funnyjames: I'm enuf confused now,,....I've never been on look out for a foreign woman for marriage to leave this country............the only advantage i see with them is that on any dating site profiles of american and women from the west are in abundance not many women from my couyntry are here....................
2) I am not a party animal dont socialize a lot so me meeting gals is ruled out........
wish there are more dating sites...with more profiles of indian women....being shy/ reserved kinda guy I like to meet a girl first on such platforms and talk now them better and see ho it progresses form there.......
My daughter dated a young Indian man. His mother didn't like her, even though she went to church with him (Catholic) and even painted his mother's house.
My white daughter was not good enough. Only her grand-mothers had a problem. She was crazy about him, and her parents liked him. She broke up with him, after 3 years.
She started dating another guy, getting married next month. She's been with him for over two years. I liked the ex, better, except for the Mother's insistence that he date an Indian girl.
funnyjames: in my 30 years I have never been in a relationship with a woman , I have never been close to gilrs, these days I feel a vacuum, which has to be filled by a lady, but confused how to approach a girl, start an interesting conversation and get it going, how to make in roads into a womans heart.........any ideas please?
Your parents haven't lined you up with dates?
If you choose to date on your own, it's not hard. Ask a lady to dinner, make conversation. Ask what she likes, then talk about that.
I had a blind date and we went to an Indian restaurant. I didn't know anything about the food. We ordered mixed stuff and he explained dishes.
(I kept running to the bathroom to blow my nose, because the food was spicy!)
In between me blowing my nose in the ladies' room, and courses, we got to know one another. We went to a jazz joint, afterwards.
I've had worse dates.
We stayed in a motel because of snow. After breakfast, and another chat, I went home.
If it hadn't been a blizzard, I would have left the night before. We talked about his son, music, his marriage and how his son needed a mother. As soon as the snow was cleared, I was gone.
cristinaLisbon, North Holland Netherlands17,243 posts
funnyjames: in my 30 years I have never been in a relationship with a woman , I have never been close to gilrs, these days I feel a vacuum, which has to be filled by a lady, but confused how to approach a girl, start an interesting conversation and get it going, how to make in roads into a womans heart.........any ideas please?
I remember that! Now it's clear
Don't be too evasive as assuming things if she says "NO". Respect her opinions, her freedom of choice, will. Which you've shown many times not to able to do. Learn that. If you are too persistent , that's a crime
I think you should be very gentle...that is something you should work within yourself more than conveying it. Otherwise in 5 minutes you will blow. Try to understand and accept how she feels about everything! So, take her to a movie or else and ask her what she thought about it. Listen carefully and then opinate without taring her down. If you want better opinions, find a better brain and don't go for limited girl in order to make you seem more interesting.
I don't know. Do you go out much? If you don't, then how are you ever going to get a girl?
It's good if:
1. You take her OUT on the first date. 2. Spoil the woman sometimes (I like being spoiled). 3. Call her up almost everyday (to let her know that you still like her and still like to see her again). 4. Don't be late for anything. 5. Take her out to somewhere fun and exciting. 6. Go to a romantic dinner at a really nice restuarant. 7. Cook for her on the 2nd or 3rd date (she'll love that too). 8. Keep your place immaculant (very clean).
I don't know about other women, but these are things that definitely will win my heart to someone.
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Surprise me with a picnic and a stroll in the woods. Treat me as the lady that I am.
So we have a date then?