(1): I can't figure it out. I met this guy and we talked for months, went out on several dates it was great we always had fun. A few weeks ago I'm on the phone with him and he asked if I liked him. I said I did, he said that's very good. So he syas he will be in the area this weekend can I take you out. I agreed. We texted back and forth the day of, but no mention of going out. I said nothing about it and he didn't. Have not talked to him since. (2): Met a guy a few weeks ago at a local place I hang out at. He asked for my number I gave it to him, we've talked and IMed. Last Sunday we were talking I wasn't going to go up to the local place this Friday, but he said he wanted me to show up. The group of us went up there. He says absolutely nothing to me. I am confused and do not know what is going on.
mbcaseyNorth Myrtle Beach, South Carolina USA16,449 posts
I don't have any concrete answer for you, but I have come to learn that dating sites are a great place for manipulators and cheats. Maybe the 1st guy was already involved with someone. The 2nd guy I have no idea...
ClaayerWild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK15,888 posts
mbcasey: I don't have any concrete answer for you, but I have come to learn that dating sites are a great place for manipulators and cheats. Maybe the 1st guy was already involved with someone. The 2nd guy I have no idea...
misssuzyq: (1): I can't figure it out. I met this guy and we talked for months, went out on several dates it was great we always had fun. A few weeks ago I'm on the phone with him and he asked if I liked him. I said I did, he said that's very good. So he syas he will be in the area this weekend can I take you out. I agreed. We texted back and forth the day of, but no mention of going out. I said nothing about it and he didn't. Have not talked to him since. (2): Met a guy a few weeks ago at a local place I hang out at. He asked for my number I gave it to him, we've talked and IMed. Last Sunday we were talking I wasn't going to go up to the local place this Friday, but he said he wanted me to show up. The group of us went up there. He says absolutely nothing to me. I am confused and do not know what is going on.
chasingcars7: Perhaps the thread should read.. Whats wrong with THESE men? They made poor choices, let them go, and replace them with real men :)
Well if you know of any will you send them my way please.. cause all i seem to find is liars and cheats apart from the friends i have made here... it seems that its all about messing others around... would just like someone to prove me wrong...
misssuzyq: (1): I can't figure it out. I met this guy and we talked for months, went out on several dates it was great we always had fun. A few weeks ago I'm on the phone with him and he asked if I liked him. I said I did, he said that's very good. So he syas he will be in the area this weekend can I take you out. I agreed. We texted back and forth the day of, but no mention of going out. I said nothing about it and he didn't. Have not talked to him since. (2): Met a guy a few weeks ago at a local place I hang out at. He asked for my number I gave it to him, we've talked and IMed. Last Sunday we were talking I wasn't going to go up to the local place this Friday, but he said he wanted me to show up. The group of us went up there. He says absolutely nothing to me. I am confused and do not know what is going on.
am extremely confused too .... it happens all the time... is it the chase then loose interest... its a total mystery..............
chasingcars7: nothing assumed here , and no apology needed. say what you feel, that already makes you better than they were.
Guys who act this way are not worth your time or your feelings. Save those for the guy who does the right things for you.
I agree but why is it that we think they are right for us they say all the right things but it means nothing...and its only after a few weeks we find out different...... its just crazy......
bluebelle4000: I agree but why is it that we think they are right for us they say all the right things but it means nothing...and its only after a few weeks we find out different...... its just crazy......
That's what I can't figure out. These are guys I've met in person, been out with, talked to. I invested a lot of time and opened myself up for what, It kind of makes me sour.
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(2): Met a guy a few weeks ago at a local place I hang out at. He asked for my number I gave it to him, we've talked and IMed. Last Sunday we were talking I wasn't going to go up to the local place this Friday, but he said he wanted me to show up. The group of us went up there. He says absolutely nothing to me.
I am confused and do not know what is going on.