The relationship between chemistry & respect. ( Archived) (47)

Feb 18, 2008 7:13 AM CST The relationship between chemistry & respect.
morganlee
morganleemorganleeQawra, Majjistral Malta27 Threads 1 Polls 4,368 Posts
Hi Detente wave for me the chemistry has generally come first, but on the odd ocassion the later has happened, so dunno
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Feb 18, 2008 7:29 AM CST The relationship between chemistry & respect.
jbibiza
jbibizajbibizaCasinos, Valencia Spain94 Threads 4 Polls 4,914 Posts
Detente: Morning JB & Morgan!

I hear you JB...and this is what I've noticed...it's a most comon pattern it seems...chemistry first.

And this is why I believe there are so many problems within relationships...people are so busy feeling that it could be the case that the more cerebral qualities that could lead to a successful and healthy relationship are often forgotten.
Oh deary me...


Again, I think those people wind up being our friends... My best friend from the time I was 15 is a man, we get along so well, there is nothing in my life that he doesn't know and we've been there for each other through all the hurts and celebrations in our lives. It would have made such good sense for us to be together... but there was always something missing... desire, chemistry, I could never imagine making love to him but love him dearly.

Good Morning to you as well, although it's afternoon here! hug

Hey Morgan wave
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Feb 18, 2008 7:32 AM CST The relationship between chemistry & respect.
morganlee
morganleemorganleeQawra, Majjistral Malta27 Threads 1 Polls 4,368 Posts
jbibiza: Again, I think those people wind up being our friends... My best friend from the time I was 15 is a man, we get along so well, there is nothing in my life that he doesn't know and we've been there for each other through all the hurts and celebrations in our lives. It would have made such good sense for us to be together... but there was always something missing... desire, chemistry, I could never imagine making love to him but love him dearly.

Good Morning to you as well, although it's afternoon here!

Hey Morgan
Hi still cold? it's freeckin freezin here hug
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Feb 18, 2008 7:39 AM CST The relationship between chemistry & respect.
Konigsberg
KonigsbergKonigsbergJurassic Park (Site B), Nova Scotia Canada57 Threads 3 Polls 8,448 Posts
To focus an eyes on the person ... and to select him/her from the crowd ... that's what we call a chemistry. It is like "There is something I find interesting about her/him. confused I want to to explore more ... "

But chemistry is only a start up kick ....... if those little things ( that we include in deffinition of respect ... which everyone understands differently) doesn't follow in a pattern of our own deffinition ... then Alas! Bye Bye chemistry .... everyone are free to go and get busy with their own lifes. And Good Luck with it.

Once again .... My personal opinion on this ( bloody phylosophical question) is : There is no pattern. It is a chaos, Catch 22 situation. confused




More coffee your way,little one ? I'd love to share mine grin cheers
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Feb 18, 2008 7:43 AM CST The relationship between chemistry & respect.
jbibiza
jbibizajbibizaCasinos, Valencia Spain94 Threads 4 Polls 4,914 Posts
morganlee: Hi still cold? it's freeckin freezin here


Grey, cold, and still that wicked cold wind!!! I hate it like this!!! I want to go into town and sit on a cafe terrace for my morning coffee... instead I'm huddled on my couch with my down quilt, thinking about getting KFC to deliver cause it's to damn cold to go to the market!!! laugh hug
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Feb 18, 2008 7:44 AM CST The relationship between chemistry & respect.
morganlee
morganleemorganleeQawra, Majjistral Malta27 Threads 1 Polls 4,368 Posts
jbibiza: Grey, cold, and still that wicked cold wind!!! I hate it like this!!! I want to go into town and sit on a cafe terrace for my morning coffee... instead I'm huddled on my couch with my down quilt, thinking about getting KFC to deliver cause it's to damn cold to go to the market!!!


rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing same here keep warm hug
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Feb 18, 2008 7:58 AM CST The relationship between chemistry & respect.
Konigsberg
KonigsbergKonigsbergJurassic Park (Site B), Nova Scotia Canada57 Threads 3 Polls 8,448 Posts
jbibiza: Grey, cold, and still that wicked cold wind!!! I hate it like this!!! I want to go into town and sit on a cafe terrace for my morning coffee... instead I'm huddled on my couch with my down quilt, thinking about getting KFC to deliver cause it's to damn cold to go to the market!!!





and I do respect and feel your pain Jbibiza comfort
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Feb 18, 2008 8:02 AM CST The relationship between chemistry & respect.
Adam2
Adam2Adam2Konstanz, Baden-Wuerttemberg Germany3 Threads 90 Posts
To pay anyone respect is a general attitude of mine. It doesn't has to do with posibly growing any chemistry to another one.

Again, on the other hand, I can't imagine feeling/growing any chemistry to someone who hasn't any respect to others.

Chemistry is very different from respect and rather not explainable.confused wine
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Feb 18, 2008 8:09 AM CST The relationship between chemistry & respect.
Konigsberg
KonigsbergKonigsbergJurassic Park (Site B), Nova Scotia Canada57 Threads 3 Polls 8,448 Posts
Adam said "Chemistry is very different from respect and rather not explainable"
It is not Adam ... maybe that's why we call it chemistry.


i had to pay more attention to chemistry in High school ... I guess moping
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Feb 18, 2008 8:13 AM CST The relationship between chemistry & respect.
Adam2
Adam2Adam2Konstanz, Baden-Wuerttemberg Germany3 Threads 90 Posts
Konigsberg: Adam said "Chemistry is very different from respect and rather not explainable"
It is not Adam ... maybe that's why we call it chemistry. i had to pay more attention to chemistry in High school ... I guess


Do you think it would help to look over may old chemistry manuals from high school ?blues
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Feb 18, 2008 8:14 AM CST The relationship between chemistry & respect.
jbibiza
jbibizajbibizaCasinos, Valencia Spain94 Threads 4 Polls 4,914 Posts
Konigsberg: and I do respect and feel your pain Jbibiza
confused dunno
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Feb 18, 2008 8:15 AM CST The relationship between chemistry & respect.
Konigsberg
KonigsbergKonigsbergJurassic Park (Site B), Nova Scotia Canada57 Threads 3 Polls 8,448 Posts
the topic of thread is Respect between human beings .... not about weather conditions.

wine
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Feb 18, 2008 8:27 AM CST The relationship between chemistry & respect.
Konigsberg
KonigsbergKonigsbergJurassic Park (Site B), Nova Scotia Canada57 Threads 3 Polls 8,448 Posts
Adam2: Do you think it would help to look over may old chemistry manuals from high school ?


Well ... i would say they are all outdated already it will not help .... I would play with studying Social science and Biology instead professor wine
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Feb 18, 2008 8:29 AM CST The relationship between chemistry & respect.
jbibiza
jbibizajbibizaCasinos, Valencia Spain94 Threads 4 Polls 4,914 Posts
Konigsberg: the topic of thread is Respect between human beings .... not about weather conditions.


Well this makes 2 times that you have felt a need to tell me what I can or can't do.

First to tell me to get off of a thread... and now an attempt to chastise me for going off subject on a thread.

I don't see you going through other threads where people have taken a moment to greet each other and exchange a bit of chit chat.

What is it about me... that brings out this thinly veiled hostility in you?
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Feb 18, 2008 8:31 AM CST The relationship between chemistry & respect.
Konigsberg
KonigsbergKonigsbergJurassic Park (Site B), Nova Scotia Canada57 Threads 3 Polls 8,448 Posts
doh
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Feb 18, 2008 8:35 AM CST The relationship between chemistry & respect.
arabella
arabellaarabellaNear Farmington, Maine USA98 Threads 1 Polls 6,199 Posts
jbibiza: Well this makes 2 times that you have felt a need to tell me what I can or can't do.

First to tell me to get off of a thread... and now an attempt to chastise me for going off subject on a thread.

I don't see you going through other threads where people have taken a moment to greet each other and exchange a bit of chit chat.

What is it about me... that brings out this thinly veiled hostility in you?


I don't understand this personality change in you either, Marina


Or maybe I do doh
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Feb 18, 2008 8:39 AM CST The relationship between chemistry & respect.
Konigsberg
KonigsbergKonigsbergJurassic Park (Site B), Nova Scotia Canada57 Threads 3 Polls 8,448 Posts
Joanie All I can say to you (since I am absolutely puzzled about your sensitivity to my Questions)

is bouquet
arabella: I don't understand this personality change in you either, MarinaOr maybe I do
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Feb 18, 2008 8:39 AM CST The relationship between chemistry & respect.
morganlee
morganleemorganleeQawra, Majjistral Malta27 Threads 1 Polls 4,368 Posts
Konigsberg: the topic of thread is Respect between human beings .... not about weather conditions.
Sorry i offended you but actually you and 2 others hijacked a thread i started a few days ago for 2 pages. i was merely saying hello to friend and our converstion was limited to 4 posts. wine
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Feb 18, 2008 8:43 AM CST The relationship between chemistry & respect.
breezee
breezeebreezeeathens, Attica Greece20 Threads 1,136 Posts
It's always always always been respect for me first....

I can honestly say that I have never felt that chemistry people talk about when they just meet someone.

Things I respect are kindness, integrity and (unfortunately), intelligence.......
I have learnt to be wary of intelligent men (sorry), but continue to be a fool for kindness,humanity, dependability, integrity, solid characteristics in a personality that I can respect.
Otherwise, I pretty much ignore what men have to offer.

Sounds good, doesn't it......... like I should have a headstart on happiness, according to you guys.....

Doesn't always work that way.
I've never ever followed my 'girl willy' in all my life and still I've managed to get caught up in stupid relationships where men realize I'm hooked emotionally and start to treat me like crap, including taking my money, standing me up, manipulating me emotionally, nya, nya, nya, nya, nya, nya.......
While they continue to be kind, sweet, respectful, self-sacrificing, NICE to the rest of the world. wave
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Feb 18, 2008 8:44 AM CST The relationship between chemistry & respect.
jbibiza
jbibizajbibizaCasinos, Valencia Spain94 Threads 4 Polls 4,914 Posts
doh


Since there seems to be a negative chemistry between us... out of respect for others on CS please do not respond to my posts and I of course will not respond to yours. wine
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