hello girls i thought u might like this.................... Mental Feng Shui
1. Give people more than they expect and do it cheerfully.
2. Marry a man/ woman you love to talk to. As you get older, their conversational skills will be as important as any other.
3. Don't beli eve all you hear, spend all you have or sleep all you want. 4. When you say, 'I love you,' mean it. 5. When you say, 'I'm sorry,' look the person in the eye. 6. Be engaged at least six months before you get married. 7. Believe in love at first sight. 8. Never laugh at anyone's dreams. People who don't have dreams don't have much. 9. Love deeply and passionately.. You might get hurt but it's the only way to live life completely. 10. In disagreements, f ight fairly. No name callin g. 11. Don't judge people by their relatives. 12. Talk slowly but think quickly. 13. When someone asks you a question you don't want to answer, smile and ask, 'Why do you want to know?' 14. Remember that great love and great achievements involve great risk. 15. Say 'bless you' when you hear someone sneeze. 16. When you lose, don't lose the lesson. 17. Remember the three R's: Respect for self; Respect for others; and Responsibility for all your actions. 18. Don't let a little dispute injure a great friendship. 19. When you realize you've made a mistake, take immediate steps to correct it. 20. Smile when picking up the phone. The caller will hear it in your voice. 21. Spend some time alone.
kissmedeeplyPetitcodiac, New Brunswick Canada15,139 posts
prncss4someone: and if you notice with the fighting, no one really stays mad at anyone, maybe a bit wary, but not hateful or spiteful. This is a nice place to be, that's what makes me stay. I've been other places, and just the people who interacted with me well, let's just say, I ran back home...Never really posted anything, just wanted to see what was out there. We think the nut jobs are here and maybe we are: personality plus, but the really asinine people are out there. It is unbelievable. I've seen enough to know that home is where the heart is, and my heart belongs right here. where it should be, fighting the "good" fight, laughing, crying, all of it. It's awesome We can take our shoes off, let our hair down, and feel free to be ourselves.
Jesus, now I'm making myself sick. I can't say enough about the interaction on here. It's a blessing
I agree we dont stay mad for very long..
Just some like to be heard alot more and to be understood..i think that is why some get a little tiffy under the collar....
We all are Somebody..
We need someone for our Joy...or when we hurt...or an occassion..or illness and so on...
So i like to say to everyone here that has helped me when i felt down..or share in my happiness...
cristina: I think the mods do a good job here not that we are so much civilized here
How many times you almost read direct nasty stuff here? Well, the mods make sure we recicle well...i myself would very much like to break a glass in somebody's head here
I think that they allow us a lot of breathing room, and however uncomfortable it may seem at the time, it all seems to work out in the end rather nicely. Direct nasty stuff you've never told someone off in r.l.? Same kinda thing. It's unpleasant, but it's not anything to carry on your back forever. See, passion=glass in somebody's head. just a diff form of passion is all. Probably shouldn't hold a grudge honey, not healthy.
I'm glad that the mods allow us space to express ourselves.
kissmedeeply: I agree we dont stay mad for very long..
Just some like to be heard alot more and to be understood..i think that is why some get a little tiffy under the collar....
We all are Somebody..
We need someone for our Joy...or when we hurt...or an occassion..or illness and so on...
So i like to say to everyone here that has helped me when i felt down..or share in my happiness...
You all are very lovely People...
I love you all for that
We are Family
i disagree some people hold grudges and go out of their way to be yukky for long long time makes ya wonder do they even remember why-it just becomes a habit maybe?
kissmedeeplyPetitcodiac, New Brunswick Canada15,139 posts
mindfful: i disagree some people hold grudges and go out of their way to be yukky for long long time makes ya wonder do they even remember why-it just becomes a habit maybe?
life goes on
Hi lovely..Okay you are right i have someone that says i make them sick and so on..and they keep going on and on about it like the energize bunny...
prncss4someone: I think that they allow us a lot of breathing room, and however uncomfortable it may seem at the time, it all seems to work out in the end rather nicely. Direct nasty stuff you've never told someone off in r.l.? Same kinda thing. It's unpleasant, but it's not anything to carry on your back forever. See, passion=glass in somebody's head. just a diff form of passion is all. Probably shouldn't hold a grudge honey, not healthy.
I'm glad that the mods allow us space to express ourselves.
im too lazy to quote you both but i agreed with you and cris
prncss4someone: it's called passion, and for whatever we go through, we are a family. If someone suffers, whoever it is, we hurt. Families fight, love, embrace, and stay together-also welcome new members. No one is "head" honcho here like in the old days, and I think that it works just fine as it is. At least when we do have melt downs, we are able to, and we go on and learn just a bit more about each other. I don't miss the old days, well 2 years ago. I like it better now. It seems to be more even keeled than it was before. Everyone is a king and queen, everyone is equal. It's nice.
well with this post asloe I can say then there was no head honcho and she made this placve fun.Explain to me why ones leaving and comin back under new names and or faces.And when is the last time we had a fun thread in here always this I'm listening to,or who is what on here.
kissmedeeply: Hi lovely..Okay you are right i have someone that says i make them sick and so on..and they keep going on and on about it like the energize bunny...
is it a bunny that staggers around? i saw that in a movie once
actually twice some ol jimmy stewart movie and donnie darko
rabbits are more sinister than they seem at first glance
hillbillyhoney: well with this post asloe I can say then there was no head honcho and she made this placve fun.Explain to me why ones leaving and comin back under new names and or faces.And when is the last time we had a fun thread in here always this I'm listening to,or who is what on here.
I will refuse to argue points with you as it is one's perception versus another's, so debating such would be useless. We find our fun Honey, it's all around us. I don't know why people dupe their profiles, but this is nothing new, as it is on other sites as well. I think that we should be careful over the internet in the first place, and really get an understanding of whoever it is that we are dealing with one on one.
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Mental Feng Shui
1. Give people more than they expect and do it cheerfully.
2. Marry a man/ woman you love to talk to. As you get older, their
conversational skills will be as important as any other.
3. Don't beli eve all you hear, spend all you have or sleep all you want.
4. When you say, 'I love you,' mean it.
5. When you say, 'I'm sorry,' look the person in the eye.
6. Be engaged at least six months before you get married.
7. Believe in love at first sight.
8. Never laugh at anyone's dreams. People who don't have dreams don't
have much.
9. Love deeply and passionately.. You might get hurt but it's the only
way to live life completely.
10. In disagreements, f ight fairly. No name callin g.
11. Don't judge people by their relatives.
12. Talk slowly but think quickly.
13. When someone asks you a question you don't want to answer,
smile and ask, 'Why do you want to know?'
14. Remember that great love and great achievements involve great
risk.
15. Say 'bless you' when you hear someone sneeze.
16. When you lose, don't lose the lesson.
17. Remember the three R's: Respect for self; Respect for others;
and Responsibility for all your actions.
18. Don't let a little dispute injure a great friendship.
19. When you realize you've made a mistake, take immediate steps to
correct it.
20. Smile when picking up the phone. The caller will hear it in your
voice.
21. Spend some time alone.