funnyjamesOPtexas, District of Columbia USA313 posts
in my 30 years I have never been in a relationship with a woman , I have never been close to gilrs, these days I feel a vacuum, which has to be filled by a lady, but confused how to approach a girl, start an interesting conversation and get it going, how to make in roads into a womans heart.........any ideas please?
funnyjames: in my 30 years I have never been in a relationship with a woman , I have never been close to gilrs, these days I feel a vacuum, which has to be filled by a lady, but confused how to approach a girl, start an interesting conversation and get it going, how to make in roads into a womans heart.........any ideas please?
FUNNYjames... are you being serious or not?
Now, not exactly the way to a woman's HEART.....but you said YOU feel like a vacuum waiting to be filled by a lady......bit backward there lad.......try changing that round so the lady is the vacuum waiting to be filled by you!!!
SORRY LADIES ,YOU AREN'T, BUT HE 'S GOING WRONG SOMEWHERE!!!
funnyjames: in my 30 years I have never been in a relationship with a woman , I have never been close to gilrs, these days I feel a vacuum, which has to be filled by a lady, but confused how to approach a girl, start an interesting conversation and get it going, how to make in roads into a womans heart.........any ideas please?
alabamabebeBanks of the Warrior River, Alabama USA4,404 posts
Did you not have a mother, sisters, aunts, cousins, anything female you ever had a conversation with? If so, why not just treat any other girl the same way. If not, after 30 years it's probably too late to start now.
funnyjames: in my 30 years I have never been in a relationship with a woman , I have never been close to gilrs, these days I feel a vacuum, which has to be filled by a lady, but confused how to approach a girl, start an interesting conversation and get it going, how to make in roads into a womans heart.........any ideas please?
30 years without knowing a woman??
how can you say this vacuum"has to be filled by a lady"?
a lady is a much more refined model of a woman... my advice is get a woman first then if you enjoy "a woman"then maybe, just maybe you might enjoy a lady filling this vacuum you have.
how can you say this vacuum"has to be filled by a lady"?
a lady is a much more refined model of a woman... my advice is get a woman first then if you enjoy "a woman"then maybe, just maybe you might enjoy a lady filling this vacuum you have.
I don't think you caught his drift fireliter....so he feels destiny....let him be...
livinglarge: The guy said he is 30 years of age , NOT that he has been looking for a love for 30 years !! Big difference , we all have started out at one stage
Right! It is never too late to start. I think the early abstinence will give solid foundation for starting. Good luck man.
I have talked to this guy. He is quite bright and according to him having a very hard time and would like to get over to America. He is looking for a wife.
livinglargein a good place, Kildare Ireland5,879 posts
I am sure if he tries to take advantage of a woman on CS to get him in2 America , he would be told to get lost ! He cannot take advantage unless some1 allows him to. JMO
livinglarge: I am sure if he tries to take advantage of a woman on CS to get him in2 America , he would be told to get lost ! He cannot take advantage unless some1 allows him to. JMO
That is true and I did tell him that I wouldn't talk to him anymore. Nevertheless I did talk to him as I talk to all kinds of people. There are many people all over the world in very desperate situations that are trying to find a way to a better place. I most likely would too if I was in their position.
funnyjames: in my 30 years I have never been in a relationship with a woman , I have never been close to gilrs, these days I feel a vacuum, which has to be filled by a lady, but confused how to approach a girl, start an interesting conversation and get it going, how to make in roads into a womans heart.........any ideas please?
Add her name to all bank accounts and give her free reign with all credit cards..
livinglargein a good place, Kildare Ireland5,879 posts
Dawn7z: That is true and I did tell him that I wouldn't talk to him anymore. Nevertheless I did talk to him as I talk to all kinds of people. There are many people all over the world in very desperate situations that are trying to find a way to a better place. I most likely would too if I was in their position.
Yes thats true , it is hard for folk , but the method to get in2 a country cannot be by feighing love or friendship
I will give u a very honest opinion .. ( cos u asked for one )
There is no set road to winning a womans heart. You got to be you and try to be what u would want from her . Its never a one sided affair.
To be able to get what u desire , u got to reflect the same in yourself.
Most women from any country , race or culture would look for certain basic qualities in a man like trust , sincerity , affection and the ability to take the up's and down's in his stride , to say the least. To think i am this and i need this never helps if one is seeking love cos love is a connection of the soul where a lot of things when on that road .. you tend to accomodate naturally.
I think the best way to go about it is by not thinking this is what you are going to do .. like i am going to find a girl .. but be casual and keep your heart and mind open. Thats when the strongest of connections happen. If its something that you want to put your heart and soul in , thats the way to go about it, i think.
Besides its also important for one to remember that some people are just not meant to be the one ... like out of the league ... you may enjoy their company etc but still not feel the way u would for a partner.
So ... hop on the ride and see where it takes you being careful not to be too scared or over enthusiastic ..
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