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Jun 12, 2008 1:31 AM CST ask questions
kkitty
kkittykkittyMinnesota, USA17 Threads 4 Polls 1,055 Posts
what questions should you ask to really get to know somebody?
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Jun 12, 2008 1:32 AM CST ask questions
morganlee
morganleemorganleeQawra, Majjistral Malta27 Threads 1 Polls 4,368 Posts
i like to observe think you get a truer picture that way
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Jun 12, 2008 1:32 AM CST ask questions
sxc666
sxc666sxc666unknown, Queensland Australia51 Threads 16,853 Posts
I don't know how you would ask. But I certainly like to see the arugmetative side in a person, some true colors can come out them.

Scary.help
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Jun 12, 2008 2:24 AM CST ask questions
Portiea
PortieaPortieaKonstanz, Baden-Wuerttemberg Germany93 Threads 11 Polls 4,000 Posts
kkitty: what questions should you ask to really get to know somebody?
I think that I would/do ask just the natural questions that come up as we go along...in the course of conversation. I am a curious person and ask a lot of questions, not to pry, but to get to know somebody, and one answer often leads to another question....

Don't have any specific questions--would want to know if his status for sure (married/divorced/separated). Other stuff just comes up....cheers
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Jun 12, 2008 2:44 AM CST ask questions
rasgumby
rasgumbyrasgumbyMoberly, Missouri USA99 Threads 10 Polls 4,665 Posts
Question here or in real life, two different approaches.

here I do not ask a lot.. I just don't have that kind of faith in internet.

but in person I will ask anything I want to know.. eye to eye- so I can read them.

mostly start with the every day questions...
Do you have kids?
how many and ages of brothers and sisters?
find out some about family background and so on.
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Jun 12, 2008 2:46 AM CST ask questions
gtbulldog2
gtbulldog2gtbulldog2Towson, Maryland USA10 Threads 2,828 Posts
sxc666: I don't know how you would ask. But I certainly like to see the arugmetative side in a person, some true colors can come out them.

Scary.
comfort hug
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Jun 12, 2008 2:46 AM CST ask questions
gangel
gangelgangelPlovdiv, Bulgaria, Hampshire, England UK52 Threads 16 Polls 5,028 Posts
I would ask the person bout their aims in life...
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Jun 12, 2008 2:52 AM CST ask questions
rasgumby
rasgumbyrasgumbyMoberly, Missouri USA99 Threads 10 Polls 4,665 Posts
gangel: I would ask the person bout their aims in life...


Thats an easy one......
After a couple of $100 dates I aim to get lucky!wink tongue
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Jun 12, 2008 10:10 AM CST ask questions
laura225
laura225laura225Somewhere, New York USA3 Threads 2 Polls 1,792 Posts
Portiea: ....

Don't have any specific questions--would want to know if his status for sure (married/divorced/separated). Other stuff just comes up....


that's the 1st thing anybody would want to know. But how can you be certain that you get the truthful answer to that one? confused
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Jun 12, 2008 10:22 AM CST ask questions
HJFinAZ
HJFinAZHJFinAZSun CIty, Arizona USA870 Threads 1 Polls 17,068 Posts
kkitty: what questions should you ask to really get to know somebody?


Any question you choose to ask. It is the other that has the right to answer or not answer.

Questions and answers do not always let people truly know each other.

People tell little fibs, it is a fact of life. I am sure it is not intentional, some simply want so much to be loved they will tell qanother what they think they want to hear.wink

Old saying, "actions speak louder than words"..hug
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Jun 12, 2008 10:24 AM CST ask questions
HJFinAZ
HJFinAZHJFinAZSun CIty, Arizona USA870 Threads 1 Polls 17,068 Posts
gangel: I would ask the person bout their aims in life...


What if their only aim in life was to be a good person and to be happy?confused

grin
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Jun 12, 2008 10:28 AM CST ask questions
Portiea
PortieaPortieaKonstanz, Baden-Wuerttemberg Germany93 Threads 11 Polls 4,000 Posts
laura225: that's the 1st thing anybody would want to know. But how can you be certain that you get the truthful answer to that one?


On a dating site, that would be problematic. Meet as soon as possible, start getting to know one another in real life as soon as possible....cheers
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Jun 12, 2008 10:45 AM CST ask questions
HJFinAZ
HJFinAZHJFinAZSun CIty, Arizona USA870 Threads 1 Polls 17,068 Posts
Portiea: On a dating site, that would be problematic. Meet as soon as possible, start getting to know one another in real life as soon as possible....


Very good point and a true statement (in real life). Problem with a dating site is so many allow their lives to run on fear and they cannot muster the courage to risk.wink
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Jun 12, 2008 10:45 AM CST ask questions
alex_192
alex_192alex_192sarasota, USA38 Threads 1,271 Posts
kkitty: what questions should you ask to really get to know somebody?


i dont need to ask questions in order to know the other one

i rarelly ask questions in real live

in this cyber life, i ask less questions
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Jun 12, 2008 10:46 AM CST ask questions
HJFinAZ
HJFinAZHJFinAZSun CIty, Arizona USA870 Threads 1 Polls 17,068 Posts
HJFinAZ: Very good point and a true statement (in real life). Problem with a dating site is so many allow their lives to run on fear and they cannot muster the courage to risk.


oNLY "my" PERCEPTION. i COULD BE WRONG..dunno

Damn caps lock..doh
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Jun 12, 2008 10:48 AM CST ask questions
alex_192
alex_192alex_192sarasota, USA38 Threads 1,271 Posts
laura225: that's the 1st thing anybody would want to know. But how can you be certain that you get the truthful answer to that one?


count how many threas have posted that some one dated another one for years to find later he/she was married

you will have to learn how to read the others talking as to know when they are saying the truth or no
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Jun 12, 2008 10:49 AM CST ask questions
alex_192
alex_192alex_192sarasota, USA38 Threads 1,271 Posts
morganlee: i like to observe think you get a truer picture that way

thumbs up
bouquet
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Jun 12, 2008 10:51 AM CST ask questions
mbcasey
mbcaseymbcaseyNorth Myrtle Beach, South Carolina USA68 Threads 7 Polls 16,449 Posts
Have you always been a woman?

There are no warrants out for your arrest, right?

Will you take a drug test, STD test, and a pregnancy test?
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Jun 12, 2008 11:03 AM CST ask questions
reelman90
reelman90reelman90Richmond, Kentucky USA3 Threads 387 Posts
HJFinAZ: Any question you choose to ask. It is the other that has the right to answer or not answer.

Questions and answers do not always let people truly know each other.

People tell little fibs, it is a fact of life. I am sure it is not intentional, some simply want so much to be loved they will tell qanother what they think they want to hear.

Old saying, "actions speak louder than words"..



You are definitely a wise gentleman and I agree with you completely!
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Jun 17, 2008 9:48 AM CST ask questions
kkitty
kkittykkittyMinnesota, USA17 Threads 4 Polls 1,055 Posts
HJFinAZ: Very good point and a true statement (in real life). Problem with a dating site is so many allow their lives to run on fear and they cannot muster the courage to risk.



I think that women have a little more to fear than men. JMO
is it a bad thing to be cautious?
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