dancingfarmer: Social Club is right because many who hook up stay on just to socialize with the friends they made. Whether that is good or bad is an individual choice of a person's preferences. The downside of that is new people don't know and if they just look at the picture and don't read the profile, it can be very confusing for them. There are also many who hide behind their on-line persona because it means they don't have to face the world and perhaps be rejected or put down. That makes the friends they make here even more valuable in their lives. To each his own....
Good point!!!But I have seen friends come and go on here at CS.
Forum is just that,"open discussion" ..and for those that are just in and out checking out profiles and leaving messages AM sure it is just that ..."a dating site" But just think of the weddings that have taken place,the relationships,be it romance or friendships,had it not been for socializing in forum,many of them would not have taken place ...and to me thats a wonderful thing.
alabamabebeBanks of the Warrior River, Alabama USA4,404 posts
Getting so sick of people complaining about this site, if ya don't like it here, you're free to leave.
I've been on other sites, they're bor-ing! This one has the very best most fun forums. One reason there seem to be a lot of attached people here, they don't want to leave when they hook up. That says a lot about the quality of people and the friendships that develop.
No, you're not likely to meet someone who lives in your backyard on the forums. It's just fun, and it is possible to meet someone, I did.
If you're seriously wanting to meet someone, do a search, you can put in the miles, ages, etc., and see what comes up. Send flowers to the one that sound interesting. And don't get your feelings hurt if you get rejected. You put yourself out there, something may happen. It's not going to just coming here and b**ching about it!
alabamabebe: Getting so sick of people complaining about this site, if ya don't like it here, you're free to leave.
I've been on other sites, they're bor-ing! This one has the very best most fun forums. One reason there seem to be a lot of attached people here, they don't want to leave when they hook up. That says a lot about the quality of people and the friendships that develop.
No, you're not likely to meet someone who lives in your backyard on the forums. It's just fun, and it is possible to meet someone, I did.
If you're seriously wanting to meet someone, do a search, you can put in the miles, ages, etc., and see what comes up. Send flowers to the one that sound interesting. And don't get your feelings hurt if you get rejected. You put yourself out there, something may happen. It's not going to just coming here and b**ching about it!
Been there done that my friend.How long have you been on CS.I have been on here for three years and I have seen some of my friends on here get married.Now how can you explan that.Hmmmm.
alabamabebeBanks of the Warrior River, Alabama USA4,404 posts
gtbulldog: Been there done that my friend.How long have you been on CS.I have been on here for three years and I have seen some of my friends on here get married.Now how can you explan that.Hmmmm.
Soooo, maybe it's not the site??
And I've been here a year. I still like it. When I don't, I'll leave. It's simple as that.
A lot of bitterness here! I like this site. I don't come here exclusively for romance or friendship. Strange how in a crowded world, human contact gets more important?
spiceygamble: ...or at least behave like a gentleman towards the women who aren't interested in him.
A little off topic,but,are we talking about me .........here?
I SURE AS HELL hope not.......because I don't snap mty fingers at women. I mean,occasionally,I'll ask them to get me a beer..........but that's about it.
spiceygamble: ...or at least behave like a gentleman towards the women who aren't interested in him.
This was the answer to the persons question . Been there done that my friend.How long have you been on CS.I have been on here for three years and I have seen some of my friends on here get married.Now how can you explan that.Hmmmm.
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then I would not be lonely.I am me myself and I and lonely.