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Apr 9, 2008 10:12 AM CST How To Understand An OP
joanie04984
joanie04984joanie04984North Woods, Maine USA4 Threads 344 Posts
Sometimes I don't understand the Original Poster's intention in their thread....

The wording may not be clear to me or I don't understand the question.

Obviously, making a joke about the post might get me in trouble.

Or be misconstrued as being rude.

Other than saying, "What the heck are you talking about?"

What's the politically correct way to ask?

laugh
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Apr 9, 2008 10:13 AM CST How To Understand An OP
Claayer
ClaayerClaayerWild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK107 Threads 9 Polls 15,888 Posts
joanie04984: Sometimes I don't understand the Original Poster's intention in their thread....

The wording may not be clear to me or I don't understand the question.

Obviously, making a joke about the post might get me in trouble.

Or be misconstrued as being rude.

Other than saying, "What the heck are you talking about?"

What's the politically correct way to ask?


Ooo.. I'm not quite sure what you mean?


hahaha (like that?) wave
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Apr 9, 2008 10:15 AM CST How To Understand An OP
kissmedeeply
kissmedeeplykissmedeeplyPetitcodiac, New Brunswick Canada70 Threads 15,139 Posts
joanie04984: Sometimes I don't understand the Original Poster's intention in their thread....

The wording may not be clear to me or I don't understand the question.

Obviously, making a joke about the post might get me in trouble.

Or be misconstrued as being rude.

Other than saying, "What the heck are you talking about?"

What's the politically correct way to ask?
I dont get what you are trying to say herelaugh wave
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Apr 9, 2008 10:21 AM CST How To Understand An OP
DadofDucks
DadofDucksDadofDucksWentzville, Missouri USA9 Threads 2,123 Posts
Morning ladies wave

I find silence usually works best for me. It is VERY easy to be misunderstood on line even accomplished writters can be misunderstood.Toss in poor spelling, bad grammer and people who may not use English as a first language and mis communication is very easy. Sometimes its best to just be quiet and see what happens.handshake hug


Does that make sense??dunno confused
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Apr 9, 2008 10:22 AM CST How To Understand An OP
agman
agmanagmanEagle, Idaho USA3,145 Posts
Its clear as mud. grin
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Apr 9, 2008 10:23 AM CST How To Understand An OP
Claayer
ClaayerClaayerWild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK107 Threads 9 Polls 15,888 Posts
DadofDucks: Morning ladies

I find silence usually works best for me. It is VERY easy to be misunderstood on line even accomplished writters can be misunderstood.Toss in poor spelling, bad grammer and people who may not use English as a first language and mis communication is very easy. Sometimes its best to just be quiet and see what happens. Does that make sense??


Yeah it does, sometimes I have to sit back and see if someone else 'gets it' first so I know what to say next.. haha

wave hug
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Apr 9, 2008 10:28 AM CST How To Understand An OP
Ambrose2007
Ambrose2007Ambrose2007BFE, South Dakota USA67 Threads 10 Polls 8,881 Posts
What a cute chick, Joanie!

smitten wave laugh
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Apr 9, 2008 10:32 AM CST How To Understand An OP
kissmedeeply
kissmedeeplykissmedeeplyPetitcodiac, New Brunswick Canada70 Threads 15,139 Posts
DadofDucks: Morning ladies

I find silence usually works best for me. It is VERY easy to be misunderstood on line even accomplished writters can be misunderstood.Toss in poor spelling, bad grammer and people who may not use English as a first language and mis communication is very easy. Sometimes its best to just be quiet and see what happens. Does that make sense??
Sometimes i wish i had kept quiet..
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Apr 9, 2008 10:34 AM CST How To Understand An OP
joanie04984
joanie04984joanie04984North Woods, Maine USA4 Threads 344 Posts
kissmedeeply: Sometimes i wish i had kept quiet..


Me too! laugh
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Apr 9, 2008 10:40 AM CST How To Understand An OP
kissmedeeply
kissmedeeplykissmedeeplyPetitcodiac, New Brunswick Canada70 Threads 15,139 Posts
joanie04984: Me too!
laugh how are you doing today?
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Apr 9, 2008 11:07 AM CST How To Understand An OP
RedHeadedTaurus
RedHeadedTaurusRedHeadedTaurusHere, Michigan USA17 Threads 1 Polls 8,455 Posts
hmmm



Whatchu talkin' bout, Willis?



giggle
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Apr 9, 2008 11:19 AM CST How To Understand An OP
bajanblue
bajanbluebajanblueSpeightstown, Saint Peter Barbados344 Threads 1 Polls 3,724 Posts
joanie04984: Sometimes I don't understand the Original Poster's intention in their thread....

The wording may not be clear to me or I don't understand the question.

Obviously, making a joke about the post might get me in trouble.

Or be misconstrued as being rude.

Other than saying, "What the heck are you talking about?"

What's the politically correct way to ask?


i don't even know for sure what OP stands for...original post or original poster?

One could always try the state and ask technique:As in

It sounds to me as though you are asking the best way to ensure you understand what the OP hopes to establish or learn from the posted topic. Is that accurate?


Of course that is pure (or impure) pop psychology and thus suspectrolling on the floor laughing and people could choose to consider it rude or flippant rather than a genuine desire for information.

Unfortunately, we have no control over peoples's perceptions and any determination they may have to read between lines that are not actually there.conversing
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