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sxc666unknown, Queensland Australia51 Threads 16,853 PostsBnaturAl: when you can get right to the meat and make a better informed decision, sooner..
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BnaturAl: thanks that might be the case I guess. A take charge sort of woman.
makes sense i guess in light of time and what not, why waste it chatting online when you can get right to the meat and make a better informed decision, sooner..
makes sense i guess in light of time and what not, why waste it chatting online when you can get right to the meat and make a better informed decision, sooner..
Depends on what you want, if you want a long term relationship, then you need to put some time in, it works, I think so.
Only you know that.
And you are in charge of whether you email her.
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Sommerauer71: Hang on, you ask the question why this lady gave you her email address in her first contact, yet your statement states that you want somebody more direct and open.
I think she was pretty direct in doing that, she liked what she saw.
God and men whine that women do not know what they want.
I think she was pretty direct in doing that, she liked what she saw.
God and men whine that women do not know what they want.
I think you've misunderstood. It is not myself that I question, though I am getting lots of advice oin that area, it is the curious nature of the mail writer that I am asking about. So far, your earlier offering qualifies as a possible answer. 
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sxc666: I don't give my phone number out to anybody for a long time.
Oh I do not give it out to anybody, two people from here, since February.
I have no problem with it, if I want to be in a relationship then I want contact.
But I can understand why some people do not.
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sxc666:
hehehe ..meat I knew that wouldn't get by you without some delectable giggle. photos to follow ...
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BnaturAl: I think you've misunderstood. It is not myself that I question, though I am getting lots of advice oin that area, it is the curious nature of the mail writer that I am asking about. So far, your earlier offering qualifies as a possible answer.
No, I have not misunderstood at all.
I do not see that the nature of her including her email is strange at all.
I think that is being open and direct.
You stated that you wanted a direct and open woman, did you not?
Which bit have I misunderstood?
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Sommerauer71: Depends on what you want, if you want a long term relationship, then you need to put some time in, it works, I think so.
Only you know that.
And you are in charge of whether you email her.
Only you know that.
And you are in charge of whether you email her.
yes I am in charge, and that has been decided in the negatory. I know what I want. I am and I repeat, curious about the 'this type' of woman.
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BnaturAl:
hehehe ..meat I knew that wouldn't get by you without some delectable giggle. photos to follow ...
You want my opinion on your meat too.hehehe ..meat I knew that wouldn't get by you without some delectable giggle. photos to follow ...
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Sommerauer71: No, I have not misunderstood at all.
I do not see that the nature of her including her email is strange at all.
I think that is being open and direct.
You stated that you wanted a direct and open woman, did you not?
Which bit have I misunderstood?
I do not see that the nature of her including her email is strange at all.
I think that is being open and direct.
You stated that you wanted a direct and open woman, did you not?
Which bit have I misunderstood?
the joke exchange between Tina and myself, as to forwardness.
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sxc666: You want my opinion on your meat too.
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just my balonga 
of course I do!!!
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BnaturAl: yes I am in charge, and that has been decided in the negatory. I know what I want. I am and I repeat, curious about the 'this type' of woman.
Well I am 'that sort of woman' so what would you like to know?
I am happy to help, if I like what i see I will include personal details.
We can have a little role play here.
I offer you my email address, you do not respond, I think well, he is not interested so therefore I may give you a nudge, again, then if nothing I would move on to the next.
Simple.
This is only role play though, remember.
So, ask away, I am that type of woman?
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BnaturAl: the joke exchange between Tina and myself, as to forwardness.
I see.
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Sommerauer71: Well I am 'that sort of woman' so what would you like to know?
I am happy to help, if I like what i see I will include personal details.
We can have a little role play here.
I offer you my email address, you do not respond, I think well, he is not interested so therefore I may give you a nudge, again, then if nothing I would move on to the next.
Simple.
This is only role play though, remember.
So, ask away, I am that type of woman?
I am happy to help, if I like what i see I will include personal details.
We can have a little role play here.
I offer you my email address, you do not respond, I think well, he is not interested so therefore I may give you a nudge, again, then if nothing I would move on to the next.
Simple.
This is only role play though, remember.
So, ask away, I am that type of woman?
kewl ! ..does this "assertiveness" manifest itself in all or any other areas of your life.
Is there a time when you feel you need to let go of the reigns and submit.
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sxc666:
you really do want to know, you're curious and wondering if you can use some her information in your own repetoire .. 
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BnaturAl:
you really do want to know, you're curious and wondering if you can use some her information in your own repetoire ..
you really do want to know, you're curious and wondering if you can use some her information in your own repetoire ..
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BnaturAl: kewl ! ..does this "assertiveness" manifest itself in all or any other areas of your life. Is there a time when you feel you need to let go of the reigns and submit.
Most areas yes, I just do not take any crap from anyone, I learnt not to. When I fell apart over the breakdown of my marriage.
But with the right man, I can become passive.
I guess my work makes me a tough nut, I have to deal with alot of men.
If I see a person I like, he is available, I see no reason to hang about. If it works, it works, if it does not then I am a fair person, I let go.
I learned from the breakdown of my marriage, that I played my part in that, because I was weak and insecure and had esteem issues, that makes it very hard for a person to love a person with those issues. I channeled those feelings with help, some tough love and some great friends around me.
Does that answer your question?
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Sommerauer71: Most areas yes, I just do not take any crap from anyone, I learnt not to. When I fell apart over the breakdown of my marriage.
But with the right man, I can become passive.
I guess my work makes me a tough nut, I have to deal with alot of men.
If I see a person I like, he is available, I see no reason to hang about. If it works, it works, if it does not then I am a fair person, I let go.
I learned from the breakdown of my marriage, that I played my part in that, because I was weak and insecure and had esteem issues, that makes it very hard for a person to love a person with those issues. I channeled those feelings with help, some tough love and some great friends around me.
Does that answer your question?
But with the right man, I can become passive.
I guess my work makes me a tough nut, I have to deal with alot of men.
If I see a person I like, he is available, I see no reason to hang about. If it works, it works, if it does not then I am a fair person, I let go.
I learned from the breakdown of my marriage, that I played my part in that, because I was weak and insecure and had esteem issues, that makes it very hard for a person to love a person with those issues. I channeled those feelings with help, some tough love and some great friends around me.
Does that answer your question?
Just trying to understand here. You've essentially said you went from 'weak' to 'tough nut' because of experiences, yes?. Does this mean you are given to extremes of either nature?
I have experienced women in a 'mans' world, and I am not by any means pidgeon holeing anyone, but my experience is that they become much 'tougher' than men in those positions. Maybe because they have to prove themselves or that they feel they do.
Do you think, being that assertive and or 'tough' scares some men off?
The converse would be men who are more passive and women finding them lacking because their tendency is to want a 'tough' man who holds their world together.
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I wouldn't view distance as an issue in an introductory e-mail. Many people, myself included, are able and willing to move. It's not a bad thing at all. I intend to move sometime in the next two years - but haven't decided where to yet. There's nothing suspicious about that, is there?
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BnaturAl:
I have experienced women in a 'mans' world, and I am not by any means pidgeon holeing anyone, but my experience is that they become much 'tougher' than men in those positions. Maybe because they have to prove themselves or that they feel they do.
I have experienced women in a 'mans' world, and I am not by any means pidgeon holeing anyone, but my experience is that they become much 'tougher' than men in those positions. Maybe because they have to prove themselves or that they feel they do.
I find this comment surprising.. Thought they gave up those concepts years ago...
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