How many dates are just the right number before you know what happens? ( Archived) (9)

Jun 4, 2008 12:51 AM CST How many dates are just the right number before you know what happens?
ILP69
ILP69ILP69Warwick, Rhode Island USA1 Threads 2 Posts
Hi Ladies and Gentlemen. I'm new to this site, and I would like your 2008 opinion on this age-old question. How many dates do you think that a couple should go on before going all the way? What should happen on the first date? The second? The third? Thanks.
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Jun 4, 2008 1:43 AM CST How many dates are just the right number before you know what happens?
princess49503
princess49503princess49503grand rapids, Michigan USA18 Threads 1 Polls 1,485 Posts
6 years ago when i met my ex.....

we waited 2 months before we were intimate......
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Jun 4, 2008 1:44 AM CST How many dates are just the right number before you know what happens?
princess49503
princess49503princess49503grand rapids, Michigan USA18 Threads 1 Polls 1,485 Posts
princess49503: 6 years ago when i met my ex.....

we waited 2 months before we were intimate......


as far as how many dates?????? Idunno....every friday and saturday night for 2 months????? you do the math...
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Jun 4, 2008 1:45 AM CST How many dates are just the right number before you know what happens?
rusty_knight
rusty_knightrusty_knightGozo, Malta175 Threads 2 Polls 6,840 Posts
ILP69: Hi Ladies and Gentlemen. I'm new to this site, and I would like your 2008 opinion on this age-old question. How many dates do you think that a couple should go on before going all the way? What should happen on the first date? The second? The third? Thanks.


It's NOT the number of dates - it's the TIME factor........... I once went on a first date that lasted six years!

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Jun 4, 2008 1:46 AM CST How many dates are just the right number before you know what happens?
alabamabebe
alabamabebealabamabebeBanks of the Warrior River, Alabama USA66 Threads 3 Polls 4,404 Posts
There's no right or wrong answer to this question, play it by ear, and when it's right, it's time.
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Jun 4, 2008 2:44 AM CST How many dates are just the right number before you know what happens?
shipoker55
shipoker55shipoker55St. Petersburg, Florida USA211 Threads 2 Polls 9,362 Posts
on the first date. There might not be a second. Get while the gettin's good
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Jun 4, 2008 3:08 AM CST How many dates are just the right number before you know what happens?
ILP69
ILP69ILP69Warwick, Rhode Island USA1 Threads 2 Posts
Hi Gorgeous! I wished that you lived in Rhode Island because you're so cute and funny. But did you make out on the first date (or do more), or go all the way? Some women like to get physical fast, but others like to wait a month. How about you out of curiosity? Bye.
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Jun 4, 2008 3:15 AM CST How many dates are just the right number before you know what happens?
YetAnotherUser
YetAnotherUserYetAnotherUserWyandotte (Detroit), Michigan USA6 Threads 3 Polls 112 Posts
Too many variables to factor a realistic discussion....

Each situation with different people in different points and directions of/for their lives, what is know about each other prior, what the expectations of the dates (quick test, concern for long term, etc...), the peoples moods on that given night in that given situation...

I'd like to think that peeps still would like to be somewhat traditional and in doubt WAIT!.... It's a RESPECT thing...
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Jun 6, 2008 10:32 AM CST How many dates are just the right number before you know what happens?
Leana76
Leana76Leana76Prescott Valley, Arizona USA39 Threads 918 Posts
Well, this is my experience and it has worked for me a lot;

1st date- We went to somewhere in public, like out to eat at a restuarant, went to play pool, sat somewhere quiet to talk about each other, and just have a good time after. Even go dancing. Somewhere neutral. That way if it didn't work out, there's no hard feelings. Much safer too.

2nd date- I would probably get invited to go to their house and spend a day with them and their friends. Maybe a house party or BBQ.

3rd date- Maybe go out of town together, to a concert or to the beach or something.

4th date- Hmmmm...I think he likes me...We can anything on this one. I'm happy.

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