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Jun 9, 2008 1:25 PM CST which hurts more ..
riyablossom
riyablossomriyablossomsomewhere, Pennsylvania USA184 Threads 18 Polls 11,244 Posts
I was listening to a friends story today and it got me wondering ..

which hurts more ?

To love and be able to get that someone in your life or to let go of them ...
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Jun 9, 2008 1:26 PM CST which hurts more ..
soulmateTWS
soulmateTWSsoulmateTWSHappy in, Alabama USA8 Threads 4,935 Posts
riyablossom: I was listening to a friends story today and it got me wondering ..

which hurts more ?

To love and be able to get that someone in your life or to let go of them ...


It's hard to say which is worse...they both hurt...sigh
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Jun 9, 2008 1:26 PM CST which hurts more ..
lusciousmile
lusciousmilelusciousmileThere, Aland Islands Finland25 Threads 2 Polls 11,989 Posts
riyablossom: I was listening to a friends story today and it got me wondering ..

which hurts more ?

To love and be able to get that someone in your life or to let go of them ...



That doesn't sound like it would hurt.

confused


wave
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Jun 9, 2008 1:27 PM CST which hurts more ..
a_l_e_x
a_l_e_xa_l_e_xlondon, Greater London, England UK62 Threads 1,813 Posts
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Jun 9, 2008 1:27 PM CST which hurts more ..
mbcasey
mbcaseymbcaseyNorth Myrtle Beach, South Carolina USA68 Threads 7 Polls 16,449 Posts
To let them go.

Both parties have to let go during a breakup, so it is twice as painful.
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Jun 9, 2008 1:28 PM CST which hurts more ..
riyablossom
riyablossomriyablossomsomewhere, Pennsylvania USA184 Threads 18 Polls 11,244 Posts
Hi people ....

Now if you let go of someone for their happiness .. shouldnt it hurt less?

or is it that our feeling of such a powerful emotion is what makes things worse for us?wave
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Jun 9, 2008 1:29 PM CST which hurts more ..
riyablossom
riyablossomriyablossomsomewhere, Pennsylvania USA184 Threads 18 Polls 11,244 Posts
hi alex ..
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Jun 9, 2008 1:30 PM CST which hurts more ..
mbcasey
mbcaseymbcaseyNorth Myrtle Beach, South Carolina USA68 Threads 7 Polls 16,449 Posts
riyablossom: Hi people ....

Now if you let go of someone for their happiness .. shouldnt it hurt less?

or is it that our feeling of such a powerful emotion is what makes things worse for us?


I have been trying to let go for 7 months...it is very painful to let someone go who you loved deeply. Letting someone go for the benefit of their happiness is very noble, but it still hurts.
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Jun 9, 2008 1:31 PM CST which hurts more ..
morganlee
morganleemorganleeQawra, Majjistral Malta27 Threads 1 Polls 4,368 Posts
riyablossom: Hi people ....

Now if you let go of someone for their happiness .. shouldnt it hurt less?

or is it that our feeling of such a powerful emotion is what makes things worse for us?
I did this and it hurt like hell , but maybe i am selfish dunno
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Jun 9, 2008 1:32 PM CST which hurts more ..
morganlee
morganleemorganleeQawra, Majjistral Malta27 Threads 1 Polls 4,368 Posts
Oops sorry riya hi hug bouquet
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Jun 9, 2008 1:33 PM CST which hurts more ..
mbcasey
mbcaseymbcaseyNorth Myrtle Beach, South Carolina USA68 Threads 7 Polls 16,449 Posts
morganlee: I did this and it hurt like hell , but maybe i am selfish


It's not selfish, it's human...hug
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Jun 9, 2008 1:34 PM CST which hurts more ..
ltlmstrouble
ltlmstroubleltlmstroubleMilton Keynes, Buckinghamshire, England UK7 Threads 1,635 Posts
I am doing it now and it is an endless pain... I have had physical pain in my life, but emotional is much worse.

It hurts to let someone go...................blues
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Jun 9, 2008 1:35 PM CST which hurts more ..
mbcasey
mbcaseymbcaseyNorth Myrtle Beach, South Carolina USA68 Threads 7 Polls 16,449 Posts
ltlmstrouble: I am doing it now and it is an endless pain... I have had physical pain in my life, but emotional is much worse.

It hurts to let someone go...................


comfort hug
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Jun 9, 2008 1:36 PM CST which hurts more ..
slim1977
slim1977slim1977my heart will always be in, Tennessee USA16 Threads 943 Posts
both hurt very much as many on this site know. but for me it is the letting go that is the worst, was married to my first love for 5 years, she left me. this was the hardest thing I ever had to deal with in my life and trust me there have been many difficult things in life I have had to accept.
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Jun 9, 2008 1:38 PM CST which hurts more ..
riyablossom
riyablossomriyablossomsomewhere, Pennsylvania USA184 Threads 18 Polls 11,244 Posts
good lord .. am sorry i made you all thinkof it again.blues

But personally i would agree that letting go is noble but painful.

I wonder sometimes if its greater love to have loved and lost or to have just loved at all cos its sure a blessing to have felt such a pure emotion for someone in the first place where you would give up all.
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Jun 9, 2008 1:39 PM CST which hurts more ..
riyablossom
riyablossomriyablossomsomewhere, Pennsylvania USA184 Threads 18 Polls 11,244 Posts
morganlee: I did this and it hurt like hell , but maybe i am selfish


nope not selfish .. sometimes there arent many options .. hi hug
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Jun 9, 2008 1:41 PM CST which hurts more ..
kissmedeeply
kissmedeeplykissmedeeplyPetitcodiac, New Brunswick Canada70 Threads 15,139 Posts
mbcasey: To let them go.

Both parties have to let go during a breakup, so it is twice as painful.
Totally Agree...Hey sweetiehug lips
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Jun 9, 2008 1:42 PM CST which hurts more ..
mbcasey
mbcaseymbcaseyNorth Myrtle Beach, South Carolina USA68 Threads 7 Polls 16,449 Posts
kissmedeeply: Totally Agree...Hey sweetie


Hey Joanne!! Welcome back...so glad to see you!!!hug
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Jun 9, 2008 1:43 PM CST which hurts more ..
lusciousmile
lusciousmilelusciousmileThere, Aland Islands Finland25 Threads 2 Polls 11,989 Posts
riyablossom: I was listening to a friends story today and it got me wondering ..

which hurts more ?

To love and be able to get that someone in your life or to let go of them ...


Can someone kindly explain this to me.

dunno
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Jun 9, 2008 1:43 PM CST which hurts more ..
riyablossom
riyablossomriyablossomsomewhere, Pennsylvania USA184 Threads 18 Polls 11,244 Posts
mbcasey: I have been trying to let go for 7 months...it is very painful to let someone go who you loved deeply. Letting someone go for the benefit of their happiness is very noble, but it still hurts.


comfort

Its still a light of hope that maybe the happiness they seek was in reality elsewhere ... maybe dunno sigh.. hug
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