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Jul 30, 2008 11:10 AM CST I Have a Question
WhatUwish4
WhatUwish4WhatUwish4St. Augustine, Florida USA2 Threads 7,986 Posts
BnaturAl: Just trying to understand here. You've essentially said you went from 'weak' to 'tough nut' because of experiences, yes?. Does this mean you are given to extremes of either nature?

I have experienced women in a 'mans' world, and I am not by any means pidgeon holeing anyone, but my experience is that they become much 'tougher' than men in those positions. Maybe because they have to prove themselves or that they feel they do.

Do you think, being that assertive and or 'tough' scares some men off?

The converse would be men who are more passive and women finding them lacking because their tendency is to want a 'tough' man who holds their world together.



OK That settles it... You've definitely been hanging around the wrong women! Avoid those who are looking to you to "hold their world's together."
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Jul 30, 2008 11:13 AM CST I Have a Question
BnaturAl
BnaturAlBnaturAlSarnia, Ontario Canada107 Threads 7 Polls 6,811 Posts
WhatUwish4: I wouldn't view distance as an issue in an introductory e-mail. Many people, myself included, are able and willing to move. It's not a bad thing at all. I intend to move sometime in the next two years - but haven't decided where to yet. There's nothing suspicious about that, is there?


leave florida? youre too crazy for me rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
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Jul 30, 2008 11:14 AM CST I Have a Question
BnaturAl
BnaturAlBnaturAlSarnia, Ontario Canada107 Threads 7 Polls 6,811 Posts
Xtabentun: I find this comment surprising..
Thought they gave up those concepts years ago...


Not that I have seen... dunno
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Jul 30, 2008 11:14 AM CST I Have a Question
WhatUwish4
WhatUwish4WhatUwish4St. Augustine, Florida USA2 Threads 7,986 Posts
BnaturAl: leave florida? youre too crazy for me



Don't flatter yourself!
tongue tongue tongue


I'm leaving for my own purposes, not to come chasing after a faceless man with pointless posts!
laugh laugh laugh
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Jul 30, 2008 11:15 AM CST I Have a Question
WhatUwish4
WhatUwish4WhatUwish4St. Augustine, Florida USA2 Threads 7,986 Posts
I'm just saying that you shouldn't write someone off just because they live far away. They may have flexibility.... a good thing
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Jul 30, 2008 11:16 AM CST I Have a Question
Xtabentun
XtabentunXtabentunOntario, Canada18 Threads 1,722 Posts
BnaturAl: Not that I have seen...


True comfort
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Jul 30, 2008 11:18 AM CST I Have a Question
BnaturAl
BnaturAlBnaturAlSarnia, Ontario Canada107 Threads 7 Polls 6,811 Posts
WhatUwish4: OK That settles it... You've definitely been hanging around the wrong women! Avoid those who are looking to you to "hold their world's together."


Its a 'feeling secure' issue I think. And i was speaking generally I should note.


The 'soft place to fall' is probably more accurate and again, my experience, if I become needy as in needing a soft place to fall, women tend to see it as weak and run miles because it circumvents their need to feel the man is the stronger of the two. dunno
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Jul 30, 2008 11:19 AM CST I Have a Question
BnaturAl
BnaturAlBnaturAlSarnia, Ontario Canada107 Threads 7 Polls 6,811 Posts
WhatUwish4: Don't flatter yourself!
I'm leaving for my own purposes, not to come chasing after a faceless man with pointless posts!


tongue I havent always been faceless, you can check with longstanding members as to my looks ... if they aren't still afraid of what they saw rolling on the floor laughing
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Jul 30, 2008 11:23 AM CST I Have a Question
mylifewithu
mylifewithumylifewithuSpringfield, Missouri USA174 Threads 23,670 Posts
wave Hello Everyone!! Wow , this thread has changedlaugh laugh
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Jul 30, 2008 11:23 AM CST I Have a Question
WhatUwish4
WhatUwish4WhatUwish4St. Augustine, Florida USA2 Threads 7,986 Posts
BnaturAl: I havent always been faceless, you can check with longstanding members as to my looks ... if they aren't still afraid of what they saw


It's ok... I often go faceless. Kind of fun.
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Jul 30, 2008 11:23 AM CST I Have a Question
WhatUwish4
WhatUwish4WhatUwish4St. Augustine, Florida USA2 Threads 7,986 Posts
mylifewithu: Hello Everyone!! Wow , this thread has changed



HELLO!!!

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Jul 30, 2008 11:24 AM CST I Have a Question
mylifewithu
mylifewithumylifewithuSpringfield, Missouri USA174 Threads 23,670 Posts
WhatUwish4: HELLO!!!
wave Hi Girlwine
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Jul 30, 2008 11:26 AM CST I Have a Question
dazzling_dave
dazzling_davedazzling_daveWaynesboro, Virginia USA4 Threads 1,993 Posts
WhatUwish4: I wouldn't view distance as an issue in an introductory e-mail. Many people, myself included, are able and willing to move. It's not a bad thing at all. I intend to move sometime in the next two years - but haven't decided where to yet. There's nothing suspicious about that, is there?


You mean there is still hope? And just when I was about to give up and crawl back into my cave. tongue
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Jul 30, 2008 11:29 AM CST I Have a Question
WhatUwish4
WhatUwish4WhatUwish4St. Augustine, Florida USA2 Threads 7,986 Posts
dazzling_dave: You mean there is still hope? And just when I was about to give up and crawl back into my cave.



Hi Dave!
wave

Not sure if I would want to live in a cave...
confused confused
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Jul 30, 2008 11:30 AM CST I Have a Question
BnaturAl
BnaturAlBnaturAlSarnia, Ontario Canada107 Threads 7 Polls 6,811 Posts
mylifewithu: Hello Everyone!! Wow , this thread has changed


wave and it wil likely change again!! laugh
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Jul 30, 2008 11:30 AM CST I Have a Question
mylifewithu
mylifewithumylifewithuSpringfield, Missouri USA174 Threads 23,670 Posts
WhatUwish4: Hi Dave!


Not sure if I would want to live in a cave...
Not with all those bats and spiders , who wouldlaugh

wave Hi Dave
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Jul 30, 2008 11:31 AM CST I Have a Question
mylifewithu
mylifewithumylifewithuSpringfield, Missouri USA174 Threads 23,670 Posts
BnaturAl: and it wil likely change again!!


wave I see you finally found something to talk about applause laugh
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Jul 30, 2008 11:32 AM CST I Have a Question
dazzling_dave
dazzling_davedazzling_daveWaynesboro, Virginia USA4 Threads 1,993 Posts
WhatUwish4: Hi Dave!


Not sure if I would want to live in a cave...


Wouldn't ask you to. I retreat to my cave when I start feeling like a hermit. I haven't allowed visitors into my cave yet.
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Jul 30, 2008 11:33 AM CST I Have a Question
BnaturAl
BnaturAlBnaturAlSarnia, Ontario Canada107 Threads 7 Polls 6,811 Posts
WhatUwish4: I wouldn't view distance as an issue in an introductory e-mail. Many people, myself included, are able and willing to move. It's not a bad thing at all. I intend to move sometime in the next two years - but haven't decided where to yet. There's nothing suspicious about that, is there?


Would depend on the reasons I guess. people who are willing to move are either one of tow things... trying to get away from something, or looking for something new. One running from, the other running to ... the former causes some suspicion for me.. dunno
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Jul 30, 2008 11:33 AM CST I Have a Question
irishlass45
irishlass45irishlass45Texas USA, Texas USA52 Threads 5 Polls 4,579 Posts
BnaturAl: But I'm too shy to put it on CS... .. What should I do?


dropping in to see if we have a question yet?applause
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