When do you say that you have kid(s)? (91)
BarnagieWarsaw, Mazovia Poland28 Threads 3 Polls 819 PostsI wonder. I always do it at the first meet and I don't know if it is good idea. I don't tell story about my son because I don't find it very interesting for others.
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I do it way before first meet. I have them like it or lump it.
There is no choice when it comes to them. They come first and always will.
There is no choice when it comes to them. They come first and always will.
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Barnagie: I wonder. I always do it at the first meet and I don't know if it is good idea. I don't tell story about my son because I don't find it very interesting for others.
It doesn't have to be interesting its reality.------ This thread is Archived ------
I brought up five kids but never fathered a child.........it was part of the package.
But people need to know.Straight from the beginning.
But people need to know.Straight from the beginning.
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gongman: I brought up five kids but never fathered a child.........it was part of the package.But people need to know.Straight from the beginning.
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I always mention that I hva three children.. almost straight away..
So that if they want to step away from the vehicle they have the chance do that, sooner rather than later.
So that if they want to step away from the vehicle they have the chance do that, sooner rather than later.
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sxc666: It doesn't have to be interesting its reality.
Yes, I know but some person can speak only about their kids. What they do, what they eat, etc. Rather boring.
First meet I mean also first contact.
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everyone i meet finds out about my boy , who cares if people find it boring or not ,your a parent so its interesting for you and other parents .
i love hearing about other parents with there kids ,its the best normality in life we have
i love hearing about other parents with there kids ,its the best normality in life we have
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The kids are the greatest part of my charm!
If any woman cant accept them then it just aint meant to be!
If any woman cant accept them then it just aint meant to be!
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Barnagie: Yes, I know but some person can speak only about their kids. What they do, what they eat, etc. Rather boring.
First meet I mean also first contact.
I really dont care if they find it boring personally. I am proud of them, they are part of me.First meet I mean also first contact.
I have never met anyone thats finds it boring either actually the opposite they usually want to meet them and that a big 
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sxc666: I really dont care if they find it boring personally. I am proud of them, they are part of me. I have never met anyone thats finds it boring either actually the opposite they usually want to meet them and that a big to me.
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hi, just butting in...
i went out with guys who have a kid or kids (no, they're not married nor they have girlfriends, don't ask me why i know
) and they told me way before the first meet and it's pretty admirable for guys not to hide that and i agree that single parents should tell those that they're going out with firsthand rather than keeping this fact "for a while".
And yeah, if the woman/man don't like it, both parties would be able to save each other's time.
IMO
i went out with guys who have a kid or kids (no, they're not married nor they have girlfriends, don't ask me why i know
) and they told me way before the first meet and it's pretty admirable for guys not to hide that and i agree that single parents should tell those that they're going out with firsthand rather than keeping this fact "for a while".And yeah, if the woman/man don't like it, both parties would be able to save each other's time.
IMO
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I never hid my child, but I also didn't introduce him to a parade of surrogates until I had a reasonable incling they would be significant people in my life first.... that didn't work out too well either.. 
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Cary0608: hi, just butting in...
i went out with guys who have a kid or kids (no, they're not married nor they have girlfriends, don't ask me why i know ) and they told me way before the first meet and it's pretty admirable for guys not to hide that and i agree that single parents should tell those that they're going out with firsthand rather than keeping this fact "for a while".
And yeah, if the woman/man don't like it, both parties would be able to save each other's time.
IMO
i went out with guys who have a kid or kids (no, they're not married nor they have girlfriends, don't ask me why i know ) and they told me way before the first meet and it's pretty admirable for guys not to hide that and i agree that single parents should tell those that they're going out with firsthand rather than keeping this fact "for a while".
And yeah, if the woman/man don't like it, both parties would be able to save each other's time.
IMO
Exactly there are a few single dad's on here also that stand proud of their kids and I think it's frign admirable.------ This thread is Archived ------
sxc666: Exactly there are a few single dad's on here also that stand proud of their kids and I think it's frign admirable.
I also did it when being a male single parent was somewhat taboo ... all the better for it though. ------ This thread is Archived ------
And if the kids accept you ........................................
Then you knowyou are accepted
Then you knowyou are accepted
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BnaturAl: I also did it when being a male single parent was somewhat taboo ... all the better for it though.
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gongman: And if the kids accept you ........................................
Then you know you are accepted
That is sooo true it would make it very hard to maintain a relationship if the kids were not accepting it.Then you know you are accepted
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sxc666: Exactly there are a few single dad's on here also that stand proud of their kids and I think it's frign admirable.
I'm very proud of my son. He is wonderful. We are really double gang. I don't know if I can join somebody else to our team.
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Barnagie: I'm very proud of my son. He is wonderful. We are really double gang. I don't know if I can join somebody else to our team.
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