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CHIP398Huntley, Illinois USA21 Threads 27 PostsLadies I've been trying this internet dating for almost six years now .I've tried hoessty,sending those virtual flowers.Please check out my profile and see whats wrong.I've dated a few ladies.even one african american .She did not even mind my disability .Whatdo you able bodied ladies and even you disabled ladies want in a man????????????????????????I'm not rich,handsome .I can't dance or go bowling.I don't mind if a lady is a doll or just someone nice.I don't reallywant obese (is that wrong.I don't mind a little nit but just not a lot.Please help.I'm looking between 40 and 65 .I that wrong as well????Guys maybe you also have some ideas.Maybe I'm to naive and to square,I don' drink,do drugs or ever cheat.I'm not into those one nighters or weeekend flings..Idon't mind going out but I also don't mind staying in either .Thanks for your advice and reading my profile.Ladies is it wrong for me to expect you ladies to move???Have a good day.Chip398.Ps .Is my spelling any better.
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I don't know if it would help if you told what your disability is?
Your not getting any responses to your cry for help, I don't know why as the people here are overal a caring bunch.
If your not good at spelling write your profile in your email if you have spell check there.
Then copy and paste bringing it over here in your profile.
Hope I could help you a little.
Your not getting any responses to your cry for help, I don't know why as the people here are overal a caring bunch.
If your not good at spelling write your profile in your email if you have spell check there.
Then copy and paste bringing it over here in your profile.
Hope I could help you a little.
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OK, I just got some good advice on mine and made some changes tonight, so I'll see if I can help you.
1. I would not put in your profile about having a disability. Just about wanting to be accepted for you (we all want that so everyone can relate). I would tell a woman about it early on if she seems sincere. Honestly, if someone likes you for you, that won't matter, but get them there first.
2. I would also take out the part about wanting someone to relocate to you. If it gets that serious, she probably will anyway. I know you're being honest, but that's too much in the profile for "in the beginning".
3. I would add the part about "I don't drink, I don't do drugs and I don't cheat."
4. Talk on the Forums. It's fun and you meet great people. Seems to me that the success stories I've seen on here met that way and became friends first.
5. Update. If you've been on here for 6 years, then it's been more than 3 yrs since you lost your wife to cancer.
Hope I've helped...and hope making some of these changes helps you. And see what others suggest after reviewing your profile. I think it's awfully brave to come on and ask.
1. I would not put in your profile about having a disability. Just about wanting to be accepted for you (we all want that so everyone can relate). I would tell a woman about it early on if she seems sincere. Honestly, if someone likes you for you, that won't matter, but get them there first.
2. I would also take out the part about wanting someone to relocate to you. If it gets that serious, she probably will anyway. I know you're being honest, but that's too much in the profile for "in the beginning".
3. I would add the part about "I don't drink, I don't do drugs and I don't cheat."
4. Talk on the Forums. It's fun and you meet great people. Seems to me that the success stories I've seen on here met that way and became friends first.
5. Update. If you've been on here for 6 years, then it's been more than 3 yrs since you lost your wife to cancer.
Hope I've helped...and hope making some of these changes helps you. And see what others suggest after reviewing your profile. I think it's awfully brave to come on and ask.
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Btw, your age range is fine for your age(to me, anyway).
Hey, Jen...I'm sure others will respond. We were just the fastest readers of his profile!
Hey, Jen...I'm sure others will respond. We were just the fastest readers of his profile!
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Hey Chip, 
your still on my friends list!!!Thought you left sight.I agree with Hollandgirl,share at least an idea of what disability you have,you have had dates,many men on here totally able bodied havn't had a date,s just be you and know you have had more then many of us.Write me,been along time.
your still on my friends list!!!Thought you left sight.I agree with Hollandgirl,share at least an idea of what disability you have,you have had dates,many men on here totally able bodied havn't had a date,s just be you and know you have had more then many of us.Write me,been along time.------ This thread is Archived ------
druidess6308: Btw, your age range is fine for your age(to me, anyway).
Hey, Jen...I'm sure others will respond. We were just the fastest readers of his profile!
Hey, Jen...I'm sure others will respond. We were just the fastest readers of his profile!
As I told, the people on here are mostly a caring bunch.
It is difficult to advise I feel about the disability.
Well help was asked about the profile and you gave it.
This thread was moving and no one was responding so I gave
it a kick up.
Yes hope more are going to respond now.
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Hi Chip,
I checked out your profile and what you said in this post, maybe with the disability you should state it, maybe some ladies don't want to ask thinking they may be rude. The part about relocating maybe should be left out, it gives the woman the feeling that she has to move. Maybe you will meet a woman and be willing to move to her, but either way it's to early to think about. jmo...The rest looks perfect you look like a good guy.
I checked out your profile and what you said in this post, maybe with the disability you should state it, maybe some ladies don't want to ask thinking they may be rude. The part about relocating maybe should be left out, it gives the woman the feeling that she has to move. Maybe you will meet a woman and be willing to move to her, but either way it's to early to think about. jmo...The rest looks perfect you look like a good guy.
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nomindgames: Hey Chip, your still on my friends list!!!Thought you left sight.I agree with Hollandgirl,share at least an idea of what disability you have,you have had dates,many men on here totally able bodied havn't had a date,s just be you and know you have had more then many of us.Write me,been along time.
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nomindgames: Hey Chip, your still on my friends list!!!Thought you left sight.I agree with Hollandgirl,share at least an idea of what disability you have,you have had dates,many men on here totally able bodied havn't had a date,s just be you and know you have had more then many of us.Write me,been along time.
Good to see you have friends here already.
Keep being visable!
If not getting a date at least you will make friends here.
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The path to true love is not easy. Just hang in there keep asking people out. Have you tried others sites as well? Do you belong to any social clubs, go to church, have any interest in taking classes that might put in contact with women? Start out being friends with someone first maybe find those with the same interests that you have. Just keep putting yourself out there. Good luck
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That would be the other option, to state the disability. It might not be a turn-off to some.
And NMG had a point...that if you've had dates, you're not doing all that bad. Just hang in there. When it's meant to be, it will be.
Updating and keeping things fresh is a good idea, though.
And NMG had a point...that if you've had dates, you're not doing all that bad. Just hang in there. When it's meant to be, it will be.
Updating and keeping things fresh is a good idea, though.
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Dawn7z: The path to true love is not easy. Just hang in there keep asking people out. Have you tried others sites as well? Do you belong to any social clubs, go to church, have any interest in taking classes that might put in contact with women? Start out being friends with someone first maybe find those with the same interests that you have. Just keep putting yourself out there. Good luck
Good advise and it is for all of us really.
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mastic55: Did you have to bring up that I had no dates.
Real slick to get that one in huh.
Called hinting?
It may work lets see and wait.
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OK, I just got some good advice on mine and made some changes tonight, so I'll see if I can help you.
I haven't looked at your profile but I have highlighted some things I agree with here and given some of my own comments.
1. I would not put in your profile about having a disability. Just about wanting to be accepted for you (we all want that so everyone can relate). I would tell a woman about it early on if she seems sincere. Honestly, if someone likes you for you, that won't matter, but get them there first.
I thought long and hard about this, before I too, left my handicaps for later. I have to say I think it was the best move I could have made. The ones you do tell it to when they contact you, will show what they are truely made of, by if they stay or if they never contact you again.
3. I would add the part about "I don't drink, I don't do drugs and I don't cheat."
:thumbsup
4. Talk on the Forums. It's fun and you meet great people. Seems to me that the success stories I've seen on here met that way and became friends first.
Absolutely. There are many people here whom have just accepted me for me.
5. Update. If you've been on here for 6 years, then it's been more than 3 yrs since you lost your wife to cancer.
Ohhhh,:
that looks bad could invalidate #3 if it is accurate
Best of luck
I haven't looked at your profile but I have highlighted some things I agree with here and given some of my own comments.
1. I would not put in your profile about having a disability. Just about wanting to be accepted for you (we all want that so everyone can relate). I would tell a woman about it early on if she seems sincere. Honestly, if someone likes you for you, that won't matter, but get them there first.
I thought long and hard about this, before I too, left my handicaps for later. I have to say I think it was the best move I could have made. The ones you do tell it to when they contact you, will show what they are truely made of, by if they stay or if they never contact you again.
3. I would add the part about "I don't drink, I don't do drugs and I don't cheat."
:thumbsup4. Talk on the Forums. It's fun and you meet great people. Seems to me that the success stories I've seen on here met that way and became friends first.
Absolutely. There are many people here whom have just accepted me for me.
5. Update. If you've been on here for 6 years, then it's been more than 3 yrs since you lost your wife to cancer.
Ohhhh,:
that looks bad could invalidate #3 if it is accurate Best of luck
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hollandgirl: Real slick to get that one in huh.
Called hinting?
It may work lets see and wait.
You always think there is an underlining motive,Called hinting?
It may work lets see and wait.
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mastic55: You always think there is an underlining motive, let's go for a roll in the hay and put an end to this nonsense.
Not a word of French in here lol, easy to understand.
Well it is the best offer I have had all day lol
I was just kidding with you.
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First thing to me, lighten up. Looking for a soulmate ... willing to relocate ... that's a bit too big of an order. Your profile should tell about you, what you like to do, and what kind of person you like. The dog pic is great, tell about him/her in your profile. Some of the others look just alike, could get rid of a few of them. If you're going to mention your disability in the profile, tell what it is and do it in an upbeat positive way. Have some fun with your profile, and don't ask for anything but friendship, the rest will happen when it's supposed to happen.
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