Past relationship ( Archived) (29)

My ex and I met by accident. In fact I was talking to her friend and when her friend's ex came back into the picture asking for another try, I told her I would not stand in the way of love. So feeling bad, she introduced me to my ex. I was 21 at the time, as her friend, but she lied to me and told me her friend was 19 when in fact I later found out she was 17. Anyways, we were together and effortlessly we grew closer and closer until one day she asked me if she was my girl and I was so excited to hear that, I smiled and replied with a yes.

She was a dream come true, as my family and friends adored her. We had our ups and downs like any relationship, although the fact she was young posed a problem. We did not see eye to eye. My experience, vs her understanding. That caused a lot of arguments.

We were together for 3 loving years until she started wanting to go out again, which was fine, but this time she was being brought home by other guys. Me, having trouble with insecurities then, would try to fight these guys, not trusting in her and such. She was a good girl though and now that I grew myself can look back and see that there was no reason to distrust her. Although I did let her go, because we broke up too many times and I told her that I loved her enough to let her go.

She respected that and we were friends until she started talking to a guy I knew who would do her wrong, plus he has an std. She didn't want to believe me and thought I was being jealous. He ended up telling her about his std and if that girl has any sense, they didn't do anything. She thought he was perfect for her, but turns out, they are not together. I had to let her go so I wouldn't worry about her anymore. I can never be with her again, even if we were to cross paths, but I know that she is much happier with her own life. I tried to protect her from mistakes which was wrong of me, she was too young for me (4 years).