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Jul 30, 2008 12:49 PM CST I Have a Question
Sommerauer71
Sommerauer71Sommerauer71Salzburg, Austria133 Threads 4 Polls 12,414 Posts
mylifewithu: Hey Girls I wrote a sad poem late last night, but I was tired and should've waited till today to look it over, but I didn't and posted it anyway. It's part of my healing I wanted to do. Spit it all out of me, so I could go on. Have you guys read it, kind of starts out not making sense?



Why so sad?
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Jul 30, 2008 12:50 PM CST I Have a Question
mylifewithu
mylifewithumylifewithuSpringfield, Missouri USA174 Threads 23,670 Posts
Sommerauer71: Why so sad?
Pain of breakup for someone dear to my heart. But to finish healing is to spit it out and go on.thumbs up
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Jul 30, 2008 12:54 PM CST I Have a Question
mylifewithu
mylifewithumylifewithuSpringfield, Missouri USA174 Threads 23,670 Posts
Ok where is that Rooster, us chicks would like to knowchicken chicken chicken laugh
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Jul 30, 2008 12:59 PM CST I Have a Question
ttom500
ttom500ttom500St. Cloud, Florida USA30 Threads 5 Polls 10,523 Posts
BnaturAl: Ok, I have a question now, though it is not the unintended original question for which there is no answer. The fact that some dont read the OP is something I find mildly amusing.

However, among the mail I have recieved is a 32 yr old lady from the US, about 900 miles away. I have no prejudice with regard to age but I am questioning her intent in regard to distance and her offering of her email addy in her introductory mail Being open and trustful is an admirable quality of course and something you want in a relationship. But; and here is your question. What type of woman is this?


BnaturAl......my suggestion is be non judgement until more is known.

The email is a little bit of issue. Most that advise net safety....suggest don't giving out email on first contact. But honestly, I have broken the rule and most everyone on the net has.

The red flags or total surrender can be raised or done as you learn about her.

We are all here.....trying to meet people....here is one......for what ever reason(s) (good or bad).....that is contacting you.

Just have eyes wide open.......and if the red flags raise......go from there. If they don't, the worse you have done, is made a new net friend.... and the best you could do...takes this back to last night
:-)....and by the number of replies since.....has moved well beyond that point.

How goes the ladies 50 questions?
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Jul 30, 2008 1:03 PM CST I Have a Question
Sommerauer71
Sommerauer71Sommerauer71Salzburg, Austria133 Threads 4 Polls 12,414 Posts
mylifewithu: Pain of breakup for someone dear to my heart. But to finish healing is to spit it out and go on.



Yes, it is sad, but your fragility will heal and you will mend and you will go onto love again.

I am certain of it.

gift
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Jul 30, 2008 1:05 PM CST I Have a Question
BnaturAl
BnaturAlBnaturAlSarnia, Ontario Canada107 Threads 7 Polls 6,811 Posts
ttom500: BnaturAl......my suggestion is be non judgement until more is known.

The email is a little bit of issue. Most that advise net safety....suggest don't giving out email on first contact. But honestly, I have broken the rule and most everyone on the net has.

The red flags or total surrender can be raised or done as you learn about her.

We are all here.....trying to meet people....here is one......for what ever reason(s) (good or bad).....that is contacting you.

Just have eyes wide open.......and if the red flags raise......go from there. If they don't, the worse you have done, is made a new net friend.... and the best you could do...takes this back to last night
:-)....and by the number of replies since.....has moved well beyond that point.

How goes the ladies 50 questions?


thanks ttom, the (my) descision was made for other reasons, not based on any of the issues presented. I think I noted that.. confused my question was more one of curiousity in the type of woman. .. not a 'what should I do', question, as I had already made that decision.


I do however subscribe to your advice on most occasions.

cheers
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Jul 30, 2008 1:06 PM CST I Have a Question
cardsfan24
cardsfan24cardsfan24somewhere in paradise, Illinois USA40 Threads 1 Polls 5,169 Posts
when i get nervous i itch my head and move my leg...
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Jul 30, 2008 1:07 PM CST I Have a Question
WhatUwish4
WhatUwish4WhatUwish4St. Augustine, Florida USA2 Threads 7,986 Posts
ttom500: I do....you have spent way to much time on Dude's Obama threads....you are now offically cut off.:-)




I've been cut off???? By Dude?
crying crying crying crying crying crying
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Jul 30, 2008 1:08 PM CST I Have a Question
WhatUwish4
WhatUwish4WhatUwish4St. Augustine, Florida USA2 Threads 7,986 Posts
I guess it's time to go join the m**turbation thread...
hole hole hole



laugh laugh laugh
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Jul 30, 2008 1:08 PM CST I Have a Question
mylifewithu
mylifewithumylifewithuSpringfield, Missouri USA174 Threads 23,670 Posts
Sommerauer71: Yes, it is sad, but your fragility will heal and you will mend and you will go onto love again.

I am certain of it.
Thankyou , I will never lose that hope. I have love of my family and close friends to see me thru, and if it happens great , but if not, it just wasn't meant to be. I am ok with no matter how it all turns out. cheering thumbs up handshake hug
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Jul 30, 2008 1:09 PM CST I Have a Question
Justme4uok
Justme4uokJustme4uokNorthern CA, California USA28 Threads 5,737 Posts
WhatUwish4: She probably slid right out of the womb cracking jokes...



Hey what can I say dunno SOme people were just born with the gift.gift Oh presentsyay
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Jul 30, 2008 1:09 PM CST I Have a Question
mylifewithu
mylifewithumylifewithuSpringfield, Missouri USA174 Threads 23,670 Posts
WhatUwish4: I guess it's time to go join the m**turbation thread...
laugh laugh doh
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Jul 30, 2008 1:10 PM CST I Have a Question
mylifewithu
mylifewithumylifewithuSpringfield, Missouri USA174 Threads 23,670 Posts
Justme4uok: Hey what can I say SOme people were just born with the gift. Oh presents
thumbs upYou sure were wine laugh flower
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Jul 30, 2008 1:10 PM CST I Have a Question
dazzling_dave
dazzling_davedazzling_daveWaynesboro, Virginia USA4 Threads 1,993 Posts
WhatUwish4: I guess it's time to go join the m**turbation thread...


Need a hand?
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Jul 30, 2008 1:11 PM CST I Have a Question
WhatUwish4
WhatUwish4WhatUwish4St. Augustine, Florida USA2 Threads 7,986 Posts
dazzling_dave: Need a hand?



rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing

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Jul 30, 2008 1:13 PM CST I Have a Question
BnaturAl
BnaturAlBnaturAlSarnia, Ontario Canada107 Threads 7 Polls 6,811 Posts
dazzling_dave: Need a hand?


rolling on the floor laughing that would require moving dave laugh
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Jul 30, 2008 1:14 PM CST I Have a Question
dazzling_dave
dazzling_davedazzling_daveWaynesboro, Virginia USA4 Threads 1,993 Posts
BnaturAl: that would require moving dave


Some things are worth the effort.
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Jul 30, 2008 1:15 PM CST I Have a Question
mylifewithu
mylifewithumylifewithuSpringfield, Missouri USA174 Threads 23,670 Posts
dazzling_dave: Some things are worth the effort.
laugh laugh
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Jul 30, 2008 1:16 PM CST I Have a Question
BnaturAl
BnaturAlBnaturAlSarnia, Ontario Canada107 Threads 7 Polls 6,811 Posts
dazzling_dave: Some things are worth the effort.


laugh

well dont let me stand in the way of your ummm 'things' wink
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Jul 30, 2008 1:19 PM CST I Have a Question
Sommerauer71
Sommerauer71Sommerauer71Salzburg, Austria133 Threads 4 Polls 12,414 Posts
mylifewithu: Thankyou , I will never lose that hope. I have love of my family and close friends to see me thru, and if it happens great , but if not, it just wasn't meant to be. I am ok with no matter how it all turns out.


I was where you are now over a year ago and I thought my soul had been ripped out.

Now, I am on the brink of a new relationship, a healed and much better person.

heart wings
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