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my fears are backwards.... heights no problem, run into a burning building been there done that. bugs I don't like um but I can deal with um. Now relationships.... me actively looking for someone to be in my life... this is one of the hardest mountains I have ever had to climb as far as fears go. I think I would rather be mauled by a bear.
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moonfoxinthesnow: my fears are backwards.... heights no problem, run into a burning building been there done that. bugs I don't like um but I can deal with um. Now relationships.... me actively looking for someone to be in my life... this is one of the hardest mountains I have ever had to climb as far as fears go. I think I would rather be mauled by a bear.
Finally - someone that has my fear! I would love to be in another relationship that could possibly end in "happily ever after", but I get close and then run far away..........
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KrazieStill: For me it's a combo of both. Bill W. said two things would always be there. Fear and ego. Just knowing that helps.
Fear was the Knock On The Door;
Faith Opened it
Nothing Was Outside!
And for the EGO,the Steps are always there!
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Serenity1971: I can honestly say I used to live in fear...Now I choose to live life to it's fullest without regrets.
But today, well lived, Makes every yesterday a dream of happiness And every tomorrow a vision of hope. Look well, therefore, to this day. Sanskrit Proverb ...It's on the Inside Cover of a "Little Black Book"
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PeniAnnie: Finally - someone that has my fear! I would love to be in another relationship that could possibly end in "happily ever after", but I get close and then run far away..........
YUP! but I keep trying. I am slowly learning how to have a healthy relationship, the last one I was in (according to the long time happily married couples I was talking too) I was doing everything right and my bf at the time was a bit off his rocker... so that was rather encouraging! I guess what I am saying is hang in there! recognizing the issues and actively trying to correct them will eventually lead to a happily ever after for both of us *keeping my fingers crossed*
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HJFinAZ: Show some woman that shows the slightest interest, and you can also see hysteria...
Perhaps if you took things just a little bit slower (Don't try to give her a full body massage and cop a feel the first time you meet her). And then quit yelling at her on the phone every time you called her.......she might continue to show interest..............
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Hugz_n_Kissez: Now that I might be able to handle....
Key word is "might"....
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DangerouslySweet: Perhaps if you took things just a little bit slower (Don't try to give her a full body massage and cop a feel the first time you meet her). And then quit yelling at her on the phone every time you called her.......she might continue to show interest..............
Ask for what you want and celebrate the no!!!!!
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Also, there are those that live in "anger" and continue to show their anger....
I once heard that when another angers you, they control you..
Do some have hidden desires to be controlled??????
I once heard that when another angers you, they control you..
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I can simply not afford to live in fear. And indeed, every day is a gift.
Could use a little work in the anger department I suppose
Could use a little work in the anger department I suppose
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HJFinAZ: Ask for what you want and celebrate the no!!!!! Honesty, complete honesty......
I want to know if you are still coming up this way this month???
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The fear of what lies in the Future for my boys
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HJFinAZ: Some choose to live in fear, some simply choose to live their life. What are your choices???
ur question is difficult....FEAR is a dangerous enemy...u may win the battle with it from time to time but u never know whether u won the war or not
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HJFinAZ: Some choose to live in fear, some simply choose to live their life. What are your choices???
I'll have another pint.
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Serenity1971: I can honestly say I used to live in fear...Now I choose to live life to it's fullest without regrets.
I will give that a huge second!! I could not have said it any better!
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i chose to live my life but i have a terrible fear of
Blood
bees
needles
knives
razor
swords
well all kind of blades
and i am afraid oh hospital
yurk
Blood
bees
needles
knives
razor
swords
well all kind of blades
and i am afraid oh hospital
yurk
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I choose not to let the insecurities of my past cloud my present or cast a shadow on my future.
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An Innocent Man by Billy Joel
Some people stay far away from the door
If there's a chance of it opening up
They hear a voice in the hall outside
And hope that it just passes by
Some people live with the fear of a touch
And the anger of having been a fool
They will not listen to anyone
So nobody tells them a lie
I know you're only protecting yourself
I know you're thinking of somebody else
Someone who hurt you
But I'm not above
Making up for the love
You've been denying you could ever feel
I'm not above doing anything
To restore your faith if I can
Some people see through the eyes of the old
Before they ever get a look at the young
I'm only willing to hear you cry
Because I am an innocent man
I am an innocent man
Oh yes I am
Some people say they will never believe
Another promise they hear in the dark
Because they only remember too well
They heard somebody tell them before
Some people sleep all alone every night
Instead of taking a lover to bed
Some people find that it's easier to hate
Than to wait anymore
I know you don't want to hear what I say
I know you're gonna keep turning away
But I've been there and if I can survive
I can keep you alive
I'm not above going through it again
I'm not above being cool for a while
If you're cruel to me I'll understand
Some people run from a possible fight
Some people figure they can never win
And although this is a fight I can lose
The accused is an innocent man
I am an innocent man
Oh yes I am
An innocent man
You know you only hurt yourself out of spite
I guess you'd rather be a martyr tonight
That's your decision
But I'm not below
Anybody I know
If there's a chance of resurrecting a love
I'm not above going back to the start
To find out where the heartache began
Some people hope for a miracle cure
Some people just accept the world as it is
But I'm not willing to lay down and die
Because I am an innocent man
I am an innocent man
Oh yes I am
An innocent man
.... I thought it rather piognant??
Some people stay far away from the door
If there's a chance of it opening up
They hear a voice in the hall outside
And hope that it just passes by
Some people live with the fear of a touch
And the anger of having been a fool
They will not listen to anyone
So nobody tells them a lie
I know you're only protecting yourself
I know you're thinking of somebody else
Someone who hurt you
But I'm not above
Making up for the love
You've been denying you could ever feel
I'm not above doing anything
To restore your faith if I can
Some people see through the eyes of the old
Before they ever get a look at the young
I'm only willing to hear you cry
Because I am an innocent man
I am an innocent man
Oh yes I am
Some people say they will never believe
Another promise they hear in the dark
Because they only remember too well
They heard somebody tell them before
Some people sleep all alone every night
Instead of taking a lover to bed
Some people find that it's easier to hate
Than to wait anymore
I know you don't want to hear what I say
I know you're gonna keep turning away
But I've been there and if I can survive
I can keep you alive
I'm not above going through it again
I'm not above being cool for a while
If you're cruel to me I'll understand
Some people run from a possible fight
Some people figure they can never win
And although this is a fight I can lose
The accused is an innocent man
I am an innocent man
Oh yes I am
An innocent man
You know you only hurt yourself out of spite
I guess you'd rather be a martyr tonight
That's your decision
But I'm not below
Anybody I know
If there's a chance of resurrecting a love
I'm not above going back to the start
To find out where the heartache began
Some people hope for a miracle cure
Some people just accept the world as it is
But I'm not willing to lay down and die
Because I am an innocent man
I am an innocent man
Oh yes I am
An innocent man
.... I thought it rather piognant??
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I choose to be strong enough to make the hard choices, for myself. I chose a few years ago to seek happiness, rather than living with misery. I've done what I had to do for me, and I am the only one I can choose for. Courage is not about not having fear, courage is being afraid and doing it anyway. 
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That's great hun. I still watch Disney movies, mostly everynight to fall asleep to. Helping others is great.