why do we divorce (97)
coolieno1point fortin, Point Fortin Trinidad and Tobago96 Threads 546 Postsgoodnight ppl of cs tonight put all fun aside on this forum plz a few days ago a couple came into the place where i worked an started arguing with them came there 2 beautiful young daughters these girls were crying because there parents were divorced an the woman came to get a restraining order against her husband i don't want to go into details but my heart went out to those innocent children many of us in here are single but wat about those who were divorced what happen to that bond why do marriages fall apart that's the question ?
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coolieno1: goodnight ppl of cs tonight put all fun aside on this forum plz a few days ago a couple came into the place where i worked an started arguing with them came there 2 beautiful young daughters these girls were crying because there parents were divorced an the woman came to get a restraining order against her husband i don't want to go into details but my heart went out to those innocent children many of us in here are single but wat about those who were divorced what happen to that bond why do marriages fall apart that's the question ?
Because there are too many people getting married, that is why the divorce rate is so high.------ This thread is Archived ------
Sommerauer71: Because there are too many people getting married, that is why the divorce rate is so high.
ya must be kiddin
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Sommerauer71: Because there are too many people getting married, that is why the divorce rate is so high.
i totally agree wit u there ar many young people getting married for the wrong reasons------ This thread is Archived ------
pyaremohan: ya must be kiddin
Do I sound like I am kidding R?
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Sommerauer71: Do I sound like I am kidding R?
Oi, thought you where going to bed 'cause you where whacked
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Sommerauer71: Do I sound like I am kidding R?
that means divorces n marriages r directly proportional .means no of marriages =no of divorces .which is not the case ....... i thought u were kiddin
r ua anti marriage 
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pyaremohan: I agree.never been married but think u r right
Never been divored but I don't know if I'm right or not,I'm just guessing.
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pyaremohan: ya must be kiddin
rahul bhai in my line of work i have seen 2 many young couples separate an children are always involved bhai that's the hard part------ This thread is Archived ------
coolieno1: rahul bhai in my line of work i have seen 2 many young couples separate an children are always involved bhai that's the hard part
u r right thats really sad
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somechick: Never been divored but I don't know if I'm right or not,I'm just guessing.
.i have noticed that u r very sweet n really very honest on posts 
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I have severed two relationships in my life and that is enough for me. Three children now suffer for this action but it would only have gotten worse if I didn't terminate the relationships.
Imagine every day at work having your children dropped off so your significant other can go out to her friends and the bars to party up the life she suddenly believes she missed out on. Two years of this and the children only aged well enough to ask where mom was every night? No infidelity (until the last few months) but plenty of drugs and alcohol.
Or imagine coming home from a 12 hour shift (at least twice a week) to find a party going on in your home. Your children look into your face and ask what's for supper at 7:00PM. You ask them what they had to eat all day and they show you some candy bags and wrappers. The parties get worse and suddenly you are the sole caregiver for a half dozen relatives who have conveniently moved themselves in. No incomes, but more bad habits than you can shake a stick at.
Hindsight is 20/20 but if I could have lived this in reverse I would most assuredly have not had any children.
In my case drugs and alcohol were the direct cause. And I still hurt for my children to this very day. You'd think these women would need a free 'baby sitter' once in a while, but they refuse any and all access to my children until I bring them to court, then they comply for a few months until it all begins again.
I feel for all the children in sorry situations like this. Just grateful to see others who have separated, manage some civility and sense. The only ones who can prophit or lose from this are the children.
Imagine every day at work having your children dropped off so your significant other can go out to her friends and the bars to party up the life she suddenly believes she missed out on. Two years of this and the children only aged well enough to ask where mom was every night? No infidelity (until the last few months) but plenty of drugs and alcohol.
Or imagine coming home from a 12 hour shift (at least twice a week) to find a party going on in your home. Your children look into your face and ask what's for supper at 7:00PM. You ask them what they had to eat all day and they show you some candy bags and wrappers. The parties get worse and suddenly you are the sole caregiver for a half dozen relatives who have conveniently moved themselves in. No incomes, but more bad habits than you can shake a stick at.
Hindsight is 20/20 but if I could have lived this in reverse I would most assuredly have not had any children.
In my case drugs and alcohol were the direct cause. And I still hurt for my children to this very day. You'd think these women would need a free 'baby sitter' once in a while, but they refuse any and all access to my children until I bring them to court, then they comply for a few months until it all begins again.
I feel for all the children in sorry situations like this. Just grateful to see others who have separated, manage some civility and sense. The only ones who can prophit or lose from this are the children.
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phoenix: Oi, thought you where going to bed 'cause you where whacked
Folks, allow me to introduce you to my FATHER?
I was talking!
I thought you had gone to bed.
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Sommerauer71: Folks, allow me to introduce you to my FATHER?
I was talking!
I thought you had gone to bed.
I was talking!
I thought you had gone to bed.
i guess am next in line .plz spare me Trac......
hi martin hows tara doing
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pyaremohan: that means divorces n marriages r directly proportional .means no of marriages =no of divorces .which is not the case ....... i thought u were kiddin r ua anti marriage
back at you. No, I am not anti marriage at all, but it makes sense R, too many people are getting married, so therefore the divorce is high.
Less people wed, less divorces. You know me and figures, and what a cow I am for them.
We get divorced because it is easy, getting married is easy
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pyaremohan: i guess am next in line .plz spare me Trac...... hi martin hows tara doing
I will, bless him.
He knows I adore him.
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pyaremohan: .i have noticed that u r very sweet n really very honest on posts
Awww Thank you.
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I have severed two relationships in my life and that is enough for me. Three children now suffer for this action but it would only have gotten worse if I didn't terminate the relationships.
Imagine every day at work having your children dropped off so your significant other can go out to her friends and the bars to party up the life she suddenly believes she missed out on. Two years of this and the children only aged well enough to ask where mom was every night? No infidelity (until the last few months) but plenty of drugs and alcohol.
Or imagine coming home from a 12 hour shift (at least twice a week) to find a party going on in your home. Your children look into your face and ask what's for supper at 7:00PM. You ask them what they had to eat all day and they show you some candy bags and wrappers. The parties get worse and suddenly you are the sole caregiver for a half dozen relatives who have conveniently moved themselves in. No incomes, but more bad habits than you can shake a stick at.
Hindsight is 20/20 but if I could have lived this in reverse I would most assuredly have not had any children.
In my case drugs and alcohol were the direct cause. And I still hurt for my children to this very day. You'd think these women would need a free 'baby sitter' once in a while, but they refuse any and all access to my children until I bring them to court, then they comply for a few months until it all begins again.
I feel for all the children in sorry situations like this. Just grateful to see others who have separated, manage some civility and sense. The only ones who can prophit or lose from this are the children.[/quote
Some people have no idea do they?
Imagine every day at work having your children dropped off so your significant other can go out to her friends and the bars to party up the life she suddenly believes she missed out on. Two years of this and the children only aged well enough to ask where mom was every night? No infidelity (until the last few months) but plenty of drugs and alcohol.
Or imagine coming home from a 12 hour shift (at least twice a week) to find a party going on in your home. Your children look into your face and ask what's for supper at 7:00PM. You ask them what they had to eat all day and they show you some candy bags and wrappers. The parties get worse and suddenly you are the sole caregiver for a half dozen relatives who have conveniently moved themselves in. No incomes, but more bad habits than you can shake a stick at.
Hindsight is 20/20 but if I could have lived this in reverse I would most assuredly have not had any children.
In my case drugs and alcohol were the direct cause. And I still hurt for my children to this very day. You'd think these women would need a free 'baby sitter' once in a while, but they refuse any and all access to my children until I bring them to court, then they comply for a few months until it all begins again.
I feel for all the children in sorry situations like this. Just grateful to see others who have separated, manage some civility and sense. The only ones who can prophit or lose from this are the children.[/quote
Some people have no idea do they?
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Sommerauer71: Folks, allow me to introduce you to my FATHER?
I was talking!
I thought you had gone to bed.
I was talking!
I thought you had gone to bed.
Excuse me folks..I am following this thread but I feel it is my duty to respond to the above question....
There's nuffin around, I even sniffed around the irish thread dead as a doughnut..Then again it's Monday/Tuesday.. probably pick up during the week..
Good thread coolieno
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coolieno1: goodnight ppl of cs tonight put all fun aside on this forum plz a few days ago a couple came into the place where i worked an started arguing with them came there 2 beautiful young daughters these girls were crying because there parents were divorced an the woman came to get a restraining order against her husband i don't want to go into details but my heart went out to those innocent children many of us in here are single but wat about those who were divorced what happen to that bond why do marriages fall apart that's the question ?
Oh man, there are a multitude of reasons for this...
The divorces started happening in the 60's and 70's.
Ever since then, it's been a steady progression. It's been a rough transition period that is still going on. Like I said, there are a multitude of reasons for this, and it starts with the individual.
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