Acceptable and Not Acceptable Weakness ! (49)
Everybody has weakness it's just up to us to choose whether to see them or keep are rose-colored glasses on...
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cardsfan24: Everybody has weakness it's just up to us to choose whether to see them or keep are rose-colored glasses on...
Very True we do and most things aren't that important to be seen as a problem, not to me anyway.
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cardsfan24: Everybody has weakness it's just up to us to choose whether to see them or keep are rose-colored glasses on...
Agreed.------ This thread is Archived ------
I do not call them weaknessess.
I call them quirks.
I call them quirks.
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Sommerauer71: I do not call them weaknessess.
I call them quirks.
I call them quirks.
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But i know what you really mean, you want us to answer your question, what weakness's can i handle and which i ccan't right?
I can't handle the weakness i guess that she can't trust me...
I can handle she wants me all to her self....
I can't handle the weakness i guess that she can't trust me...
I can handle she wants me all to her self....
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mylifewithu: In your ideal situation, what weaknesses are acceptable and not acceptable?
I was asked this question by a man I am talking to and it sounds like a good discussion to have here.My answer to him was:
Without specifics, the only way I can answer this is,
I think the weaknesses are something we accept in another so long as they are not things that cross lines such as cheating etc.
I would want my mate to accept my weaknesses, so long as my actions aren't crossing lines also.
I was asked this question by a man I am talking to and it sounds like a good discussion to have here.My answer to him was:
Without specifics, the only way I can answer this is,
I think the weaknesses are something we accept in another so long as they are not things that cross lines such as cheating etc.
I would want my mate to accept my weaknesses, so long as my actions aren't crossing lines also.
I feel that not being able to bench press over 300 lbs. or squat over 500 lbs. are acceptable weaknesses...
Seriously, an acceptable weakness is simply something you can live with (in either your partner or yourself). Everyone - obviously - has different tolerances. For me, unacceptable "weaknesses" (undesirable behaviors) include infidelity, demeaning words or actions, or irresponsibility (financial or otherwise).
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cardsfan24: But i know what you really mean, you want us to answer your question, what weakness's can i handle and which i ccan't right?
I can't handle the weakness i guess that she can't trust me...
I can handle she wants me all to her self....
I can't handle the weakness i guess that she can't trust me...
I can handle she wants me all to her self....
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I think most people fail to see their own weaknesses, therefore have very little tolerance for other's weaknesses
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Ambrose2007: I feel that not being able to bench press over 300 lbs. or squat over 500 lbs. are acceptable weaknesses...
Seriously, an acceptable weakness is simply something you can live with (in either your partner or yourself). Everyone - obviously - has different tolerances. For me, unacceptable "weaknesses" (undesirable behaviors) include infidelity, demeaning words or actions, or irresponsibility (financial or otherwise).
Not meaning to argue or anything like that bro, just curious, but why financially? be a weakness??Seriously, an acceptable weakness is simply something you can live with (in either your partner or yourself). Everyone - obviously - has different tolerances. For me, unacceptable "weaknesses" (undesirable behaviors) include infidelity, demeaning words or actions, or irresponsibility (financial or otherwise).
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shipoker58: I think most people fail to see their own weaknesses, therefore have very little tolerance for other's weaknesses
I have found that to be true Ship, and if anyone says anything to them about it even nicely , those people become angry
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This is hard for me to answer in writing and shortly.I can accept weakness that man can not overcome,if he works on trying to make it better great.I have mine also that he would have to accept.It's hard to sa in generality.So much easier to answer alot n here if specific person I am referering to.Then I quess I wouldn't be here though
I love my friends here,but if I commit with someone we would have to agree on whether or not either could still have pals on here.
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cardsfan24: Not meaning to argue or anything like that bro, just curious, but why financially? be a weakness??
I know what he means there I believe, my ex was allowed to be a user on my credit cards and he maxed them out, so he financially destroyed his partner who had all the credit.------ This thread is Archived ------
I think another weakness could be, if one is lazy and throws things every where and doesn't help to pick up. But the other is left to do it all.
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mylifewithu: I know what he means there I believe, my ex was allowed to be a user on my credit cards and he maxed them out, so he financially destroyed his partner who had all the credit.
ohhh ok, thanks for explainin, i was just curious..------ This thread is Archived ------
shipoker58: I think most people fail to see their own weaknesses, therefore have very little tolerance for other's weaknesses
I have a friend that is really big about pointing out her own weaknesses and then really doesn't do anything about them.
Though she says she is. I know may weaknesses, and I try to work on them, but that darn cup of coffee and pastry at 10:00pm is so tempting,
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cardsfan24: Not meaning to argue or anything like that bro, just curious, but why financially? be a weakness??
How one handles money says a lot about a person, I think - it's really a critical element of how we manage our lives. I'm not saying that being less than wealthy is somehow irresponsible - I'm saying that being responsible means using what we have sensibly...for example, if you make $40 K a year, you probably shouldn't run up a $100K credit card debt, right?
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cardsfan24: ohhh ok, thanks for explainin, i was just curious..
He may have a different answer, but for me this is my experience.Also one that claims they paid a bill until you find out with a bad notice , nope they didn't and blew the money on something unneeded.
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Ambrose2007: How one handles money says a lot about a person, I think - it's really a critical element of how we manage our lives. I'm not saying that being less than wealthy is somehow irresponsible - I'm saying that being responsible means using what we have sensibly...for example, if you make $40 K a year, you probably shouldn't run up a $100K credit card debt, right?
I see what ya mean now, i was just curious...thanks....and your right, don't spend more than ya make...------ This thread is Archived ------
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I was asked this question by a man I am talking to and it sounds like a good discussion to have here.
My answer to him was:
Without specifics, the only way I can answer this is,
I think the weaknesses are something we accept in another so long as they are not things that cross lines such as cheating etc.
I would want my mate to accept my weaknesses, so long as my actions aren't crossing lines also.