If you could have any one thing right now, what would it be???? (256)
somechick: I'm confused right now and find it's better to stay that way. Less stress.
Otherwise I'm find.
Otherwise I'm find.
confused?
here's a drink for u
now you have to be better 
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Hi Alex how are you?
My comment wasn't just meant for the forums it was meant for people in general.
My comment wasn't just meant for the forums it was meant for people in general.
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alex_192: that is only a fantasy
i expected than in a dating site, people would be more interesting in building bridges of comunications than actually be yelling their discrepancies
but it seems i am wrong and naive
i expected than in a dating site, people would be more interesting in building bridges of comunications than actually be yelling their discrepancies
but it seems i am wrong and naive
we need all these fantasies, Alex, even with the risk of being wrong and naive.....one can never know when they will come true someday
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somechick: Hi Alex how are you?
My comment wasn't just meant for the forums it was meant for people in general.
My comment wasn't just meant for the forums it was meant for people in general.
doing good, thank you. you?
real life and forums are diferent
in real life most of the times we talk to people we have to share sometihng with them (call it work, being in the same line, etc)
we try to be more polite and althought each one will try to push his own view point, they also listen (no too much but they listen)
in real life if some one from the other booth in the restaurant hear you saying something they dont agree, they do not stan up and start yelling at you your disagreement
they do not threatened to call the police because you dont agree with them
in the forums things are diferent, i will say exactly the oposite
people jumping to threads only to say they disagree
people threatening to report yu for having a diferent view point
while it shuld be the other way around
people that claim they are in a dating site, are the ones that have to be more interested in building bridges of comunications, at least they should be more interested than strangers
JMO (formerly known as alex)
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Emanuellla: we need all these fantasies, Alex, even with the risk of being wrong and naive.....one can never know when they will come true someday but if we don't have them, it means we give up right from the start
having fantasies and dreams is great
and making dreams come true is wonderfull
my point was that i belived that in a dating site people will try to comunicate as comunication is one of the key ngridients for a loving relationship
but i might be wrong, and comunication is not important in a relationship
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I'm fine.
In the real world you're normally face to face with the person you're having discussions with so you can see the expression on their faces.
As we both know when you read someones typing it can sure can be hard at times to really tell what they really mean in their words.I think that's why there's so many misunderstandings on sites like these and other sites as well.
In the real world you're normally face to face with the person you're having discussions with so you can see the expression on their faces.
As we both know when you read someones typing it can sure can be hard at times to really tell what they really mean in their words.I think that's why there's so many misunderstandings on sites like these and other sites as well.
alex_192: doing good, thank you. you?
real life and forums are diferent
in real life most of the times we talk to people we have to share sometihng with them (call it work, being in the same line, etc)
we try to be more polite and althought each one will try to push his own view point, they also listen (no too much but they listen)
in real life if some one from the other booth in the restaurant hear you saying something they dont agree, they do not stan up and start yelling at you your disagreement
they do not threatened to call the police because you dont agree with them
in the forums things are diferent, i will say exactly the oposite
people jumping to threads only to say they disagree
people threatening to report yu for having a diferent view point
while it shuld be the other way around
people that claim they are in a dating site, are the ones that have to be more interested in building bridges of comunications, at least they should be more interested than strangers
JMO (formerly known as alex)
real life and forums are diferent
in real life most of the times we talk to people we have to share sometihng with them (call it work, being in the same line, etc)
we try to be more polite and althought each one will try to push his own view point, they also listen (no too much but they listen)
in real life if some one from the other booth in the restaurant hear you saying something they dont agree, they do not stan up and start yelling at you your disagreement
they do not threatened to call the police because you dont agree with them
in the forums things are diferent, i will say exactly the oposite
people jumping to threads only to say they disagree
people threatening to report yu for having a diferent view point
while it shuld be the other way around
people that claim they are in a dating site, are the ones that have to be more interested in building bridges of comunications, at least they should be more interested than strangers
JMO (formerly known as alex)
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Alex I believe respect, friendship and communtication is so important in a relationship or the relationship was nothing to begin with.
alex_192: having fantasies and dreams is great
and making dreams come true is wonderfull
my point was that i belived that in a dating site people will try to comunicate as comunication is one of the key ngridients for a loving relationship
but i might be wrong, and comunication is not important in a relationship
and making dreams come true is wonderfull
my point was that i belived that in a dating site people will try to comunicate as comunication is one of the key ngridients for a loving relationship
but i might be wrong, and comunication is not important in a relationship
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I find the same with SMS (text) Messages... its very easy to get the wrong impression, or exactly what the sender or poster means
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Some money (at least over $100) right now, would be nice. 
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a gas efficient car!!
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alex_192: having fantasies and dreams is great
and making dreams come true is wonderfull
my point was that i belived that in a dating site people will try to comunicate as comunication is one of the key ngridients for a loving relationship
but i might be wrong, and comunication is not important in a relationship
and making dreams come true is wonderfull
my point was that i belived that in a dating site people will try to comunicate as comunication is one of the key ngridients for a loving relationship
but i might be wrong, and comunication is not important in a relationship
of course COMMUNICATION is one of the most important ingredients...never doubt abt that:)
as regards real life and life in the forums.....i don't know what to say about it! i am quite confused.....all i know is on the forums people are too nervous, they take almost anything as an offence , they are being rude sometimes (maybe coz they are having a bad day?
) BUT what bothers me more is i CARE about all these people, even if i don't agree with their behaviour sometimes....let's take the last example:) The trublu girl (hope she won't read what i am going to write in here hahaha)...she offended 2 or 3 guys that i value a lot but in the same time i DO like her ( don't ask me why,i just like her though i haven't even read her threads coz they seemed to me soo long
she would be great if she concentrated her msg in a shorter amount of lines 
) and i have no idea what attitude to take
I don't want to be taken as a traitor, nor as a favorite who is quickly hiding when the battle starts hahaha i wish so much we all could get along somehow
these forums teach me the chaos is everywhere, here or in real life....the same BS 
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Emanuellla: of course COMMUNICATION is one of the most important ingredients...never doubt abt that:)
as regards real life and life in the forums.....i don't know what to say about it! i am quite confused.....all i know is on the forums people are too nervous, they take almost anything as an offence , they are being rude sometimes (maybe coz they are having a bad day? ) BUT what bothers me more is i CARE about all these people, even if i don't agree with their behaviour sometimes....
let's take the last example:) The trublu girl (hope she won't read what i am going to write in here hahaha)...she offended 2 or 3 guys that i value a lot but in the same time i DO like her ( don't ask me why,i just like her though i haven't even read her threads coz they seemed to me soo long she would be great if she concentrated her msg in a shorter amount of lines ) and i have no idea what attitude to take I don't want to be taken as a traitor, nor as a favorite who is quickly hiding when the battle starts hahaha
i wish so much we all could get along somehow these forums teach me the chaos is everywhere, here or in real life....the same BS and they also teach me there are great ppl too who make this chaos easy to live in
as regards real life and life in the forums.....i don't know what to say about it! i am quite confused.....all i know is on the forums people are too nervous, they take almost anything as an offence , they are being rude sometimes (maybe coz they are having a bad day? ) BUT what bothers me more is i CARE about all these people, even if i don't agree with their behaviour sometimes....
let's take the last example:) The trublu girl (hope she won't read what i am going to write in here hahaha)...she offended 2 or 3 guys that i value a lot but in the same time i DO like her ( don't ask me why,i just like her though i haven't even read her threads coz they seemed to me soo long she would be great if she concentrated her msg in a shorter amount of lines ) and i have no idea what attitude to take I don't want to be taken as a traitor, nor as a favorite who is quickly hiding when the battle starts hahaha
i wish so much we all could get along somehow these forums teach me the chaos is everywhere, here or in real life....the same BS and they also teach me there are great ppl too who make this chaos easy to live in
i realized the same
most people in the forums are looking for confrontation taking everything negative
and i am glad they do it (no, i am not crazy)
it make things easier for me
the few that are interested in building bridges of comunications are easier to find
even we dont see the othjer face, those that are interested in comunication instead of yelling their discrapnacy will state their own view point and their reazons they show they can have a diferent view point, they show althuoght they have a diferent view point they also respect the others
at the same time if they do not undertand something they will ask for an explanations (whether in the forums or by personal mail)
i am glad i have already meet some of those few, and you are one of those
you are one in a kind
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shipoker55: I have never had a massage!!
<--------- * massages your head * 
Well Ship, I've only ever had amateur massages. And some of them were incredible - others were... eh, mediocre, but still okay.
Never had a professional one. I think the reason for that is... I just can't grasp the idea of paying someone money to put their hands all over my body... definitely not something I'd $pay$ for.
Hey, I'm frugal!
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stooie1971: I find the same with SMS (text) Messages... its very easy to get the wrong impression, or exactly what the sender or poster means
as most of the times yu are mesanging people you already know, you give them the benefit of the doubt and you will ask and try to undertand
here everything is taken negative, no benefit of the doubt given to any one
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~~~Well I have everything I need, but if I could ask for just something I want....enchiladas
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AutumR: ~~~Well I have everything I need, but if I could ask for just something I want....enchiladas
I make my own tortilla and I make great Mexican food!!
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shipoker55: I make my own tortilla and I make great Mexican food!!
~~~SUPER!!!! How long do ya think it would take to get it here...I'm starving!!!
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as they are many people i am afraid i will be banned from the forums
remeber, mayority rules, it is not about being fair or not
if too many people complain about some one he wil be banned from the forums
well....one or 2 old BUT very interesting threads per day won't damage anybody
there are threads that should be always on the first 5 pages:)