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Mar 26, 2008 4:41 PM CST We're All Guilty of It..
Zarah
ZarahZarahdublin, Dublin Ireland28 Threads 1,388 Posts
When we ask something really dumber than dumb...
Someone vomiting loudly and you ask...are you o.k.?
When you call your husband at home and ask...Are you at home?
When someone is standing in line looking impatient and you ask...Are you being served yet?
Why do we do this...do we have a moment of mind slip or are we simply thinking out loud?
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Mar 26, 2008 4:46 PM CST We're All Guilty of It..
sxc666
sxc666sxc666unknown, Queensland Australia51 Threads 16,853 Posts
I think we are just seeking verbal confirmation.

But yes these things do seem really silly.

I think as you said also, we think out loud sometimes.

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Mar 26, 2008 4:46 PM CST We're All Guilty of It..
morganlee
morganleemorganleeQawra, Majjistral Malta27 Threads 1 Polls 4,368 Posts
Hi Zarah wave always makes me smile when you are in the doctors surgery, see someone you know and ask how they are . Everytime i have done this the relpy has been ' i'm fine thanks' just makes me smile !
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Mar 26, 2008 4:48 PM CST We're All Guilty of It..
redbellypirhana
redbellypirhanaredbellypirhanaPhoenix, Arizona USA4 Threads 793 Posts
Miss Z, if I am puking loudly, please ask me if I am OK, If I start puking blood, please call 911 for me. If I call you on your cell, I don't know if you are really home or not. If i see you in line looking impatient, maybe you are debating whether to call your husband or 911???...We do things all the time that don't make sense, that is why we are what we are...head banger head banger head banger
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Mar 26, 2008 4:49 PM CST We're All Guilty of It..
Zarah
ZarahZarahdublin, Dublin Ireland28 Threads 1,388 Posts
morganlee: Hi Zarah always makes me smile when you are in the doctors surgery, see someone you know and ask how they are . Everytime i have done this the relpy has been ' i'm fine thanks' just makes me smile !


Ha that is so very true...I ask people when at work at the hospital..how are you today..which to me seems silly of me to ask them in the first place! They do nearly always reply well thank-you...perhaps we are all just polite???
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Mar 26, 2008 4:50 PM CST We're All Guilty of It..
Zarah
ZarahZarahdublin, Dublin Ireland28 Threads 1,388 Posts
redbellypirhana: Miss Z, if I am puking loudly, please ask me if I am OK, If I start puking blood, please call 911 for me. If I call you on your cell, I don't know if you are really home or not. If i see you in line looking impatient, maybe you are debating whether to call your husband or 911???...We do things all the time that don't make sense, that is why we are what we are...


Oh I thought I just had blonde moments..
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Mar 26, 2008 4:50 PM CST We're All Guilty of It..
Random_Stranger
Random_StrangerRandom_StrangerMade IN, California USA31 Threads 1,183 Posts
Yeah like when someone says "I like that" and you say "You like that, don't you?"

Or when you were a kid playing in the tree and your mother says "If you fall out of that tree and break your legs, don't come running to me!" LOL I always loved when my mom said that, because she meant it and was serious.


Anyways, we do that because those are the people who like to be assured and assure things. Sometimes for conversation as an excuse to keep communication going or to start a conversation. We also do it to comment. Either way, it is assurance.
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Mar 26, 2008 4:53 PM CST We're All Guilty of It..
morganlee
morganleemorganleeQawra, Majjistral Malta27 Threads 1 Polls 4,368 Posts
Zarah: Ha that is so very true...I ask people when at work at the hospital..how are you today..which to me seems silly of me to ask them in the first place! They do nearly always reply well thank-you...perhaps we are all just polite???
or don't want to share that you have piles in a public waiting room !! laugh
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Mar 26, 2008 4:53 PM CST We're All Guilty of It..
Zarah
ZarahZarahdublin, Dublin Ireland28 Threads 1,388 Posts
Random_Stranger: Yeah like when someone says "I like that" and you say "You like that, don't you?"

Or when you were a kid playing in the tree and your mother says "If you fall out of that tree and break your legs, don't come running to me!" LOL I always loved when my mom said that, because she meant it and was serious.Anyways, we do that because those are the people who like to be assured and assure things. Sometimes for conversation as an excuse to keep communication going or to start a conversation. We also do it to comment. Either way, it is assurance.


My mother used to always say..'Dont go in the deep end or you will drown!' Well she put the fear of God in me so much I was too scared to ever learn to swim! Positive parenting???
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Mar 26, 2008 4:54 PM CST We're All Guilty of It..
Zarah
ZarahZarahdublin, Dublin Ireland28 Threads 1,388 Posts
morganlee: or don't want to share that you have piles in a public waiting room !!


Well if it was an AIDS clinic I worked in the answer would certainly be obvious..rolling on the floor laughing
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Mar 26, 2008 5:01 PM CST We're All Guilty of It..
rasgumby
rasgumbyrasgumbyMoberly, Missouri USA99 Threads 10 Polls 4,665 Posts
Zarah: When we ask something really dumber than dumb...
Someone vomiting loudly and you ask...are you o.k.?
When you call your husband at home and ask...Are you at home?
When someone is standing in line looking impatient and you ask...Are you being served yet?
Why do we do this...do we have a moment of mind slip or are we simply thinking out loud?


Or when you get to the checkout and the cashier ask you.. Is that all today...I feel like telling her......." no thats only half of my list- hold my spot"
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Mar 26, 2008 5:04 PM CST We're All Guilty of It..
morganlee
morganleemorganleeQawra, Majjistral Malta27 Threads 1 Polls 4,368 Posts
rasgumby: Or when you get to the checkout and the cashier ask you.. Is that all today...I feel like telling her......." no thats only half of my list- hold my spot"
rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
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Mar 26, 2008 5:18 PM CST We're All Guilty of It..
rasgumby
rasgumbyrasgumbyMoberly, Missouri USA99 Threads 10 Polls 4,665 Posts
Once at McDonalds drive thru.. I placed my order and when I was finished , I said very clearly " That.. is..all"( because I knew they always ask) and she still ask me- "would you like a hot apple pie with that ?"
doh

so when she told me the total.. I kept asking her over and over HOW MUCH... WHAT...CAN YOU REPEAT THAT... HOW MUCH????????
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Mar 26, 2008 5:20 PM CST We're All Guilty of It..
rasgumby: Or when you get to the checkout and the cashier ask you.. Is that all today...I feel like telling her......." no thats only half of my list- hold my spot"


haha..so true!rolling on the floor laughing
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Mar 26, 2008 5:25 PM CST We're All Guilty of It..
irishlass45
irishlass45irishlass45Texas USA, Texas USA52 Threads 5 Polls 4,579 Posts
In my life I have never ever seen anyone trip on something that did not look back to see what it was they tripped on, including myself, maybe it is just a human error we all have in commonyay we all have something in commonapplause peace
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Mar 26, 2008 5:36 PM CST We're All Guilty of It..
roseofsharon
roseofsharonroseofsharonmanchester, Hampshire, England UK60 Threads 3 Polls 8,699 Posts
Zarah: When we ask something really dumber than dumb...
Someone vomiting loudly and you ask...are you o.k.?
When you call your husband at home and ask...Are you at home?
When someone is standing in line looking impatient and you ask...Are you being served yet?
Why do we do this...do we have a moment of mind slip or are we simply thinking out loud?


It is a bit bizarre, isn't it?? I mean, I have always wondered about "I've got something in my eye".... like, they've only got the ONE eye?? Surely, its correct to say "I've got something in one of my eyes"??

"I've hurt my leg".... again, just the ONE leg then?? doh

Nahhh..... clearly its late, I'm off to bed!! laugh

Nighty night, y'all.... wave
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Mar 26, 2008 5:41 PM CST We're All Guilty of It..
class
classclassLiverpool, Merseyside, England UK143 Threads 809 Posts
rasgumby: Once at McDonalds drive thru.. I placed my order and when I was finished , I said very clearly " That.. is..all" ( because I knew they always ask) and she still ask me- "would you like a hot apple pie with that ?"


so when she told me the total.. I kept asking her over and over HOW MUCH... WHAT...CAN YOU REPEAT THAT... HOW MUCH????????

a good one is to say

"would you like to revise your offer and super small it?"
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Mar 26, 2008 5:46 PM CST We're All Guilty of It..
KrazieStill
KrazieStillKrazieStillChardon, Ohio USA13 Threads 3,978 Posts
Random_Stranger: Yeah like when someone says "I like that" and you say "You like that, don't you?"

Or when you were a kid playing in the tree and your mother says "If you fall out of that tree and break your legs, don't come running to me!" LOL I always loved when my mom said that, because she meant it and was serious.Anyways, we do that because those are the people who like to be assured and assure things. Sometimes for conversation as an excuse to keep communication going or to start a conversation. We also do it to comment. Either way, it is assurance.

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Mar 26, 2008 6:09 PM CST We're All Guilty of It..
irishlass45
irishlass45irishlass45Texas USA, Texas USA52 Threads 5 Polls 4,579 Posts
roseofsharon: It is a bit bizarre, isn't it?? I mean, I have always wondered about "I've got something in my eye".... like, they've only got the ONE eye?? Surely, its correct to say "I've got something in one of my eyes"??

"I've hurt my leg".... again, just the ONE leg then??

Nahhh..... clearly its late, I'm off to bed!!

Nighty night, y'all....

ohhh I missed saying goodnight to you! goodnight rosewave hug
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Mar 26, 2008 6:21 PM CST We're All Guilty of It..
cutelildevilsmom
cutelildevilsmomcutelildevilsmomportsmouth, New Hampshire USA60 Threads 7,772 Posts
its called concern..jeesh.
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