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SatelliteServer: Well I was on my own at an early age as my mom split, years I use to give her money and finally I had it, it's so sad I don't even want to talk to her, F-all for me and everything for her...So I cut ties and have not been in contact with her for a few years, what would you do?
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SatelliteServer: Well I was on my own at an early age as my mom split, years I use to give her money and finally I had it, it's so sad I don't even want to talk to her, F-all for me and everything for her...So I cut ties and have not been in contact with her for a few years, what would you do?
I would do the same....You can choose your friends...BUT unfortunately you can't choose your family...I have no respect for parents that weren't there when kids were growing up and then all of a sudden decide one day when you're totally capable of looking after yourself...they want to be parents!!!!!!
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SatelliteServer: Well I was on my own at an early age as my mom split, years I use to give her money and finally I had it, it's so sad I don't even want to talk to her, F-all for me and everything for her...So I cut ties and have not been in contact with her for a few years, what would you do?
oops - I said nothing - n I guess its what you should do too
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Hugz_n_Kissez: I would do the same....You can choose your friends...BUT unfortunately you can't choose your family...I have no respect for parents that weren't there when kids were growing up and then all of a sudden decide one day when you're totally capable of looking after yourself...they want to be parents!!!!!!
Well said.
Sorry however.
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Hugz_n_Kissez: I would do the same....You can choose your friends...BUT unfortunately you can't choose your family...I have no respect for parents that weren't there when kids were growing up and then all of a sudden decide one day when you're totally capable of looking after yourself...they want to be parents!!!!!!
just it can't take it anymore...
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I found myself in a similar situation. My mother was very abusive, and I left home when I was 16. Over the years I tried to have a relationship with her. But I found she only wanted money, or something else. I finally reached the point, that I had to accept the fact that I was never going to please her. Also that she would not become the mother I had always dreamed of. And for me, I had to walk away from it. For my own sanity,self esteem, and for the sake of my own children. Just because she's my mother, didn't mean she had the right to treat me badly. It's been 8 years now. And I have friends who are family to me more than my own mother was. 
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Hugz_n_Kissez: I would do the same....You can choose your friends...BUT unfortunately you can't choose your family...I have no respect for parents that weren't there when kids were growing up and then all of a sudden decide one day when you're totally capable of looking after yourself...they want to be parents!!!!!!
I agree
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SatelliteServer: just it can't take it anymore...
call her.
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SatelliteServer: Well I was on my own at an early age as my mom split, years I use to give her money and finally I had it, it's so sad I don't even want to talk to her, F-all for me and everything for her...So I cut ties and have not been in contact with her for a few years, what would you do?
Are you bitter or is there a tone of acceptance in your text?
I'm being serious.
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there is always room for reconciliation while she is alive. None after she is gone. If at all possible, forgive and enjoy what time is left. JMO
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shipoker55: there is always room for reconciliation while she is alive. None after she is gone. If at all possible, forgive and enjoy what time is left. JMO
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shipoker55: there is always room for reconciliation while she is alive. None after she is gone. If at all possible, forgive and enjoy what time is left. JMO
Well said.Ship.
Thats what i am trying to get at here.Truth be told,Cannot change the past.
Bitterness=
Let it go.
It's not easy ,but ,like you say.When she is dead,>>>
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shipoker55: there is always room for reconciliation while she is alive. None after she is gone. If at all possible, forgive and enjoy what time is left. JMO
I strongly concur....
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Had you walked in her shoes throughout life...you might be the same as her. Maybe she did the best with what she had~~ 
You have to decided that~
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friendsfirst: Are you bitter or is there a tone of acceptance in your text?
I'm being serious.
I'm being serious.
not so sure about that it's just I allways have to pay out for her fix her probs listen to her complain day in day out, and got shafted an a plane ticket that my bro wanted me to buy half then I ended up paying it all
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Family is worthless.
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no...family is invaluable! BAD family is worthless
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shipoker55: there is always room for reconciliation while she is alive. None after she is gone. If at all possible, forgive and enjoy what time is left. JMO
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SatelliteServer: Well I was on my own at an early age as my mom split, years I use to give her money and finally I had it, it's so sad I don't even want to talk to her, F-all for me and everything for her...So I cut ties and have not been in contact with her for a few years, what would you do?
We all have to make choices in our lives based on what is best for us as individuals - if we live our lives based on what others think or how they would chose - we are not being true to ourselves.
If you have cut ties with your mother because you feel taken advantage of (ie. paying her bills etc.) - don't forget that you've got the right to say no to paying her bills and plane tickets; you don't need to exclude her from your life; but perhaps establish some clear boundaries may be a more viable option - if in fact you feel the need to re-establish a relationship.
Ask yourself this question - if I found out my mom (or whoever you've excluded from your life) passed away today - would you have regrets ??? If so - then its obviously something that you need to reassess about your life. Will "the relationship" turn out the way you desire? - only time will tell and in the end the only person that you can hold accountable is yourself for your own actions or lack thereof.
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Well I was on my own at an early age as my mom split, years I use to give her money and finally I had it, it's so sad I don't even want to talk to her, F-all for me and everything for her...
So I cut ties and have not been in contact with her for a few years, what would you do?