I'm a natural redhead, and I am always hearing from men about how they "have a thing for redheads". I want to know just what it is that provokes this response in men, and what kind of ideas they have about us in general. I have always known that to men, redheads are an enigma, but I would like some feed back about their real feelings. I have found that most men either love us, or hate us, usually never middle of the road. Any guys care to enlighten me?
You said it best about the men loving you, hating you or being middle of the road, such is the personality I have experienced from redheads, here, there and everywhere......every so fiery!!!
we are said to have bad tempers however in "most" cases we will take alot before we explode. Cindy do you find that alot of guys bring this up to you too or do I just come across that way
I get that a lot too, but I think guys just believe the stereo type that we have bad tempers. I am quite passionate about what I believe in, but it takes a lot for me to get really mad. When we do get mad, guys say, "see, redheads do have a temper". Good grief! Everyone does, when they are pushed to it.
All the red heads I've ever known have been wobnderful people and some of them are exceptionally beautiful. My boss is a red head chick and she is just fantastic. I think the red head thing as far as attraction goes is about the lower proportion of the population being red head. If you got to asia being blonde (natural) will do the same thing. Exotic is interesting. In fact I cant think of a country that has a higher population of redheads than any other colour but if you tell me which one it is.....I pack my bags and go thank you very much.
I have heard that about the higher tolerance for pain. I have had some really serious injuries, and I never whined about them as much as my ex-husband would have. LOL
For me it goes back to childhood(3rd grade)...a red headed nurse was my first crush.
I had a tonsil-ectomy(sp?). The doctor didn't stitch the inside of my throat back up right and I spent about twenty four hours vomitting blood. So there I was..my pitifull little self and this nurse...wouldn't leave my side. She was the most beautifull woman I had ever seen and there she was taking care of me. I didn't care that I felt horrible...I kept making jokes to get her to laugh. I have never enjoyed misery so much since that day.
I have dated 2 red heads. The last one for almost 2 years. Never made love to anyone in like her! She was a model in her teens and early 20's. Acted on a soap opera and another TV show. She was chosen to do a Silkience shampoo commercial.
She was a Gemini. My first experience with one of them. She had problems telling the truth. Too bad!
Not always the case not any guy we want. I had 2 blonde headed blue eyed sisters and then there was me. They got whoever they wanted. As far as the pain thing goes I do have a very high tollerance for pain.
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