woody636: One other thing I've noticed with some of the guys posts. Sorry gents, but some of you are just TOOOOO good to be true.
I believe this to be true. Sometimes people try too hard to show what really nice people they are!! Sometimes I wonder if they are really ax murders..........LOL
shipoker55: I believe this to be true. Sometimes people try too hard to show what really nice people they are!! Sometimes I wonder if they are really ax murders..........LOL
Or maybe just trying to impress the ladies with how understanding they are? Don't know, but my radar goes up and says "Uh Oh!"
shipoker55: I believe this to be true. Sometimes people try too hard to show what really nice people they are!! Sometimes I wonder if they are really ax murders..........LOL
2catchastar: Three things, Yes I have been my self in the forums and any where else, I don't know how to be anything but who I am. If I tried to be something I am not I would screw it up royal! And yes there are things I hold back from the forum from a lot of people. But it things that no one would be intrested in, and personal between me and me. And last I am far from sweet and perfect! I would not hesitate to say that I am one of the most imperfect people here. I have my bad days, and I have let my temper get the best of me on the forums. And for that I feel bad, but it is because I am not perfect. And I am not being or trying to sound nasty or sinical, I am just making a statement that I am who I am with all my imperfections.
And I am thinking at this point in time I should maybe hold back even more?
I am open and honest. don't hide anything. I am on disability but don't let it stop me. If anybody asks me a question I tell them the truth.If we ever meet people will see the real me,I can't hide it.
kkitty: honest I dont think even our mothers know the real you. We all have secrets that we would never share with anyone, no matter how much we were in love. I think that it is human nature not to fully speak your mind as you dont or shouldn't want to make others feel bad on purpose. If your having a bad day Its OK to express it . Its just not right to make others feel bad because you do. I see nothing wrong with being a butt hole, to me you would be protecting yourself for whatever your reasons. I also believe that even the butt holes have a nice person inside somewhere they just dont want anybody to see it.
shipoker55: Dana...I get the feeling that you are just what you present!! I, too, am exactly what I present! Problem is I present myself in different ways. But the day I present as a mean old gouch....I am a mean old grouch that day!!
There are days that I come across as a nice guy.....and I am, on those days.
At times. I show my scared child side of me........that is what I am feeling at that time. Esp when it comes to affection.
So, if you see me as different on any given day, there are no auis and there is no pretense. I am a complex person, with many different personalities.
I make it a point to be myself on the forums, but sometimes I mess it up. Proves I am not perfect. I do make it my business to accept folks without condition, even though their opinions and stuff don't agree with mine. I have days I could bite through nails and be so mean and other days I am a sweetheart. Just human nature I guess. Like most of us, I expect to be treated how I would treat another. I accept people's bad days as experiences in their lives to learn from. There is something called what you see is what you get. Applies here with me.
Many people are holding back their photos and I am sure they have their reasons. I guess they have to live with themselves or they just don't want to have a photo. JMO.
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