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blue_eyed_blonde: aaawww cuss..its because I chose to give love and not give it so I cant feel it...
Now you're being logically consistent, Trudy. I like that in a woman.
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Loving is so much harder!! I would like to be loved...just not praised. I really am uncomfortable with compliments!!
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Scottishlass: Would you rather be loved or would you rather love?
Love is attachment. Whether you'd rather be attached or not depends on who, or if, someone becomes attached first.
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The choice is between being hurt or hurting someone else; neither then; if it's not reciprocal it don't mean a thing.
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constanza: The choice is between being hurt or hurting someone else; neither then; if it's not reciprocal it don't mean a thing.
My thoughts exactly...
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To be truthful, Scottichlass, you can't have one without the other.
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blue_eyed_blonde: Hmmm good question, interesting for sure...
Im not sure how to answer it logically....and if you can have one and not the other? As great as being loved is and I would have to go with I would rather love......
Only because, I cant imagine not loving my kids. I would rather have this feeling of loving them with all I am... the pride, honor, and accomplishment that comes with being their mom. I dont think I would feel all of that if I chose to be loved, rather then giving my love.
So with that, I'm assuming that I would choose the same way if were regarding a different relationship...aawww but to be loved is precious.
Im not sure how to answer it logically....and if you can have one and not the other? As great as being loved is and I would have to go with I would rather love......
Only because, I cant imagine not loving my kids. I would rather have this feeling of loving them with all I am... the pride, honor, and accomplishment that comes with being their mom. I dont think I would feel all of that if I chose to be loved, rather then giving my love.
So with that, I'm assuming that I would choose the same way if were regarding a different relationship...aawww but to be loved is precious.
But there is nothing more misrable than loveing and not being loved in return.
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Scottishlass: Would you rather be loved or would you rather love?
Love
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