What's up with men... (39)
a_l_e_xlondon, Greater London, England UK62 Threads 1,813 Posts
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Some guys just aren't good investors. Rather than take the time to really know someone they are easily distrated. These boys don't do well in the market either.
Just keep going, the man who's willing to take the time to know you will be a keeper. Think of it as weeding the herd.
Just keep going, the man who's willing to take the time to know you will be a keeper. Think of it as weeding the herd.
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don't suppose you got all rebellious and stuff and asked either of them what's going on?
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tufty: don't suppose you got all rebellious and stuff and asked either of them what's going on?
Knowing the pattern they would probably just lie next...
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I like that "weeding the herd"
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tufty: don't suppose you got all rebellious and stuff and asked either of them what's going on?
I did not. I figured they wasted enough of my time, why give them the pleasure of wasting more. Believe me last night I wanted to walk up to him and ask him what his problem was, but as a lady I sat with my friends and had a great anyways.
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misssuzyq: I like that "weeding the herd"
Hey it's a womans prerogative.
Lord knows I've been weeded enough times to know :)
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Lord knows I've been weeded enough times to know :)
LOL
LOL
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misssuzyq: That's what I can't figure out. These are guys I've met in person, been out with, talked to. I invested a lot of time and opened myself up for what, It kind of makes me sour.
me too......... and its difficult not to get sour... One i met went out with on at least a dozen dates.. had a fab time got on brilliantly...or so he said... then nothing... absolutley nothing... so i know how u feel and its so annoying... if they dont want to go out with you ( or me lol) why cant they just say so instead of all the messing around,.... i just dont understand it.......... maybe am having a blonde moment lol
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bluebelle4000: me too......... and its difficult not to get sour... One i met went out with on at least a dozen dates.. had a fab time got on brilliantly...or so he said... then nothing... absolutley nothing... so i know how u feel and its so annoying... if they dont want to go out with you ( or me lol) why cant they just say so instead of all the messing around,.... i just dont understand it.......... maybe am having a blonde moment lol
Really, it's like all I ask for is just be up front and honest, just say it.
The worst part is, I've been hanging out at this local place every Friday for a long time. Guy #2 is on a softball league and this place sponsors their team. They play on Fridays and are up there every Friday now after the game.
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chasingcars7: ... Think of it as weeding the herd.
I like that...
But there is an awful lot of weeding to do out there
Is it from the same category (to be weeded)? I am seeing this guy for a few months and I think he is a very decent and honest person, he does a lot for me - a giver I would say - BUT gosh ALL THOSE PLACES he is going to take me next weekend
. When things cool down, he simply doesn't remember? 
? ?It's not like I can't go places without him but it's just pathetic.
I already know I am not going to stay with him, just need to come up with a nice way to break the news.
To be weeded?
I hear you, Misssuzyq, but have no answer to all this
Strange? Pathetic?I am NOT generalizing, though.
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laura225: I like that...
But there is an awful lot of weeding to do out there
Is it from the same category (to be weeded)? I am seeing this guy for a few months and I think he is a very decent and honest person, he does a lot for me - a giver I would say - BUT gosh ALL THOSE PLACES he is going to take me next weekend . When things cool down, he simply doesn't remember? ? ?
It's not like I can't go places without him but it's just pathetic.
I already know I am not going to stay with him, just need to come up with a nice way to break the news.
To be weeded?
I hear you, Misssuzyq, but have no answer to all this Strange? Pathetic?
I am NOT generalizing, though.
But there is an awful lot of weeding to do out there
Is it from the same category (to be weeded)? I am seeing this guy for a few months and I think he is a very decent and honest person, he does a lot for me - a giver I would say - BUT gosh ALL THOSE PLACES he is going to take me next weekend . When things cool down, he simply doesn't remember? ? ?
It's not like I can't go places without him but it's just pathetic.
I already know I am not going to stay with him, just need to come up with a nice way to break the news.
To be weeded?
I hear you, Misssuzyq, but have no answer to all this Strange? Pathetic?
I am NOT generalizing, though.
American Heitage defines weeding as :
To eliminate as unsuitable or unwanted.
Often used with out: weed out unqualified applicants.
In the case of Mr wrong above, an appropriate demise.
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chasingcars7: Some guys just aren't good investors. Rather than take the time to really know someone they are easily distrated. These boys don't do well in the market either.
Just keep going, the man who's willing to take the time to know you will be a keeper. Think of it as weeding the herd.
Just keep going, the man who's willing to take the time to know you will be a keeper. Think of it as weeding the herd.
I agree
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misssuzyq: (1): I can't figure it out. I met this guy and we talked for months, went out on several dates it was great we always had fun. A few weeks ago I'm on the phone with him and he asked if I liked him. I said I did, he said that's very good. So he syas he will be in the area this weekend can I take you out. I agreed. We texted back and forth the day of, but no mention of going out. I said nothing about it and he didn't. Have not talked to him since.
(2): Met a guy a few weeks ago at a local place I hang out at. He asked for my number I gave it to him, we've talked and IMed. Last Sunday we were talking I wasn't going to go up to the local place this Friday, but he said he wanted me to show up. The group of us went up there. He says absolutely nothing to me.
I am confused and do not know what is going on.
(2): Met a guy a few weeks ago at a local place I hang out at. He asked for my number I gave it to him, we've talked and IMed. Last Sunday we were talking I wasn't going to go up to the local place this Friday, but he said he wanted me to show up. The group of us went up there. He says absolutely nothing to me.
I am confused and do not know what is going on.
Hi girl.Men are just like women.We need what you need.You have obviously met some strange birds in your recent past.If I was interested in you I would act totally different.You would be my queen and I would go nose to nose with anyone challenging our relationship.So not all men are the same.Just pick your guy from now on more carefully and ask him the right questions.If he is not ready to commit to you dump him and find one who is.Just trying to help .
Pete
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misssuzyq: Really, it's like all I ask for is just be up front and honest, just say it.
The worst part is, I've been hanging out at this local place every Friday for a long time. Guy #2 is on a softball league and this place sponsors their team. They play on Fridays and are up there every Friday now after the game.
The worst part is, I've been hanging out at this local place every Friday for a long time. Guy #2 is on a softball league and this place sponsors their team. They play on Fridays and are up there every Friday now after the game.
Well look at it this way .. you have as much right to be there as they do... U cant let them stop you from going there that would be mad... you have done nothing wrong so hold your head high and walk in... let them do their thing... your better off without that kind of nonsense... if they cant be honest and upfront then dont even bother with them.... and besides we will always cheer you up lol...
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misssuzyq: (1): I can't figure it out. I met this guy and we talked for months, went out on several dates it was great we always had fun. A few weeks ago I'm on the phone with him and he asked if I liked him. I said I did, he said that's very good. So he syas he will be in the area this weekend can I take you out. I agreed. We texted back and forth the day of, but no mention of going out. I said nothing about it and he didn't. Have not talked to him since.
(2): Met a guy a few weeks ago at a local place I hang out at. He asked for my number I gave it to him, we've talked and IMed. Last Sunday we were talking I wasn't going to go up to the local place this Friday, but he said he wanted me to show up. The group of us went up there. He says absolutely nothing to me.
I am confused and do not know what is going on.
It's probably just "men being men" or it could be just a "man thing" (2): Met a guy a few weeks ago at a local place I hang out at. He asked for my number I gave it to him, we've talked and IMed. Last Sunday we were talking I wasn't going to go up to the local place this Friday, but he said he wanted me to show up. The group of us went up there. He says absolutely nothing to me.
I am confused and do not know what is going on.
I'm just as as you 
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Reading these posts I am not really surprised...in the same token ..that's life. Some dating site have more classy people then others...like going into a sports bar or to a lounge in a 5 star hotel. Overall.. we should use our intuition and learn to go with our gut. A little assertiveness is sometimes necessary....I am European and wonder quite often how poeple interact with each other ...dating site or real life....The old universal law..."what goes around comes around" can be applied...and I know not every one is the same...sometimes it just seems the losers are all in one place and I heard women are not much different...they can play games too. Good luck to every one.
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