im a single 33 year old female that would like to meet a life partner. Someone who likes to go out sometimes and stay home watching dvd cuddling up infront of the tv. Someone who likes to look after his girl.
Taking my time...just had a nasty incident on here with a fellow member, Faceman..really hurt my feelings although I know I should be more resilient. Faceman is 30 and he contacted me and I believed I just glanced at his profile. Normally I don't date men younger than 35 because that's too much of an age difference. My problem is I truly neither look or act my age. I am constantly being chatted up by twenty somethings flattering, but not realistic. Older men, many timess with few exceptions can be bitter and depressing because of certain life experiences whereas the younger ones can experience the exact same but with a more positive attitude, similar to myself. My music tastes, interests and general attitude, aside from dress and fun, optomistic behavior are more in line with a younger rather than older man. Back to my story, Faceman initiated and I thought OK, maybe, just as a friend, and when a misinterpretation for contact started, instead of just letting things ride, he got extremely insulting and hurtful. He said I was old and fell off the ugly tree hitting every branch on the way down. That was totally uncalled for and frankly, silly as it sounds really hurt me. Every one gets old at some point even super models but for a few minutes I really felt bad. I would have kept the letter and forwarded it to the staff to ban him least he upset other ladies but I was too shocked and deleted it. Why is it some men have to stoop so low and be so dam nasty? Then the little turd blocked me, I wasn't about to give him a nasty retort but a simple rejection would have sufficed.
Question are they any normal men who can just handle rejection or a normal misunderstanding in communication with tact and diplomacy left? I would never even in my 20's stoop so low.
Taking a break from here...need a little TLC. all the best to you...still want a loving,normal partner myself for life..and I am still dam foxy, flirty and fun!
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