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May 24, 2008 3:04 PM CST What's up with men...
misssuzyq
misssuzyqmisssuzyqLombard, Illinois USA2 Threads 19 Posts
(1): I can't figure it out. I met this guy and we talked for months, went out on several dates it was great we always had fun. A few weeks ago I'm on the phone with him and he asked if I liked him. I said I did, he said that's very good. So he syas he will be in the area this weekend can I take you out. I agreed. We texted back and forth the day of, but no mention of going out. I said nothing about it and he didn't. Have not talked to him since.
(2): Met a guy a few weeks ago at a local place I hang out at. He asked for my number I gave it to him, we've talked and IMed. Last Sunday we were talking I wasn't going to go up to the local place this Friday, but he said he wanted me to show up. The group of us went up there. He says absolutely nothing to me.
I am confused and do not know what is going on.
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May 24, 2008 3:14 PM CST What's up with men...
dcj22
dcj22dcj22Somewhere, Tennessee USA102 Threads 3 Polls 11,581 Posts
Sorry. I can't help. That would confuse the hell out of me too. dunno
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May 24, 2008 3:15 PM CST What's up with men...
mbcasey
mbcaseymbcaseyNorth Myrtle Beach, South Carolina USA68 Threads 7 Polls 16,449 Posts
I don't have any concrete answer for you, but I have come to learn that dating sites are a great place for manipulators and cheats. Maybe the 1st guy was already involved with someone. The 2nd guy I have no idea...
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May 24, 2008 3:16 PM CST What's up with men...
Claayer
ClaayerClaayerWild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK107 Threads 9 Polls 15,888 Posts
dcj22: Sorry. I can't help. That would confuse the hell out of me too.


Me too.. they are like trying to understand JapaRussianHyroglyphics to me. confused
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May 24, 2008 3:16 PM CST What's up with men...
misssuzyq
misssuzyqmisssuzyqLombard, Illinois USA2 Threads 19 Posts
I know..it's crazy!!!
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May 24, 2008 3:16 PM CST What's up with men...
Claayer
ClaayerClaayerWild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK107 Threads 9 Polls 15,888 Posts
mbcasey: I don't have any concrete answer for you, but I have come to learn that dating sites are a great place for manipulators and cheats. Maybe the 1st guy was already involved with someone. The 2nd guy I have no idea...


helloo Ken and Dana teddybear teddybear
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May 24, 2008 3:16 PM CST What's up with men...
Claayer
ClaayerClaayerWild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK107 Threads 9 Polls 15,888 Posts
misssuzyq: I know..it's crazy!!!


giggle wave
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May 24, 2008 3:17 PM CST What's up with men...
Hugz_n_Kissez
Hugz_n_KissezHugz_n_KissezSomeplace, Ontario Canada59 Threads 2 Polls 25,438 Posts
misssuzyq: (1): I can't figure it out. I met this guy and we talked for months, went out on several dates it was great we always had fun. A few weeks ago I'm on the phone with him and he asked if I liked him. I said I did, he said that's very good. So he syas he will be in the area this weekend can I take you out. I agreed. We texted back and forth the day of, but no mention of going out. I said nothing about it and he didn't. Have not talked to him since.
(2): Met a guy a few weeks ago at a local place I hang out at. He asked for my number I gave it to him, we've talked and IMed. Last Sunday we were talking I wasn't going to go up to the local place this Friday, but he said he wanted me to show up. The group of us went up there. He says absolutely nothing to me.
I am confused and do not know what is going on.



Men are from Mars....nuff said!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


roll eyes professor uh oh grin
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May 24, 2008 3:19 PM CST What's up with men...
chasingcars7
chasingcars7chasingcars7Attleboro, USA34 Posts
Perhaps the thread should read.. Whats wrong with THESE men?
They made poor choices, let them go, and replace them with real men :)
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May 24, 2008 3:19 PM CST What's up with men...
Claayer
ClaayerClaayerWild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK107 Threads 9 Polls 15,888 Posts
Hugz_n_Kissez: Men are from Mars....nuff said!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


thumbs up thumbs up
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May 24, 2008 3:20 PM CST What's up with men...
mbcasey
mbcaseymbcaseyNorth Myrtle Beach, South Carolina USA68 Threads 7 Polls 16,449 Posts
Hi Claire!!wave
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May 24, 2008 3:20 PM CST What's up with men...
Claayer
ClaayerClaayerWild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK107 Threads 9 Polls 15,888 Posts
chasingcars7: Perhaps the thread should read.. Whats wrong with THESE men?
They made poor choices, let them go, and replace them with real men :)


Oo yeaaah.. good answer!.. that sounds more like it.


wave
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May 24, 2008 3:32 PM CST What's up with men...
bluebelle4000
bluebelle4000bluebelle4000Meath, Ireland46 Threads 6,001 Posts
chasingcars7: Perhaps the thread should read.. Whats wrong with THESE men?
They made poor choices, let them go, and replace them with real men :)



Well if you know of any will you send them my way please.. cause all i seem to find is liars and cheats apart from the friends i have made here... it seems that its all about messing others around... would just like someone to prove me wrong... teddybear teddybear
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May 24, 2008 3:34 PM CST What's up with men...
bluebelle4000
bluebelle4000bluebelle4000Meath, Ireland46 Threads 6,001 Posts
misssuzyq: (1): I can't figure it out. I met this guy and we talked for months, went out on several dates it was great we always had fun. A few weeks ago I'm on the phone with him and he asked if I liked him. I said I did, he said that's very good. So he syas he will be in the area this weekend can I take you out. I agreed. We texted back and forth the day of, but no mention of going out. I said nothing about it and he didn't. Have not talked to him since.
(2): Met a guy a few weeks ago at a local place I hang out at. He asked for my number I gave it to him, we've talked and IMed. Last Sunday we were talking I wasn't going to go up to the local place this Friday, but he said he wanted me to show up. The group of us went up there. He says absolutely nothing to me.
I am confused and do not know what is going on.


am extremely confused too .... it happens all the time... is it the chase then loose interest... its a total mystery.............. teddybear
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May 24, 2008 3:37 PM CST What's up with men...
chasingcars7
chasingcars7chasingcars7Attleboro, USA34 Posts
nothing assumed here , and no apology needed.
say what you feel, that already makes you better than they were.

Guys who act this way are not worth your time or your feelings.
Save those for the guy who does the right things for you.
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May 24, 2008 3:41 PM CST What's up with men...
chasingcars7
chasingcars7chasingcars7Attleboro, USA34 Posts
oops meant to quote you misssuzyq..
That was for you :)
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May 24, 2008 3:41 PM CST What's up with men...
bluebelle4000
bluebelle4000bluebelle4000Meath, Ireland46 Threads 6,001 Posts
chasingcars7: nothing assumed here , and no apology needed.
say what you feel, that already makes you better than they were.

Guys who act this way are not worth your time or your feelings.
Save those for the guy who does the right things for you.



I agree but why is it that we think they are right for us they say all the right things but it means nothing...and its only after a few weeks we find out different...... its just crazy......

confused confused confused confused kiss
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May 24, 2008 3:43 PM CST What's up with men...
misssuzyq
misssuzyqmisssuzyqLombard, Illinois USA2 Threads 19 Posts
chasingcars7: oops meant to quote you misssuzyq..
That was for you :)


thank you
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May 24, 2008 3:45 PM CST What's up with men...
bluebelle4000
bluebelle4000bluebelle4000Meath, Ireland46 Threads 6,001 Posts
oops meant to quote you misssuzyq..
That was for you :)[/quote


No hassle..... Sorry
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May 24, 2008 3:45 PM CST What's up with men...
misssuzyq
misssuzyqmisssuzyqLombard, Illinois USA2 Threads 19 Posts
bluebelle4000: I agree but why is it that we think they are right for us they say all the right things but it means nothing...and its only after a few weeks we find out different...... its just crazy......


That's what I can't figure out. These are guys I've met in person, been out with, talked to. I invested a lot of time and opened myself up for what, It kind of makes me sour.
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