts
Aww i am so sorry to here that.
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Jan 15, 2008 1:09 PM CST Just need to say it
oh honey I'm sorry....I will keep your mom in my prayers along you and your dad..i'm here for you if you need me...all the love sweetyangel teddybear hug comfort
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Jan 15, 2008 1:10 PM CST Just need to say it
Claayer
ClaayerClaayerWild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK107 Threads 9 Polls 15,888 Posts
In response to: I found out by email tonight that my Mother is ill in hospital and it's not looking good. I called my Father(we haven't spoken for 5 yrs) he told me he didn't need me and i was no longer in his life. It's hurting like hell


Ohhhhh I am sooooo sorry to hear that.. please get in touch if you want to vent. I'm a good listener (believe it or not) hug hug hug hug
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Jan 15, 2008 1:10 PM CST Just need to say it
kissmedeeply
kissmedeeplykissmedeeplyPetitcodiac, New Brunswick Canada70 Threads 15,139 Posts
Morganlee i am so sorry..my thoughts and prayers go to you and ur mother...if you need to talk i am hereteddybear
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Jan 15, 2008 1:10 PM CST Just need to say it
Pptrixibell
PptrixibellPptrixibellEdinburgh, Lothian, Scotland UK5 Threads 1,903 Posts
I'm so sorry to hear that Morgan...my thoughts are with you and you're family at this difficult time honey....if you wanna chat...I'm all ears sweeties..hug hug teddybear
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Jan 15, 2008 1:12 PM CST Just need to say it
Claayer
ClaayerClaayerWild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK107 Threads 9 Polls 15,888 Posts
You know what tho... she may well be his *wife*... but she is also your *MUM*...

and you only have ONE! You also have a lifetime for regrets..

Don't let what he says effect you..


YOU do what you think your mum (and you).. would want.
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Jan 15, 2008 1:12 PM CST Just need to say it
Scottishlass
ScottishlassScottishlassKnoxville, Tennessee USA491 Threads 23 Polls 3,324 Posts
if you need a shoulder, i have 2 strong ones. hug comfort
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Jan 15, 2008 1:12 PM CST Just need to say it
gentlepaws
gentlepawsgentlepawsAny town, Ontario Canada1,019 Threads 13 Polls 9,583 Posts
I am so sorry on both counts. All my thoughts to your mom. As for your dad being so cruel....I don't know what to say.
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Jan 15, 2008 1:13 PM CST Just need to say it
p_seg
p_segp_segCentral, Xlokk Malta340 Threads 4,497 Posts
morganlee: I found out by email tonight that my Mother is ill in hospital and it's not looking good. I called my Father(we haven't spoken for 5 yrs) he told me he didn't need me and i was no longer in his life. It's hurting like hell


Ii'm sorry to hear that. but whatever your father says, she's still your mother, so i don't blame you for being worried about her.

I'll keep your mum in my thoughts and prayers. hug
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Jan 15, 2008 1:16 PM CST Just need to say it
morganlee
morganleemorganleeQawra, Majjistral Malta27 Threads 1 Polls 4,368 Posts
Thank you, i just feel a bit numbed by his response i thought maybe he had mellowed a bit over the years
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Jan 15, 2008 1:20 PM CST Just need to say it
gentlepaws
gentlepawsgentlepawsAny town, Ontario Canada1,019 Threads 13 Polls 9,583 Posts
My mind's arms are wrapped around you and holding you tight. Hope it helps.
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Jan 15, 2008 1:22 PM CST Just need to say it
morganlee
morganleemorganleeQawra, Majjistral Malta27 Threads 1 Polls 4,368 Posts
In response to: My mind's arms are wrapped around you and holding you tight. Hope it helps.


Feeling that i am not so alone is helping, thank you
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Jan 15, 2008 1:22 PM CST Just need to say it
p_seg
p_segp_segCentral, Xlokk Malta340 Threads 4,497 Posts
morganlee: Thank you, i just feel a bit numbed by his response i thought maybe he had mellowed a bit over the years


please consider that he might also be venting his worries on you angel
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Jan 15, 2008 1:25 PM CST Just need to say it
gentlepaws
gentlepawsgentlepawsAny town, Ontario Canada1,019 Threads 13 Polls 9,583 Posts
In response to: please consider that he might also be venting his worries on you


Sorry, there's no excuse on earth for what he did.
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Jan 15, 2008 1:26 PM CST Just need to say it
morganlee
morganleemorganleeQawra, Majjistral Malta27 Threads 1 Polls 4,368 Posts
In response to: please consider that he might also be venting his worries on you


That is what i am telling myself, i thought i would try call again tomorrow
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Jan 15, 2008 1:28 PM CST Just need to say it
Claayer
ClaayerClaayerWild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK107 Threads 9 Polls 15,888 Posts
In response to: if you need a shoulder, i have 2 strong ones.


Lass.. you are SUCH a darling (said with my best English accent) giggle
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Jan 15, 2008 1:28 PM CST Just need to say it
Claayer
ClaayerClaayerWild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK107 Threads 9 Polls 15,888 Posts
In response to: Thank you, i just feel a bit numbed by his response i thought maybe he had mellowed a bit over the years


Pffffft! sometimes they don't .. I made you and Ecard.. btw. teddybear teddybear
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Jan 15, 2008 1:29 PM CST Just need to say it
olive111
olive111olive111pdown, Down Ireland5 Threads 1 Polls 128 Posts
((((((((hugs))))))))))

if u need a chat....u know where i am

hug
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Jan 15, 2008 1:30 PM CST Just need to say it
Claayer
ClaayerClaayerWild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK107 Threads 9 Polls 15,888 Posts
In response to: Sorry, there's no excuse on earth for what he did.


I agree..

When the chips are down.. its the time to put it ALL aside..

for the person that matters MOST at the time.

IMO
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