What happens next? (48)
#1 Patience is a virtue
#2 If curious...give a call! It's not 1963, you know!!
#2 If curious...give a call! It's not 1963, you know!!
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I'd call him.
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shipoker55: #1 Patience is a virtue
#2 If curious...give a call! It's not 1963, you know!!
#2 If curious...give a call! It's not 1963, you know!!
nice advice ship
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Sienne: Background: Fabulous first "friendly" date. Both of us had loads of fun. Talked about everything under the sun to the point of losing track of time. Both of us confirmed the desire to see each other again.
This was two days ago. No phone call or messages. Now what?
Call him This was two days ago. No phone call or messages. Now what?
maybe he is waiting for you to call him and is sitting there thinking the exact same thing, you never know 
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OK, that's what I needed. Now all I have to do is pluck up my courage and call him ... tomorrow. (It's kinda late here, anyway.)
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shipoker55: #1 Patience is a virtue
#2 If curious...give a call! It's not 1963, you know!!
#2 If curious...give a call! It's not 1963, you know!!
What he said...
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Don't call him yet.. wait a bit longer.
Well.. says me.. but then.. I'm single
so don't listen to me
Well.. says me.. but then.. I'm single
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He's probally being shy lots of guys are like that. Call him.
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Sienne: Background: Fabulous first "friendly" date. Both of us had loads of fun. Talked about everything under the sun to the point of losing track of time. Both of us confirmed the desire to see each other again.
This was two days ago. No phone call or messages. Now what?
This was two days ago. No phone call or messages. Now what?
I'd wait for him to call me. For the simple fact that some men can be habitual creatures. That is, once you train them, they expect it to stay like that....
Laughing because I just pissed off men in various countries Seriously, no harm in waiting, and I was being serious about the training part.------ This thread is Archived ------
gypsykisses: I'd wait for him to call me. For the simple fact that some men can be habitual creatures. That is, once you train them, they expect it to stay like that.... Laughing because I just pissed off men in various countries Seriously, no harm in waiting, and I was being serious about the training part.
So I should train him to do the follow-up call?
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Sienne: You made me laugh!
hahaha
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Sienne: So I should train him to do the follow-up call?
Can they actually be trained???? ------ This thread is Archived ------
Sienne: Background: Fabulous first "friendly" date. Both of us had loads of fun. Talked about everything under the sun to the point of losing track of time. Both of us confirmed the desire to see each other again.
This was two days ago. No phone call or messages. Now what?
This was two days ago. No phone call or messages. Now what?
he's probably too shy to make the first movement
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Question. Had he been calling you regularly before? And now has quit?
If that's the case, sounds like he mighta jumped too fast and is now getting scared. You might want to call, just friendly hey how ya been doing. Once you call, if you still don't get a call back from him, just drop it and consider yourself lucky to have escaped a commitophobic without too much trauma involved.
If you weren't already hearing from him every day or two, don't worry about it, he's just being a guy.
If that's the case, sounds like he mighta jumped too fast and is now getting scared. You might want to call, just friendly hey how ya been doing. Once you call, if you still don't get a call back from him, just drop it and consider yourself lucky to have escaped a commitophobic without too much trauma involved.
If you weren't already hearing from him every day or two, don't worry about it, he's just being a guy.
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Sienne: So I should train him to do the follow-up call?
I have already went through all the b.s. years ago. If you call a guy first, 10-1 odds, you'll be doing it a whole lot. If that's what you want, go for it-I could be wrong (I'm usually not-I do have references
) If he's that shy then he needs to find his balls somewhere, and take the plunge. If you give him balls, you will be carrying them. That sounds stupid, but there is a message in there somewhere, I'm just tired.Example: Had terrific conversations with someone on here-over the phone, few emails, an im or two. We are supposed to meet this weekend or next. He emailed me and said he'd call me on Monday. He didn't. I deleted his phone number. I figure if he's interested, he'll call and I will get his phone number back, if not, then I won't. Simple stuff really. Yeh, it sucks and it's irritating and it hurts cuz he's hot and funny and interesting, but on the other hand, rather go through this now than later......
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He should call you and pay for the second date,third,fourth,and sixth date.
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gypsykisses: I have already went through all the b.s. years ago. If you call a guy first, 10-1 odds, you'll be doing it a whole lot. If that's what you want, go for it-I could be wrong (I'm usually not-I do have references ) If he's that shy then he needs to find his balls somewhere, and take the plunge. If you give him balls, you will be carrying them. That sounds stupid, but there is a message in there somewhere, I'm just tired.
Example: Had terrific conversations with someone on here-over the phone, few emails, an im or two. We are supposed to meet this weekend or next. He emailed me and said he'd call me on Monday. He didn't. I deleted his phone number. I figure if he's interested, he'll call and I will get his phone number back, if not, then I won't. Simple stuff really. Yeh, it sucks and it's irritating and it hurts cuz he's hot and funny and interesting, but on the other hand, rather go through this now than later......
Example: Had terrific conversations with someone on here-over the phone, few emails, an im or two. We are supposed to meet this weekend or next. He emailed me and said he'd call me on Monday. He didn't. I deleted his phone number. I figure if he's interested, he'll call and I will get his phone number back, if not, then I won't. Simple stuff really. Yeh, it sucks and it's irritating and it hurts cuz he's hot and funny and interesting, but on the other hand, rather go through this now than later......
I agree whole heartedly....
If he is interested he should shout out like he's gotta pair!!!!
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thewall2: He should call you and pay for the second date,third,fourth,and sixth date.
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This was two days ago. No phone call or messages. Now what?