Why do honest people have trouble telling the truth? (14)
nomindgamesPainesville, Ohio USA168 Threads 1 Polls 3,154 PostsThere are exceptions to the rule,but fe.When a couple 1st meet,or go on blind date,or even get really freindly on phone(from site or r/l)why is that the non-players,the genuinely honest people suddenly become liars?In security,afraid of reaction?What I mean is,ex: blind date,he decides when it's over he is not at all interested in her.Yet he says I'll call you or it was nice evening,be in touch.Or woman meets man from site,they get along well.Start phone conversatins and she decides that he is not what she wants,but instead of saying so politley,she makes excuse to hang up and avoids his calls.Will anyone here be trutful,admit they do or have done it and why?
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Looks like no one else knows the answer either or no one will admit they have done it.I di when I was young.Then decided I would get more respect (maybe not be liked) being up front in kind way.Guess this 1 comes back in a day or month again.
was worth try.
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nomindgames: There are exceptions to the rule,but fe.When a couple 1st meet,or go on blind date,or even get really freindly on phone(from site or r/l)why is that the non-players,the genuinely honest people suddenly become liars?In security,afraid of reaction?What I mean is,ex: blind date,he decides when it's over he is not at all interested in her.Yet he says I'll call you or it was nice evening,be in touch.Or woman meets man from site,they get along well.Start phone conversatins and she decides that he is not what she wants,but instead of saying so politley,she makes excuse to hang up and avoids his calls.Will anyone here be trutful,admit they do or have done it and why?
I really think these people don't like confrontation...What they don't realize is...It's far better to be upfront and say "I'm not interested" than to keep someone hanging to alleviate their discomfort!!!!!!!!
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to honest for my own good gets me into trouble 
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My experience (and mine only), it is a simple four letter word.. FEAR!!!!!!!!!!!!! If not fear, whay are so many that "say" they are looking for the "one", spending hours on a computer and not out meeting people...
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I'm guilty of the crime...
not so much now, cuz ummmm havent been dating much.....but in regards to guys on here, i've been pretty open and told then what I wanted or expected...its hard sometimes, im not so much for hurting anyones feelings...its easy to take the indirect route to the truth, then the direct one when it comes to emotions...
not so much now, cuz ummmm havent been dating much.....but in regards to guys on here, i've been pretty open and told then what I wanted or expected...its hard sometimes, im not so much for hurting anyones feelings...its easy to take the indirect route to the truth, then the direct one when it comes to emotions...------ This thread is Archived ------
nomindgames: There are exceptions to the rule,but fe.When a couple 1st meet,or go on blind date,or even get really freindly on phone(from site or r/l)why is that the non-players,the genuinely honest people suddenly become liars?In security,afraid of reaction?What I mean is,ex: blind date,he decides when it's over he is not at all interested in her.Yet he says I'll call you or it was nice evening,be in touch.Or woman meets man from site,they get along well.Start phone conversatins and she decides that he is not what she wants,but instead of saying so politley,she makes excuse to hang up and avoids his calls.Will anyone here be trutful,admit they do or have done it and why?
Not quite right, You have just meet some really quality guys.
If they suddenly start lying,, they didn't suddenly start lying, they were already liars claiming to be honest.
Huge difference!
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HJFinAZ: My experience (and mine only), it is a simple four letter word.. FEAR!!!!!!!!!!!!! If not fear, whay are so many that "say" they are looking for the "one", spending hours on a computer and not out meeting people...
Can't argue with logic and truth. JMO.
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HJFinAZ: My experience (and mine only), it is a simple four letter word.. FEAR!!!!!!!!!!!!! If not fear, whay are so many that "say" they are looking for the "one", spending hours on a computer and not out meeting people...
Didn't approach the ?.Not fear of meeting or dating.As for those looking on here for a partner for life,well should they walk down the street with a poster of what they want?I do and sure many others do get out have social life.I date also without help of pc.Problem is,most folks don't know where to look,and besides sometimes you can learn alot from meeting someone in cyberspace.
OR are you trying to say fear is why we humans who are basically honest lie to another about another get together?
Still love ya HJ
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I wasn't asking because of my experiences,though I had a few years back.I'm talking about people I know to be honest ,real,folks,but then when it comes to saying not interested,they lie.I'm not talking about players who live their life in lies.
Human nature maybe?
Thanks beb fo your frank honest but why?
Human nature maybe?
Thanks beb fo your frank honest but why?
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nomindgames: I wasn't asking because of my experiences,though I had a few years back.I'm talking about people I know to be honest ,real,folks,but then when it comes to saying not interested,they lie.I'm not talking about players who live their life in lies.
Human nature maybe?
Thanks beb fo your frank honest but why?
Human nature maybe?
Thanks beb fo your frank honest but why?
why did i admit to it or why what?
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blue_eyed_blonde: why did i admit to it or why what?
I asked people to admit it and then say why they do it.So yes why do you say 1 thing and think another?
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nomindgames: I asked people to admit it and then say why they do it.So yes why do you say 1 thing and think another?
I guess to ultimately save myself from being embarassed to tell them that i wasnt so interested in them, not knowing what their reaction will be if its embarassed, angry, rejected...not sure, just trying to save feelings when in the end, it really caused more heartache or trouble then just coming out with it...
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nomindgames: I asked people to admit it and then say why they do it.So yes why do you say 1 thing and think another?
Sorry, Mine is all true, and I tell the truth,
If people dont like me for what I really am.. then I just dont need them in my life.. their loss.
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