Acceptable and Not Acceptable Weakness ! (49)
cardsfan24: Well, i have been both the responsible one and then i have been the person who drank his money awya, so i like to ask the difference y aknow??
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I dated a man several years ago, and I would spend the whole weekend with him, but he spent most of his free time on the computer while I was there.
That was unacceptable to me, I wouldn't mind if it was a couple hours, but all day, Ugh!!
In a relationship more time needs to be with your mate not the computer.
That was unacceptable to me, I wouldn't mind if it was a couple hours, but all day, Ugh!!
In a relationship more time needs to be with your mate not the computer.
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cardsfan24: Not meaning to argue or anything like that bro, just curious, but why financially? be a weakness??
Hi Stew
I cannot speak for Ambrose, but I could not be with a person who was financially irresponsible.
It just does not work for me, I can cope with a spender, as long as he has it, I can cope with a frugal man as long as he is open about it, but lack of responsibility shows me that a person has no self control or respect.
I see my earnings and what I have achieved, as a priviledge and I would not allow that to be washed away.
So I would not want a person who is massively in debt.
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cardsfan24: Not meaning to argue or anything like that bro, just curious, but why financially? be a weakness??
Because they can never be counted on financially and the reason they are STILL financially irresponsible at their age is because they have always had SOMEONE in their life who had bailed them out ... Guess what? Your next!!!
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FlowerOfTheSun: Because they can never be counted on financially and the reason they are STILL financially irresponsible at their age is because they have always had SOMEONE in their life who had bailed them out ... Guess what? Your next!!!
Absolutely.
I see it as a lack of control, I like control. Same as fidelity, cleanliness and gorgeous to boot.
I like a person who is passionate about music, and dancing and can dance, not to raves ina nightclub, but real dancing.
There are many traits to a person's character, strengths and weaknesses, I am a pretty tolerant person, I just do not take any crap, I can take most things.
So weakenessess and strengths I accept. Apart from the ones I have mentioned!
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If you can see your own wrongs your lucky, for now you can do something about them. (My dad)
You can not change what you won't aknowledge. (Dr. Phil)
Yes I see my own weeknesses but can see them in others too.
Don't always like this though.
Can be critish at times.
It all depends when loving someone I can overlook a lot.
You know the saying; Love is blind? NO, love Makes blind.
You can not change what you won't aknowledge. (Dr. Phil)
Yes I see my own weeknesses but can see them in others too.
Don't always like this though.
Can be critish at times.
It all depends when loving someone I can overlook a lot.
You know the saying; Love is blind? NO, love Makes blind.
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Sommerauer71: Absolutely.
I see it as a lack of control, I like control. Same as fidelity, cleanliness and gorgeous to boot.
I like a person who is passionate about music, and dancing and can dance, not to raves ina nightclub, but real dancing.
There are many traits to a person's character, strengths and weaknesses, I am a pretty tolerant person, I just do not take any crap, I can take most things.
So weakenessess and strengths I accept. Apart from the ones I have mentioned!
I see it as a lack of control, I like control. Same as fidelity, cleanliness and gorgeous to boot.
I like a person who is passionate about music, and dancing and can dance, not to raves ina nightclub, but real dancing.
There are many traits to a person's character, strengths and weaknesses, I am a pretty tolerant person, I just do not take any crap, I can take most things.
So weakenessess and strengths I accept. Apart from the ones I have mentioned!
So who leads when you dance? 
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hollandgirl: If you can see your own wrongs your lucky, for now you can do something about them. (My dad)
You can not change what you won't aknowledge. (Dr. Phil)
Yes I see my own weeknesses but can see them in others too.
Don't always like this though.
Can be critish at times.
It all depends when loving someone I can overlook a lot.
You know the saying; Love is blind? NO, love Makes blind.
You can not change what you won't aknowledge. (Dr. Phil)
Yes I see my own weeknesses but can see them in others too.
Don't always like this though.
Can be critish at times.
It all depends when loving someone I can overlook a lot.
You know the saying; Love is blind? NO, love Makes blind.
Dr, Phil stole a lot of his 'aphorisms' from Walt Disney ...serious, watch Cinderella, you'll hear his famous, "do you want to be right or happy" ... the one you mentioned, I think comes from Bambi, but I could be wrong about that, its been awhile. He's getting rich off of cartoon sense.
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FlowerOfTheSun: So who leads when you dance?
Hello lovely.
The man.
Because I like control in him.
Hope all; is well with you and your family and Gongman.
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Sommerauer71: And what about him darling?
Well that's what your suppose to answer...i mean, i am financially screwed...does that mean im a bad person??------ This thread is Archived ------
mylifewithu: In your ideal situation, what weaknesses are acceptable and not acceptable?
I was asked this question by a man I am talking to and it sounds like a good discussion to have here.My answer to him was:
Without specifics, the only way I can answer this is,
I think the weaknesses are something we accept in another so long as they are not things that cross lines such as cheating etc.
I would want my mate to accept my weaknesses, so long as my actions aren't crossing lines also.
I was asked this question by a man I am talking to and it sounds like a good discussion to have here.My answer to him was:
Without specifics, the only way I can answer this is,
I think the weaknesses are something we accept in another so long as they are not things that cross lines such as cheating etc.
I would want my mate to accept my weaknesses, so long as my actions aren't crossing lines also.
"In my opinion weakness's are just other forms of baggage we collect during our Waltz thru' life".
Weakness's wouldn't be so hard for me to deal with,
if I wasn't always,
so high,
upon a mountain,
when I fall.
T.D.
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I just cant get to accepting someone who has an alcohol addiction as a partner. I wont be able to. I thus have immense respect for teetotallers and people who have quit.
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riyablossom: Thats True. But i would find it very difficult to handle it.
I feel the same Riya, I have dealt with ones that drink all the time, it's no fun. But ocassional use I can, if they don't become meaner or argumentive while using it. Also don't have memory problems with it's use, it's hard to put up with those kind often saying " I never said that ".
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I never said that..
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cardsfan24: I never said that..
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riyablossom: Thats True. But i would find it very difficult to handle it.
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Sommerauer71: Hello lovely.
The man.
Because I like control in him.
Hope all; is well with you and your family and Gongman.
The man.
Because I like control in him.
Hope all; is well with you and your family and Gongman.
Yeah!! All great here. My son (20 yrs old) came to stay for 10 days and had a fabulous time. Him and Gman get on like a house on fire!!! Which means we all enjoyed doing stuff together!!
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mylifewithu: I feel the same Riya, I have dealt with ones that drink all the time, it's no fun.
But ocassional use I can, if they don't become meaner or argumentive while using it. Also don't have memory problems with it's use, it's hard to put up with those kind often saying " I never said that ".
But ocassional use I can, if they don't become meaner or argumentive while using it. Also don't have memory problems with it's use, it's hard to put up with those kind often saying " I never said that ".
For that matter its difficult for me to handle smoking even .. i guess i might have to settle for not finding anyone then ..
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Riya i guess im off your check list..
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Also one that claims they paid a bill until you find out with a bad notice , nope they didn't and blew the money on something unneeded.