can anyone answer me (35)

Sadly true.

you need to read this all yourself practice what you said ,as everything you wrote has been said already,i can only speak for myself ,not like some on here who think that they can speak for 50% of all men or women on here,but if you request that you do not what mail or flowers ,why will i what to send you them,i was just asking a question and not having a go at anyone,javascript:emot('');
professor

Some replies are very funny indeed,like the one you gave, Lisa.
Ok so you meet a guy somewhere outside CS. How do you know how old he is? Do you ask him? If you find him terribly exciting, and he is outside your age bracket, do you dump him? And if he lies, and says he is younger or older? but you still like him, what happens then?
unfortunately, the age of each and every one of us is given on this site, and it is automatically updated, to make sure that no one gets caught out.
So you will know the age before knowing the person. Which in your words would eliminate the person from your interest page. But if you had to meet that person in real life, before knowing his age, or his true age, you might have found him quite a treat.

And how do you know how many chances you might have thrown away already by doing so? Then of course one hears how little serious mens' approach is to CS women. Hope there are not a lot like you, or we guys would find it very difficult to latch on to some younger or older women.
As for the profile, can you really describe yourself in a profile and in a few words?

About sending flowers to a woman, what do you want to send to attract some interest? Are'nt flowers always appreciated by women, except those who suffer from hay fever??

One of my recent girlfriends was 27 years old. We met in a "real life" situation. She liked me a lot, and it made no difference to her when I told her that I was 61 then, but it would have ruled me out on the site using your inch tape.

No hard feelings Lisa, just my opinion.

Antcus - what women say and write and what they mean are totally different............... Lisa keeps sending me emails and flowers and stuff and I keep telling her she's way too old for me, but does she listen? No Sir!

(just joking, Lisa)

Antcus - when you and I get into a nursing home and some hot geriatric chick chats us up......... will we really care if she is 81 or 85 years old?

"Some replies are very funny indeed,like the one you gave, Lisa." By Antcus

Well i always strive to be funny.......But in all seriousness everyone has there different opinions on age gaps in relationships and i personally wouldnt date someone who is 10 years or more older (or younger for that) than me. If that makes me wrong in some peoples eyes, so be it. I am who I am and if you dont like it thats your problem.

I was not getting at other people that will consider dating older or younger men, i just think some men should read profiles before they send mail or flowers and save themselves the time.

[I reply and thank anyone who sends me a flower. I find it to be quite a compliment. If anyone takes the time to give you notice and contact you, they deserve to be acknowledged and appreciated. Treat everyone the same way that you want to be treated]

Another one who thinks I'm senile and double-posts his reply...